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Same here.

Ted Bundy was a real looker and smooth talker!

That is a very tricky one!
but I will keep it short. otherwise it would be an all night conversation.

Imagination can be and usually is- both real and made up. Not always our true self.

(don't get me wrong Patric)

just worded like that to keep it short, pretty complex for a one liner.

only in fantasy land.

Ted Bundy was a real looker and smooth talker!

My Imagination belongs to me? My memory of everything seen, heard, smelled, read outside of myself. And then put together in a pattern. Is that mine, or is that what is everyone else's?

only in fantasy land.

Ted Bundy was a real looker and smooth talker!

haha yeah he was..

be patient , please Patrick, I give you soon my view.

In my opinion, my imagination is fed by what I have passed through plus what I am able to create.
For instance some actors are so intense that they actually believe they are the person they represent, eat, sleep with that entity..it could apply to many kind of arts, writing, painting etc....
We could spend ages discussing this exciting subject.

If you wish to great!
But please start another thread for it. thanks

In my opinion, my imagination is fed by what I have passed through plus what I am able to create.
For instance some actors are so intense that they actually believe they are the person they represent, eat, sleep with that entity..it could apply to many kind of arts, writing, painting etc....
We could spend ages discussing this exciting subject.

Ok will start a separate thread on this as it is not fair to take over this thread on it, will mail you when i start it.
It may have to be after election day here on Thursday, as I am watching a political thread on Irish forum.

So many of us have been hurt, some of us many times, we get lied to and played with, used and discarded.
Are we looking for the right things, The right signs?

Do you really want what you think you want?

Heres what I mean.
Everyone knows the old saying.. you attract more flies with honey than with vinegar.
people looking for a mate know this also so they can put on such a sweet act-- for a while. and it seems so many fall for the act.. because it is so easy to fall for the one that says just the words we want to hear.

But consider. Do you really give it enough time to see if this sweetness it just and act, just a well thought out plow to capture you..
Really.. isn't that what usually gets you interested in someone to start with.
And then after the relationship got serious, did it fall apart and seem like you were with a stranger.

this person is a painted heart, and the paint soon fades or chips away.

now try looking at the Unpainted heart.
the person that is real, not just putting on a well practiced show, one that is sincere and realistic. The one that will always be caring and honest and not just constantly on a hunt for the words that you want to hear.

almost any flower attracts bees...
the common old weed, a dandelion, is always there, the hardest and harshest of weather has no affect on it,, you can tromp on it, burn it, cut it down or a million other drastic measures.
But it always stays firm.. bounces right back.

but take the scent and beauty of a rode.. just how strong will it hold up?
One good hail storm, flood, or even just a stiff wind and it is gone.
it is so hard and so much effort to keep it healthy and alive.

my point is.. just because something looks good and sounds good.
it very well may not hold up to the test, to the hard times.

What have you been overlooking?
Even a mocking bird has many beautiful songs....... they are just copies and none are truly its own.

Are we looking for the right things, The right signs?

Do you really want what you think you want?

my point is.. just because something looks good and sounds good.
it very well may not hold up to the test, to the hard times.

What have you been overlooking?

obsession

My cast is real.. want to come over and help out a chum?

Are you fishing for sharks with CHUM?