I'm Confused....... Can You Help??????

Arlene101
Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:08 PM CST

I just another e-mail from the last guy only different words promising his oyalty and undying devotion to me so WE can be happy forever. He must be a mass e-mailer.

I need a break. Chat all later.

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:14 PM CST

geez arlene you could get that from me

or a dog

people are weirD

have a nice one

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:16 PM CST

prncss4someone wrote:

When I get emails from people that I have not initially interacted within the forums, my general response is: Please, join the international forums, it's a terrific way to get to know a person.

Once in awhile, they ask why I just don't talk to them one on one and I end up just saying the same thing I had said in the previous email.When I do get nasty grams like the one you mentioned, I respond by thanking them. Then telling them that they just proved my initial response to them and I love being right!
I never hear from those ones again

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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:18 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

This morning i got a mail from a guy i have never seen before it said.' Are you Working??? ' which could be taken a couple of ways, anyway i didn't answer it. About 20 mins later i get another mail sayin
' Why are you so cold?? Know wonder you are single probably stay that way the rest of your life'..... I am just confused by this . Would you have answered the original mail ??? just welcome your views

hahah they want to know if you are working and what kind of job you have and then they will say i would like to come to ur country

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:38 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

This morning i got a mail from a guy i have never seen before it said.' Are you Working??? ' which could be taken a couple of ways, anyway i didn't answer it. About 20 mins later i get another mail sayin
' Why are you so cold?? Know wonder you are single probably stay that way the rest of your life'..... I am just confused by this . Would you have answered the original mail ??? just welcome your views

are you saying i shold wait one hour at least?

or i shuold use a diferent ice breaker?

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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:42 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

hmmm ...

I think its perfectly ok not to reply to a stranger if you dont want to .. its a choice of free will .

If the other person gets offended because you want talk .. well .. what can u do .. thats how i see it.

And provocation is an excellent technique to make someone reply. I got abuse in return for saying for saying thankyou but i am not interested.

A very clever answer from a very clever Woman

I think Riya right, i think he maybe from school boy pull the girls ponytails
type of man to get attention

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:46 PM CST

here? block him

private mail? delete before opening it

why would that even bother you? are his words the voice of your own conscience?

people say anything they feel like when they are rejected

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:51 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:

hahah they want to know if you are working and what kind of job you have and then they will say i would like to come to ur country

used to that, this guy was American living in the States, that's what made it different

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:51 PM CST

alex_192 wrote:

are you saying i shold wait one hour at least?

or i shuold use a diferent ice breaker?

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 12:54 PM CST

cristina wrote:

here? block him

private mail? delete before opening it

why would that even bother you? are his words the voice of your own conscience?

people say anything they feel like when they are rejected

i didn't say it bothered me i was confused why not answering made me cold hearted? sorry i must be stupid but i don't understand what you mean 'voice of your own conscience' ??

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Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:12 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

This morning i got a mail from a guy i have never seen before it said.' Are you Working??? ' which could be taken a couple of ways, anyway i didn't answer it. About 20 mins later i get another mail sayin
' Why are you so cold?? Know wonder you are single probably stay that way the rest of your life'..... I am just confused by this . Would you have answered the original mail ??? just welcome your views

No, I would not and I would also block that person, after the first email. I wouldn't give someone like that a chance to email me a second time. I have gotten emails similar to yours and I block them IMMEDIATELY!!!!

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bluebelle4000
dublin, Meath Ireland

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:17 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

hi jitty thought he might have been askin if i was a working girl

Hi Morgan

Used to get a few mails with that line and never answered until one guy wrote back and apologised he meant to say was i online at work... but i dont blame u for not answering.. ..he was very rude in his second email and no need for that at all.. manners cost nothing.....

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:23 PM CST

morgan thats what i thot he was askin ya too??

we think alike

its that sultry pic im tellin ya

shoulda told him he cant afford it

have a nice evenin miss

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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:25 PM CST

morganlee wrote:

i didn't say it bothered me i was confused why not answering made me cold hearted? sorry i must be stupid but i don't understand what you mean 'voice of your own conscience' ??

I can't always be a puddin can i?

It means if you were feeling guilty? What's the problem if someone tells me that i will always be ingle because i'm arrogant?

Girl, we use "why bother" for anything, not that things really bother...way of expression.

"am i fat?"
- why bother

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RedHeadedTaurus
Here, Michigan USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:31 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

hmmm ...

I think its perfectly ok not to reply to a stranger if you dont want to .. its a choice of free will .

If the other person gets offended because you wont talk .. well .. what can u do .. thats how i see it.

I agree. Can't be bothered with rude, tactless people...

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:48 PM CST

Scottishlass wrote:

No, I would not and I would also block that person, after the first email. I wouldn't give someone like that a chance to email me a second time. I have gotten emails similar to yours and I block them IMMEDIATELY!!!!

that is asuming too much from a firt mail

now a days, where people are on line at work, and also IM with friends while they are supose to be working, a mail asking id she is working, as to avoid bothering her at her job you are asuming it is rude

the second mail is the one that actually prouve he was rude

why dont people give the benefit of the doubt?

will you block some one for his mispellings (he might be a scamer)

or will you block somme one that is 102 years old because he does not fit your requiremebt of being not older than 99

dont you think that if we all give the benefit of the doubt in the first time we are aproached this world would be a better place?

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:48 PM CST

Scottishlass wrote:

No, I would not and I would also block that person, after the first email. I wouldn't give someone like that a chance to email me a second time. I have gotten emails similar to yours and I block them IMMEDIATELY!!!!

i got the mail really early and was packing to move and a little pre occupied didn,t return to pc until the secon one arrived then i blocked it

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:52 PM CST

mindfful wrote:

morgan thats what i thot he was askin ya too??

we think alike

its that sultry pic im tellin ya

shoulda told him he cant afford it

have a nice evenin miss

phew! thought it was just my mind

i did have the pic that showed my feet and got mail from people with a foot fetish, so changed it back

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spiceygamble
Not home, North Carolina USA

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:56 PM CST

I think this guy must be making rounds.
*geeze...

I wonder... was he dropped on his head much as a child?

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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 12, 2008, 1:57 PM CST

spiceygamble wrote:

I think this guy must be making rounds.
*geeze...

I wonder... was he dropped on his head much as a child?

maybe

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