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That is simply because you let him. He cannot control how you feel or how you react by mere words, however cutting they may be. I think that it's silly to "rally the girls around" the great big ogre. You don't know him, you don't know his history, and you don't understand what he is trying to do or not to do. You just don't know. That being said, I've seen a lot of women get suckered into something about nothing.. We are trying our very best to understand each other, some are just harder to understand than others are. This in my opinion is the most unattractive part of women. Always gotta defend, play the victim, oneupmanship, vile words that are unnecessary, posts to some people out of your fantasy land. If you take a step back and really look, you will see a bunch of nut jobs running around with all of the above coming from some.

I'm not into popularity contests, and I do state my opinion. Please, before you look at anyone else, look to yourself, and see yourself for who you are. If you do that, you won't be suckered into much. You will have an unshakable self confidence, and that is truly a terrific thing to possess.

I think it is ironic this person is here, on a singles site, and manages to alienate nearly every single female in this site by argueing with, demeaning and insulting every single one of us.......

I can kind of guess who this person is, so i'd also like to add, there is no way to ban him from the site because he still manages to stay with in the rules, even though he made it clear he is not here to meet women or make friends.

How long is this going to go on with him starting arguements on almost every thread he posts in? I'm afraid, eventually he is going to scare most of us away and we won't have the forums we have now.

p.s. I don't need a thread to acknowledge the woman that I am. jmo

Well said.

Im having just as much fun as I always have. Because I have chosen to ignore it and not feed it.

[quote=mylifewithu]Well I don't care what anyone thinks about me and it won't harm me. But I don't have to embrace it, I am entitled to stand up for myself as well. I get to have a opinion also even if it isn't liked.[/quote

I agree, and most all of agree, as well, you can have your opnions and they can be disagreed with to be expected. but to have someone disagree and add disrespect is not acceptable. Well it can be accepted but you should not have to.
And the comments tha had been made towards some or most of the CS women, I just thought it would be nice for them to hear a better opinion of them. Face it ladies, we can take the crap said about us, but really isn't it nice to hear good things about your selves?

Everytime I had put up my opinion or suggestions in a post , I was attacked, How enjoyable is that.
I am here for fun and try to meet someone. He is not here for that reason other than to fight. But thread after thread I have to deal with it. And see others putting up with the same.

It sounds like this person that you are talking about wants attention.The best thing to do is to ignore this person.

Personally, I don't think any of you have to justify anything about yourselves just because someone is an idiot.

A few thousand that appreciate who and what you are vs. one dumbass ..... c'mon, don't waste your time worrying about it.

You're all great ...... I'd do .... I mean, be happy to know, any of you.

Very rarely am I inclined to go around with someone. Especially someone that I don't know and don't understand. Getting suckered into something is giving away your power to ignore. Ignore it and it will go away. I'm not saying that the guy will, but maybe over time he will soften a bit. Some women seem to feel the need to carry on, for no real reason.

Someone calls me fat--------alrighty then

Someone calls me a b*tch----------opinions vary

Argue with my opinion-I don't feel the need to justify myself, as it IS my opinion

whatever, let the innuendoes and the nastyness flow off your back like a springtime rain, instead of making it something bad, leave it alone, thus actually making it something good--for you

Your thread seems to be a sweeping generalization. There are jerks of both genders on here. Always were, always will be.

[quote=princess49503]I think it is ironic this person is here, on a singles site, and manages to alienate nearly every single female in this site by argueing with, demeaning and insulting every single one of us.......

I can kind of guess who this person is, so i'd also like to add, there is no way to ban him from the site because he still manages to stay with in the rules, even though he made it clear he is not here to meet women or make friends.

How long is this going to go on with him starting arguements on almost every thread he posts in? I'm afraid, eventually he is going to scare most of us away and we won't have the forums we have now.[/quote
It seems that any and all threads I would like to post on he is there, or short to follow, and he always has a way to get his digs in.
And where is it fair, that we have to ignor or not post our opinions while he is free to degrade any one who disagrees with his opinion.
If I have to skip threads because he is there or because he showed up then what is the sence of being in the forums.
But again I just want the women of CS to know they are respected and there company on CS is enjoyed by everyone.

I do that and not let it the words get to me, but at times when you are in a thread and having fun and here comes the mouth and puts a damper on everything. That can't be changed by ignoring, It still is in your face.

I just wanted opinions if other men seen the women here that way or not.

[quote=2catchastar]


in a perfect world, that is a nice sentiment, but not necessarily a true one. Not everyone respects all the women on here. Some of the women don't even respect the other women. That is just your opinion.

I can see that my advice has fallen mostly on deaf ears, as I already had a bet down that it would. A lot of women like to b*tch and whine and carry on and on and on......so have at it, if that's what makes yourselves feel better. I hope one day you can find something different to make yourself feel better that is more productive. Carry on............

WHO CARES???????????????????????????????



Care about what YOU think about YOURSELF.....

jmo

What thread was it in?

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your post has not fallen on def ears, lol you can safely say you lost that bet. I hear what you are saying and I agree. but yes the sentiment was a tru one.

A lot of threads, he said, she said.

How do we fix it. They open a thread about it. He opens a thread about it.

My advice is get over it. Alex is neither right or wrong. The women are neither right or wrong.

Both are wrong for feeding each other. The question needs to be asked if this is actually being enjoyed rather than trying to be stopped.

Both parties are wrong in my opinion.

I am thinking of myself ,I myself wanted to find out if the other men see all the women here like that one does. If so , then there is no chance in finding the right man for me here. I want respected, loved etc. And at the same time hoping to have fun while here.