why are people so hung up on looks cause really its whats on the inside that counts for the longterm

created by: darlynda | Jun 9, 10:37 AM CST
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why are people so hung up on looks cause really its whats on the inside that counts for the longterm

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tufty
Chelmsford, Essex, England UK
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 2:06 PM CST
I'm sure some Cod have rather sparkling personality's... still wouldn't make me want to kiss one.....


Looks lure you in, personality holds or repels you.
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 2:11 PM CST
I'm not one to go on looks first ..

I met a guy on here over a year ago or so he had no picture posted. We talked in the forums and emails then on the phone and I fell for him for the person he was. I did see a what he looked like till months later.....

So I would say looks are not everything and whats on the inside does count more to me.
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 2:18 PM CST
ariesgirl003 wrote:
I'm not one to go on looks first ..

I met a guy on here over a year ago or so he had no picture posted. We talked in the forums and emails then on the phone and I fell for him for the person he was. I did see a what he looked like till months later.....

So I would say looks are not everything and whats on the inside does count more to me.
Wow that's a great story...so when you met, did his looks affect how you felt about him or were they totally irrelevant?
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slim1977
Grand Rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 2:18 PM CST
ariesgirl003 wrote:
I'm not one to go on looks first ..

I met a guy on here over a year ago or so he had no picture posted. We talked in the forums and emails then on the phone and I fell for him for the person he was. I did see a what he looked like till months later.....

So I would say looks are not everything and whats on the inside does count more to me.





see...... you used the power of the internet for what i feal it was ment for. to get to know someone for the person they are without having preconcieved notions and or opinions about someone baised purly on looks.
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:30 PM CST
Portiea wrote:
Wow that's a great story...so when you met, did his looks affect how you felt about him or were they totally irrelevant?


We never met he took a pic and sent it to me over my cell but at that point his looks didn't matter I got to know him for the person he is. Long story short we don't talk anymore.....
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:33 PM CST
slim1977 wrote:
see...... you used the power of the internet for what i feal it was ment for. to get to know someone for the person they are without having preconcieved notions and or opinions about someone baised purly on looks.



Yeah I feel the same way...
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jimmysolo
CARDIFF UK
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 8:35 AM CST
hi darlynda..i think its really that looks draw you, and the inside keeps you.......you have to have an attraction..and intially its the looks..but it will go beyond that to who one is inside...........
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gillyloves69
london, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 9:51 AM CST
Ricco wrote:
I like inside



thumbs up

yeah thats true lets see a picture of the inside instead !


applause rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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sillyricky55
San Diego, California USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 11:32 AM CST
dcj22 wrote:
Most of us accept people for who they are on the inside, but one must also have a physical attraction for a relationship. Personally, I know I wouldn't be able to make love with someone I wasn't physically attracted to. That isn't to say that in some cases you may not be physically attracted to someone to begin with, but it may grow as you get to know them.


I get that. Because if the physical is not there, folks tend to be real idiots and cause misery. I could not be with someone I was not attracted to either.
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EvilV
Norristown, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 11:46 AM CST
We can all yak about
"its what's inside that counts" blah blah blah but let's face it, you look at a picture here and decide instantly if you will answer the email or not. Yes, to an extent looks matter. Its all part of the mating process even if its done subconscously its still done.

We are all attracted to certain traits. Things we look for. We try to overlook things or if given time find things ABOUT the person we fall in love with.
We are all looking for the same thing but yet at the same time different things.

V.
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 9:41 PM CST
EvilV wrote:
We can all yak about
"its what's inside that counts" blah blah blah but let's face it, you look at a picture here and decide instantly if you will answer the email or not. Yes, to an extent looks matter. Its all part of the mating process even if its done subconscously its still done.

We are all attracted to certain traits. Things we look for. We try to overlook things or if given time find things ABOUT the person we fall in love with.
We are all looking for the same thing but yet at the same time different things.

V.



Good looking or not, picture or no picture I return every email thats just the nice thing to do and if you don't like them just tell them. I have made some really great friends here.
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Ricco
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 9:48 PM CST
ariesgirl003 wrote:
Good looking or not, picture or no picture I return every email thats just the nice thing to do and if you don't like them just tell them. I have made some really great friends here.


Do you have enough time to answer all your mails?
daisy
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:09 PM CST
Ricco wrote:
Do you have enough time to answer all your mails?


LOL yes I dolaugh
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diogenes
Longview, Texas USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:11 PM CST
It's all pink on the inside giggle
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:14 PM CST
diogenes wrote:
It's all pink on the inside



confused
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Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:14 PM CST
O



MY



GAWSH DIO!!!


i truly just came in here to see what you said

welllll i was believe it or not

shocked
and lmao

and i got to see muh jersey girl

woot woot

grin

why is it always my bedtime when the cool people show up?
sometimes i feel like when i was 8 and had to go to bed when the grownups were just starting to arrive

stoopid doorbell-who could sleep anyway!very mad
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Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:16 PM CST
please lord
dont let him explain


wow!
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:17 PM CST
mindfful wrote:
O
MY
GAWSH DIO!!!i truly just came in here to see what you said

welllll i was believe it or not

shocked
and lmao

and i got to see muh jersey girl

woot woot



why is it always my bedtime when the cool people show up?
sometimes i feel like when i was 8 and had to go to bed when the grownups were just starting to arrive

stoopid doorbell-who could sleep anyway!



The one and onlygrin
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ariesgirl003
Bangin, New Jersey USA
Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:18 PM CST
mindfful wrote:
please lord
dont let him explain


He is talking about his Bumrolling on the floor laughing
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Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 10:32 PM CST
how do you know?
have you seen it?

is it really pink?
like a baby bottom?
i wanna see!!applause

crap you late nighters!
i really have to go

have a great weekend hon
fishing rocks and so does havin yer pops!

worst sunburn i ever got was crabbin on the shore

it was the day of strapless bandeau bikini tops
my boobs were burnt so bad they peeled for weeks

but i mostly remember the fun




wave hug here's to you
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