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Hellooo Ken

Hi Steven .. haha.. I'm not using a Pc.. so I can't quote either of you. .. and that's why it's taken me so long.. because I'm not using a Pc.. and this is NOT easy..lol

Awww Flattery will get you everywhere

Hi Scottishlass

I definitely know how you feel, Ive been single for 3 years and have learnt to rely on myself a lot and am now very independent. Dating does scares me as its getting used to having someone new in your life again, but Im now willing to give it a go.

I dont like to think what would scare me about the next step, I think I will wait and see what happens when I meet someone - then panic!

I enjoy meeting people, getting to know a guy over coffee or lunch. But then the "letdown" when there's no second meeting or the dialog just tapers off.

Oi!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm just scared I date someone from off here whose pic I only rated a 1

What is scary for me is to meet them in person, what if they do not like me and it is awkard, what do you say?

Next is will they ask to see me again and not do you say something?

Last is when they want to get physical and you say no not right away they think you are a prude.

Guess that me out

And why is that hun?

falling deeply in love is my fear .

iv loved before dont get me wrong but i only ever let it go so far before i push back and run ,so iv never been in a deep love before but it frightens the crap out of me ,im hoping to change that here .



good thread

What scares you the most about the "next step?"[/quote]

Hello Scottishlass,


I never let anything to scare me, and I have no fear of any hardships, which might come along in my progress of personal and professional life. It's only the matter of time, the sooner I match with someone the better for her and me. Believe me.

Never be disappointed and never give up, keep on going until you get what you want.

what scares me the most is not being what that person is expecting.. As much as I hate disappoitment, I hate disappointing others more!

hey every 1 im nu 2 dis site !fell free 2 leave me a comment etc.in regards 2 what i wud fear most one words sums it up 4 me REJECTION!!

Every thing !!!! I even get nervous replying to mail !!

Nothing to be completely honest with you. I'd rather take a chance then sit home and feel sorry for myself. Gotta make it happen. Screw fear....

Completely agree with you and Ricco.

I mean, what can POSSIBLY happen if one is disappointed or disappoints the other person by not being what they expected??? You just say "t'was nice to meet you, bye" and keep going until you indeed find what you need. Sure it can put you off for a while sometimes (if it was particularly bad), but not for too long hopefully - just need to get up and try at it again. Dating to find the right person is sometimes far from FUN... But ya gotta do it to find the right one...

We're talking dating Claire, why would you have to give up any of that? Even if it became more, you don't have to give up who you are, if someone is doing all those things, they obviously aren't the right one for you.

That's just wrong ship, if they're expecting you to be something other than what you are, they're the one with the problem, not you.