Are you looking to be dominate or submissive?

moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 11:34 AM CST

It seems to me... the more I look around at different web sites the more men I see that don't want to be the dominate ones in the relationships anymore.

Back in the days before the Christan Religion came into play women were the dominate ones in society and it worked off of a matriarchal system instead of a patriarchal system. Do you think we might be naturally gravitating back to a matriarchal system?

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Justme4uok
Northern CA, California USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 11:44 AM CST

I did not vote because the answer was not available that I would have selected. I think both women and men should share control...... You take the reins to the buggy one day and I'll take the reins the next day... This way we get to show each other a differenct path to get to the same place.

Now damnit get back in the buggy so we can get home!

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moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 11:50 AM CST

Justme4uok wrote:

I did not vote because the answer was not available that I would have selected. I think both women and men should share control...... You take the reins to the buggy one day and I'll take the reins the next day... This way we get to show each other a differenct path to get to the same place.

Now damnit get back in the buggy so we can get home!

LOL.... fair enough.. I don't think I can alter it now that I've created it can I?

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2catchastar
Corning, New York USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:03 PM CST

I am both! depends on where and who I am with, and what is the circumstances? Either or is not up there.

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DaisyChick
Portland, Oregon USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:28 PM CST

Justme4uok wrote:

I did not vote because the answer was not available that I would have selected. I think both women and men should share control...... You take the reins to the buggy one day and I'll take the reins the next day... This way we get to show each other a differenct path to get to the same place.

I agree completely!

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RedHeadedTaurus
Here, Michigan USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:45 PM CST

Didn't vote, cause there was no option appropriate, for me.

I'm a rather dominant chick, for the most part... I can, however, do a great job at being submissive - if I want to......

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:54 PM CST

Just in the bedroom....

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:56 PM CST

Careful....some might find this inappropriate

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RedHeadedTaurus
Here, Michigan USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:58 PM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

Careful....some might find this inappropriate

And?

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:58 PM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

Careful....some might find this inappropriate

Oh well....how about this....men should take control in the bedroom because it is in accordance with the natural laws (primal/instinctive) of our earthly ways....lol

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RedHeadedTaurus
Here, Michigan USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 12:59 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

Oh well....how about this....men should take control in the bedroom because it is in accordance with the natural laws (primal/instinctive) of our earthly ways....lol

Tee-hee!

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:00 PM CST

I'm dominantly submissive....

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StressFree
small city, Kalmar Sweden

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:02 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

I'm dominantly submissive....

damn straight woman...

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:03 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

damn straight woman...

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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:04 PM CST

moonfoxinthesnow wrote:

It seems to me... the more I look around at different web sites the more men I see that don't want to be the dominate ones in the relationships anymore.

Back in the days before the Christan Religion came into play women were the dominate ones in society and it worked off of a matriarchal system instead of a patriarchal system. Do you think we might be naturally gravitating back to a matriarchal system?

I think that religion has imposed patriarchal morality for far too long and whislt I dont exactly condone a matriarchal society I do think that women have had to bear the brunt of male domination for far too long - the Adam and Eve stuff is definitely wearing thin as people realise that the strengths of personality are not necessarily gender dominated..........

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sweet1of2
Charleston USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 1:22 PM CST

I voted but only because I enjoy being submissive in the bedroom

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moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 2:56 PM CST

StressFree wrote:

Oh well....how about this....men should take control in the bedroom because it is in accordance with the natural laws (primal/instinctive) of our earthly ways....lol

two thumbs up for that!

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moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 2:58 PM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

Careful....some might find this inappropriate

I was in the mood for intelligent conversation.... yes it might ruffle a few feathers.. but I'm now worried about that.. we are all adults here... and I seem fairly good at keeping the peace.

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lusciousmile
Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 4:38 PM CST

Depends on how tired he is.

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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA

Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 4:49 PM CST

well i like to be submissive i admit it, it turns me on when a woman says im doin things her way...

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