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Hi Morgan

hellooo

Agree

But I haven't always had Earl

And it was a miracle we didn't on our first day We were attracted to each other while IM'ng...telephone calls, etc...but our first meeting cemented our mutual attraction... Hey, Listen folks, Earl & I do not take for granite our blessedness...I mean an online love affair that works...it's rare and each day we're together I thank God above that we both took such a chance that a Long Distance Romance could actually work. We have our differences, but each night we kiss and tell each other we Love one another before falling asleep

I'm very very very glad we didn't Make Love our first date...I know I needed time to make sure what we had was Love and not just hormones

KidaHeart...you're a Handsome Sweetie...

Peaches

Life is a personal choice. The last relationship I was in, she jumped my bones the first night we met in person. I had 4 wonderful years with that lady, it was all good. The bad times were simply a matter of perception.

Our journeys took seperate paths, she is entitled to live her life as she chooses just as I am. Do I still have love for her as a human being? Sure I do.. Would I desire to have the relationship back? No thank you, but I do wish her all the happiness in the world.

It's horses for courses really isn't it.If you want to that's fine, if not that's fine too.

The main thing is you get on well and have a good time together.Getting into the sack doesn't have a lot to do with ending a date.

If two consenting adults decide to do the cucumber rumba on the first date. Good luck to them.

And there you have it. When the dust settles, what do you really want in the end?
Does one want to live out of their love for the other person
or strictly out of their hormones?
If it's love, and you're looking for love, well I'm thinking things must naturally go slower...if it's hormones, well, sky's the limit.
Man must know himself.

You mean if you *don't* want to, it's more or less obligatory?

oh yeah

No, EVEN if you really want to. Nor on the second, third or forth date. JMHO. I think of it this way - what IF a pregnancy does occur? THEN WHAT?

I guess that would depend on how long it has been since I last had sex.

Ah, but I have a vasectomy.
Think I'll have that tatooed on me

I see your point. It is all individual preference.

Not telling!!

Wouldn't it be bad to have sex on the first date if you really don't want to?

seriously: Would they think less of you?
Don't matter.. I would think less of myself.

I still don't on a second date.. just my preference.

But it has been so darn long.......Would a hooker be considered a date?

MY poll showed that yes you should go for it if you want it.

Lets be honest...smile....

IF you want it you want it, trying to play games does no one any good.....

Well looking for a lady in the Newark Ohio area.....

Yes Yes Yes Goddddddddd Yes

I tried not to. She tried not to. We agreed not to. It didn't work. We fucked like rabbits and the date ended 3 days later. Almost a month have passed and we're not regretting it.