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This morning i got a mail from a guy i have never seen before it said.' Are you Working??? ' which could be taken a couple of ways, anyway i didn't answer it. About 20 mins later i get another mail sayin
' Why are you so cold?? Know wonder you are single probably stay that way the rest of your life'..... I am just confused by this . Would you have answered the original mail ??? just welcome your views

Nope....Not if I had never talked to him before and judging by his response...It's a good thing you don't!!!!!!

Reply : Yep, on avoiding arseholes, bye !

hmmm ...

I think its perfectly ok not to reply to a stranger if you dont want to .. its a choice of free will .

If the other person gets offended because you want talk .. well .. what can u do .. thats how i see it.

And provocation is an excellent technique to make someone reply. I got abuse in return for saying for saying thankyou but i am not interested.

His second mail just showed that you were right to ignore him hun

I would delete both mails and forget it. He's a jerk.

When I get emails from people that I have not initially interacted within the forums, my general response is: Please, join the international forums, it's a terrific way to get to know a person.

Once in awhile, they ask why I just don't talk to them one on one and I end up just saying the same thing I had said in the previous email.


When I do get nasty grams like the one you mentioned, I respond by thanking them. Then telling them that they just proved my initial response to them and I love being right!
I never hear from those ones again

Hi tufty i didn't understand what he was getting at, just was a bit gob smacked at his second mail

No, I wouldn't have answered the first one. Atleast you know you didn't pass anything up....

I shall act a little annoying now by sounding like a broken record ...

One guy flowered .. " wow , i am interested " ... ok .. i dont reply.
Next he mails ... I want you for 1 night , how much .

I blocked him.

He continueswith commenting on my pic and then sending a friends request.

Hi riya , yep i have to when iv'e been polite and said no thanks. Get these kinda mails from certain countries as a rule, this one was from an American think that suprized me a bit

I would not have answered it either since I did not know him . Strange way to start a conversation.

Obviously a nut!!! don't worry about it sweetie... there should be Psychometric tests issues as a matter of course on these sites to protect us from these idiots ....

that's really not nice

Hey Morgan...Are you working?

hmm i have noticed such a pattern too .. sad really.

hi jitty thought he might have been askin if i was a working girl

Stay Away!.......this person has made some quick assumptions about you and if they do it now, they probably always will. Everybody makes assumptions about others. Sometimes they are are correct and sometimes they are pleasantly wrong. But with this comment, I would advise staying away....IMO

sooorry kitty

thanks actually i blocked him when i got second mail