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Think Dreamer that's part of the problem ........ is your waiting for love to come knock on your door. Truly it takes effort and commitment ............. kinda like finding a job. A lot of interviews and some possible leads or opportunities until you find the right fit.

Trust me, I have tried. Now, the question is what happens if that doesn't work? Effort isn't the promblem. I made an effort in high school, college, and of course, here on CS. Being here has made a difference.... slowly though.

If you are moving forward ....... that's good. Ask the counsel of others who know you and who you respect their advice. Sometimes we are not aware of things that we can easily change ... because that is the answer in the sense that what your doing now isn't working - so try something new.

As well, sometimes I think its not so much about focusing on finding another person to share our life with .... its about developing ourselves and learning to have a life that we love. People are attracted to others that have a happy fulfilling life - it radiates from them. Nothing wrong with taking the time for yourself - your worth it.

Excellent advice. It kills me when I hear young people crying about not being able to find love. Sorry, but you're young, enjoy it! You don't have to have someone to be happy. Do not get married or into a relationship just to have someone around so you won't be lonely. Trust me, the loneliest I've ever been was with someone in the room with me.

I tell kimberley that all the time. You don't need a boyfriend to enjoy life, the day will come when you will settle and can't get out there to enjoy it.

I've already tried something new. That's why I'm on CS.

Good ....... and I hope that you are slowly making some new friends. I see that you've changed your profile - much better!

As well, remember this is only one avenue to connect with others - there are many more opportunities within your own community, volunteering etc. Discovering what interests you .... life is happening with or without a partner for all of us ...... so reach out to others (guys and gals) and offer friendship. There are many ways to "connect" with others - a relationship (ie. girlfriend/boyfriend) is merely one of them.

I agree.........i'm finding all the "other ways".....

Yup me too... but when I do find a 'good' guy then I'll have the skills in relationships/communications to keep him (not saying these are the only things) but how can you sustain a relationship with a girlfriend/boyfriend if you are unable to sustain relationships with other people? So practice with others to get good when the relationship does come along.

I should learn how to be that straightforward. Kinda sounds a lil rude. I know it's not - it's a way to go

Mine too

Mine three!


Hi Luis

Hey bro...Good to see ya.....

Waz Up bro?

Hey sis

Sounds like we need some super goggles!