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You know, as thanking them for taking the time to look at your profile... you don't have to send a flower to all, you can skip the creepy ones... or block them.

you know i would land up finding just a handful then .. somehow most of them look creepy in one way or another ...

Nope, I turn that off, so I can look at profiles without disturbing the creepy ones

And I don't need to thank anyone for wasting their time looking at my ugly, old face

Thanks for saying. AS someone who sends flowers I greatly appreciate it.

What's to thank them for??????? Passing us over? They've looked and not be interested because otherwise they would have written or sent a flower in the first place.

Human decency and human respect should pique people to do random acts of kindness and humility for others. You just never know what returns could come your way. I also send flowers and sometimes cards also. Thoughtfulness is a virtue and kindness can never be measured by time.

What makes them creepy?

Or thinking about it doing just that.Some people are thinkers and slow responders but not necessarily no responders.

Could you define ?

somehow most of them look creepy in one way or another.

Hhm ........ I'm still waiting for a heck of a lot of men to send me flowers then! I'd have a whole garden full if that were the case .......... alas there are a few independent species that are unique and original that have graced my garden with their presence.

Patience is the magic word.

Maybe its just me .. but when i have been through peoples profiles ... there are reasons enough to be wary.

A lot of times the views are followed by correspondence which clearly indicates they have no idea about you from your profile or usually havent even read it.

creep is a word i would use generally .. it might be wrong but i would worry about me first. I find it strange to keep looking up someones profile day after day and not say a thing.

For someone who is only here for friends its enough reasons i think.

Oh yes, I fully realize that - and two people willing to put the effort into getting to know one another.

What?

I just like looking at you okay?

Yes, I'd experienced this as well ............... and its kinda like hhm ... if you're interested in getting to know me why not simply write me? I think I'm pretty approachable most of the time.

you are exempted.

and then the mails that follow phew.

I know i am being mean in what i said cos barring some of the "viewed me list" people .. all the guys on the forum have been very very respectful and dignified and i have never had any issues whatsoever.

But thats what has been my experience.

True enough but how do you find the other person ? You have to sort out your friend material { not really interested in relationships,only here for Forums and making friends } from your possible future partner material. { want a lasting relationship }

Takes time and effort , but hopefully worth it. You wind up with a bunch of non dateable buddies and some sincere candidates.

Wishing lots of flowers,im's and emails.

To the two guys who always take the time to rate my pics a 10....thank you...drop me a line sometime!!!!!

riya owes me about 42 thank you's



hey no kidding tho outrageous
i know a gal who contacted guys who viewed or rated her that she found interesting and met some nice guys that way
i thot she was brilliant

she kept meeting nice guys here that arent in forums and i was like how are you doin that?

when she told me i about fell over
duuuuh-
shes a smartypants and shes scoopin up the ones we are ignoring

lets not empty the forums but i think its a good strategy!!