should you have sex on the first date even if you really want to

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should you have sex on the first date even if you really want to

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yoursuperman
Lynchburg, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 2:03 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Must be exciting whatever it is, because for some reason I'm starting to get excited.
Me too :)grin
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gtbulldog2
Towson, Maryland USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 2:04 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Hello Thomas
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 2:31 AM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
That's slud....don't forget the correct terminology.....and we sluds...sleep with who we want and when...preferably 5 minutes after meeting...in keeping with protocol!!!!!!!!!
Oh yes, I'm a slud and proud of it! giggle
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Manolito
a strfilled galaxy far faraway, Inner London, England UK
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 2:34 AM CST
Hoi, if i really want to have sex on the first date. then i am having sex on the first date.

on the other hand, that would be a faaar bet for me, since i cant imagine myself wanting that on a first date any more. Not that it hasn;t happened in the past a couple of times, but that's the exception wave
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 2:57 AM CST
Manolito wrote:
Hoi, if i really want to have sex on the first date. then i am having sex on the first date.

on the other hand, that would be a faaar bet for me, since i cant imagine myself wanting that on a first date any more. Not that it hasn;t happened in the past a couple of times, but that's the exception
Yeah, ok. comfort

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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:20 AM CST
as a matter of fact it is the best option

first you meet and you have sex

if the sex is not good, you part being friends

if the sex is good you can work things out and have a relationship
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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:26 AM CST
glad it's going well darlyndayay
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:27 AM CST
One poll question you forgot..

Whose business is it what two consenting adults do?grin
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:39 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
One poll question you forgot..

Whose business is it what two consenting adults do?



I'll go with that option....wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers
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lorax111
richmond, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 8:58 PM CST
sxc666 wrote:
yes it is a real question. Why? some like anal some don't.

I'm on the keep it out of the poo shoot list.


Oops ,I guess I should have read the initial post. I thought that was a general statement. I will however make a note that there is no entrance in the back of the building.


Dennis
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lorax111
richmond, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:22 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
One poll question you forgot..

Whose business is it what two consenting adults do?


I agree completely, but I live in the commonwealth of Virginia and state law feels otherwise. In Virginia oral sex is a fellony. Same sex relationships are illegal. A man living with a woman he is not related or married to is illegal. A man in a car with a woman not wearing her shoes can be charged with rape. I'ts a real pain trying to perform with big brother looking over your shoulder.


Dennis
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kkitty
Minnesota USA
Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:38 PM CST
oh hell I hope everyone gets lucky
including myself yay
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moutainman69
springfield, Missouri USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:27 PM CST
No you should wait until your married so that it ios more meaningful and everlasting. After all there is no one like you in the world so make it special just like you.
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Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:32 PM CST
I've already said, you should never kiss and swell on the first dateprofessor
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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:41 PM CST
I prefer not to. I believe that if you are going to date a person, you are usually physically, or emotionally attracted to that person.

What kind of example would you be setting for yourself and showing your date if you give up yourself on the first date.

Usually, people date because of an attraction and when you sleep with somone on the first date, you are showing that person that you have no will power, self respect or morals!

If you want to continue to date this person, give it time, find out how this person is, his beliefs, actions, loves, interests, etc.

How do you know this relationship would work out and if it doesn't, what are you showing yourself as well as others that you give yourself freely to anyone that would date you for the first time.

Anyone that says to go with your feelings usually isn't looking for long term relationship anyway.
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:47 PM CST
moutainman69 wrote:
No you should wait until your married so that it ios more meaningful and everlasting. After all there is no one like you in the world so make it special just like you.



D'oh!
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:48 PM CST
somechick wrote:
I prefer not to. I believe that if you are going to date a person, you are usually physically, or emotionally attracted to that person.

What kind of example would you be setting for yourself and showing your date if you give up yourself on the first date.

Usually, people date because of an attraction and when you sleep with somone on the first date, you are showing that person that you have no will power, self respect or morals!

If you want to continue to date this person, give it time, find out how this person is, his beliefs, actions, loves, interests, etc.

How do you know this relationship would work out and if it doesn't, what are you showing yourself as well as others that you give yourself freely to anyone that would date you for the first time.

Anyone that says to go with your feelings usually isn't looking for long term relationship anyway.


You're fairly smart thumbs up laugh
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 8:48 PM CST
somechick wrote:
I prefer not to. I believe that if you are going to date a person, you are usually physically, or emotionally attracted to that person.

What kind of example would you be setting for yourself and showing your date if you give up yourself on the first date.

Usually, people date because of an attraction and when you sleep with somone on the first date, you are showing that person that you have no will power, self respect or morals!

If you want to continue to date this person, give it time, find out how this person is, his beliefs, actions, loves, interests, etc.

How do you know this relationship would work out and if it doesn't, what are you showing yourself as well as others that you give yourself freely to anyone that would date you for the first time.

Anyone that says to go with your feelings usually isn't looking for long term relationship anyway.


Haven't we had 5 or 6 dates already???confused

devil




uh oh!




hole
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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 9:05 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Haven't we had 5 or 6 dates already???


You're funny


I must've slept through that one.

The last time I was ever in Az was more then 5 years ago on my way to California.:

roll: rolling on the floor laughing sticking out tongue
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 14, 2008, 9:10 PM CST
somechick wrote:
You're funnyI must've slept through that one.

The last time I was ever in Az was more then 5 years ago on my way to California.:

roll:


Well, I was thinking it was a while back.. I am old & senile, was it that long ago?confused


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