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this thread is for people that are 'really talking '

I learned to learn from them.. not repeat them and most of all..........
Not to talk about them in public places

Mistake # 1 getting married the first time

Mistake # 2 getting married the second time

Misteak # 3 getting married the third time

What did I learn? I wasn't meant for marriage.

Believing in the Easter Bunny.

The moon is not made of cheese.

I'm cool.

so why have you joined the thread then ?

thats an interesting post gentlepaws !

1. whats the story behind the easter bunnies then ?

2.what made you think that the moon was made of chese then ...is it something they taught you as a kid ?

3. well one of the biggest mistakes i made in my life was loving other people more than i loved myself !....i'll never make that mistake again

so if i was you i would ' GET COOLER '

True - sometimes its best to keep it to yourself because you can never take it back once its out there

why have you joined this thread then ?

Gilly!!! What are the 3 biggest mistakes that you ever made in your life ? and what did you learn from it ?
As the host of the thread, you should have the opening confession....so, let's hear them!

i can talk about about the ten bigesst mistakes i made in my life and talk for hours about them with ....people that are really talking when the real talking starts ! ...in fact i can go even further as i have done on many of my threads...to then find that the people who challenge me to do so then disapear with nothing to say for themselves ...because they had nothing to say about themself in the first place !!! ..but just wanted to think and talk above ( or think they're thinking and talking people )!

Hmmm.. I've been thinking about this.. I can only think of one..

One that had I done it differently would have completely changed my life and my children's lives.. because even now the knock on effect and the ghostly leftovers of it all are STILL running.

and I know it's perhaps cliché, but it was taking back my husband .. after I had FINALLY got him to leave the first time.

My children were so tiny then.. that they would have forgotten almost everything that happened. Infact.. most of it wouldn't have even happened at all if I had kept him out then. So we wouldn't have ended up with (still) years of counselling.. 3 damaged children .. and £50 grand ($100 grand) debt (from his gambling)..

and my children would have grown up to be much more healthy and happy.

All those wasted years. That's the point I would turn the clock back to.

THAT was/is my biggest mistake.



Helloooooooo Gilly

And the answer to the question was...... out of the ten you are willing to offer, let's start with three!
Start the Real Talk!

welcome to the thread claaver !..because you're someone thats always really talking ....instead of making out that you're more intelligent or spiritually advanced than other people ( whilst not saying shit about anything and leaving people something to talk about ) !!!

INSTEAD YOU'RE ALSO SOMEONE THATS ALWAYS GOT LOTS TO SAY FOR YOURSELF !




tell you another mistake i made girl was loving my sons mother's father more than i loved my own father ( until he grabbed me by the sruff of my neck one night and threw me out of his house for slagging off his daughter in his living room )!

now there's a story about who to love... and how to love them ...or not love them for your ass for !!!



my father made me sick the following day when i went round to him to complain about my father in law throwing me out his house ./.he simply said

" serve you right you should'nt have gone round to the man's house if you no longer love his daughter "

AND THAT WAS JUST GOING ROUND ' TO MAKE THE PEACE ' SO THAT OUR SON WOULD'NT HAVE TO GO THROUGH WHAT THEY PUT THEY'RE DAUGHTER THROUGH ! ( FIGTHING IN AND OUT OF COURT AND FU*KING UP THE CHILDREN )!!



and he recemtly attended my fathers funeral got drunk and kept saying that he's left money for me in his will ...but i hardly spoke to him after the way he betrayed me ( which is another story )!

is'nt it sad when you naturly get on with your partners parents more than your own parents ( because they're unresrved more natural people that are always natural talking all the time )!

how did you get on with your inlaws claayer ?

could you ever love somebodies mum and dad more than you love your own ? ( and i'm not asking anybody else this question claayer i'm only asking you ) ??



tell you another mistake that i made was smoking ganja for months at pinewood film studios !

forget it ..you talk to the people you enjoy talking to..and i'll talk to the people i emjoy talking to

Fair enough! I wouldn't worry about that though!
As you opened the thread , you should have a starting oppinion.

She asked nicely.

PART 1

aaawww god bless you claayer you must have typing your reply to to thread at the same time that i was typing mine girl !


there's lots to talk about to people that are ' naturly talking ' hey before i forget there were 2 other huge caarear mistkes that i made in my life apart from what happened at pinewood studios !

1. was not allowing my civil enginnering company to transfer my apprenticeship to strand electrical when i was 19 years old, and the company wre making people redundant but because i was in the union and part of a contruction industry training skeme had to find somewhere else to continiue my training... so i had an interveiw with one of the companies big directors who made me feel like a pile of shit ..but after the interveiw said i 'd got the job.

well because i did'nt like HIM ...i foolishly turn down the best electrical training company apprenticeships i could have got and would have never met him again !



the whole thing in all honestly set me back about 10 years as an electrician because of everything the company did not just on building sites but more importaltly the film and television world !

2. being greedy and staying too long in BBC news and current affairs as a video lighting electrician because i was making lots of money instead of getting out whilst i could an escape to BBC FILMS at ealing studios where they make all the BBC costume dramas big films traveled the world working on bigger film sets meeting more interesting creative people than working for news and current affairs as a lighting man !

i would have been a top film cameraman like an lighting electrician freind of mine that made the move 20 years ago !




end of part 1

how can i know whether i am meant for marriage or not?

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gilly.... why are there so many ppl who seem to have smth against you? You seem to be a very pleasant person...( i haven't read any of ur previous posts yet )