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is there such a thing as a faithful significant other?

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:22 PM CST
really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?confused dunno sigh
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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:25 PM CST
darlynda wrote:
really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?


no unless you're blind
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WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:25 PM CST
I would have never believed it in year's past - but I do now. They're one in a million, though!
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:26 PM CST
Yep sure can let's get married, i will show you the way...ooooh baby i love the way everday yeah yeah i wanna ...
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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:27 PM CST
one thing is to look and admire, even give an opinion and the other is to actually go and be unfaithful
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:27 PM CST
darlynda wrote:
really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?


I reckon its great to look and keeps an amount of healthy interest going so I dont reckon its what the eyes see half so much as its about what the mind can control.............
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PeachesandRay
Concord, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:30 PM CST
darlynda wrote:
really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?


It's not the wandering eye that bothers me so much...it's what happens beyond the wandering eye. Men are visual and I believe most men do look at other women, but it's what they do with the look, does it turn to lust, or can he simply enjoy the glance and then turn to the love of his life and keep his heart and faithfulness to her true?

JMO, Peacheslips

Women nowdays look more often too, so the same choice of faithfulness is theirs to make as well angel

Faithfulness for me is a mustprofessor I give it and I require it handshake
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Broadway_Baby
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:31 PM CST
It is natural when married to look at someone you like the look of, but to act on your feelings is a different matter.

Nowadays people don't feel it morally wrong to divorce and break the marriage vows.

I feel sorry for your pain, original poster, but this situation is so common. Don't let it ruin you mood. It takes time for the pain to heal, but you will pick yourself up and you will feel proud of yourself for conquering your sadness. I hope you find happiness soon.
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:32 PM CST
PeachesandRay wrote:
It's not the wandering eye that bothers me so much...it's what happens beyond the wandering eye. Men are visual and I believe most men do look at other women, but it's what they do with the look, does it turn to lust, or can he simply enjoy the glance and then turn to the love of his life and keep his heart and faithfulness to her true?

JMO, Peaches

Women nowdays look more often too, so the same choice of faithfulness is theirs to make as well

Faithfulness for me is a must I give it and I require it
I was faithful to you and ray....grin
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:34 PM CST
PeachesandRay wrote:
It's not the wandering eye that bothers me so much...it's what happens beyond the wandering eye. Men are visual and I believe most men do look at other women, but it's what they do with the look, does it turn to lust, or can he simply enjoy the glance and then turn to the love of his life and keep his heart and faithfulness to her true?

JMO, Peaches

Women nowdays look more often too, so the same choice of faithfulness is theirs to make as well

Faithfulness for me is a must I give it and I require it



thumbs up me too - dont mind in the least the looking - maybe theres a bit of this here thats about how we, as women can help by recognising and maybe roll playing to their fantasies dunno
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PeachesandRay
Concord, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:36 PM CST
cardsfan24 wrote:
I was faithful to you and ray....


Hi Mr. Good Looking and Crazyteddy bear

You're just Adorablekiss

Oops, guess I'm missing my hubbysigh he's in NH visiting his sons for Father's Day Weekendyay

And I'm home alone..actually by choice though, his sons needed to have Dear Ole Dad all to theirselves, they've not seen him since December at Christmas time when we flew them in...and my back is out of whack right now, going to the Dr. on Monday for a checkupdancing

Good to see you back on CS again...the Zoo's just not the same without chadevil
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PeachesandRay
Concord, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:37 PM CST
trish123 wrote:
me too - dont mind in the least the looking - maybe theres a bit of this here thats about how we, as women can help by recognising and maybe roll playing to their fantasies


Fantasy Roleplaying.....Great Ideadevil devil
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:39 PM CST
PeachesandRay wrote:
Hi Mr. Good Looking and Crazy

You're just Adorable

Oops, guess I'm missing my hubby he's in NH visiting his sons for Father's Day Weekend

And I'm home alone..actually by choice though, his sons needed to have Dear Ole Dad all to theirselves, they've not seen him since December at Christmas time when we flew them in...and my back is out of whack right now, going to the Dr. on Monday for a checkup

Good to see you back on CS again...the Zoo's just not the same without cha
Hello back gorgeous well you tell him to watch out im coming over...nah i hope he has a great time...

Eww on the back...im sorry you think the doc will fix it??

Yep back on cs trying to stir the animals up to lead a revolution into the future..
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:42 PM CST
PeachesandRay wrote:
Fantasy Roleplaying.....Great Idea


Thanks Sheila - I really do think its a healthy thing in a relationship - mutual indulgence - ummmmmm grin what I wouldnt give for even half a chance laugh
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PeachesandRay
Concord, North Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:43 PM CST
cardsfan24 wrote:
Hello back gorgeous well you tell him to watch out im coming over...nah i hope he has a great time...

Eww on the back...im sorry you think the doc will fix it??

Yep back on cs trying to stir the animals up to lead a revolution into the future..


That's the reason all us CS ladies...love you so muchsmitten ..you're ready at a moment's notice to rescue our lonely heartsheart beating devil

Yeah I rode my motorcycle the other day and could not go more than 20 miles without stopping to rest the ole back...and it's 900+ miles one way up to NH...we'd still be trying to get there if I had went.sad flower
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:43 PM CST
cardsfan24 wrote:
Yep sure can let's get married, i will show you the way...ooooh baby i love the way everday yeah yeah i wanna ...



Hiya Cards - I missed ya too hug welcome home wave
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
trish123 wrote:
Hiya Cards - I missed ya too welcome home
why thank ya hun missed you too, still jammin to some good tunes??
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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
darlynda wrote:
really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?


I am sure there are quite a few out there.. the problem is where confused wave
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:46 PM CST
PeachesandRay wrote:
That's the reason all us CS ladies...love you so much ..you're ready at a moment's notice to rescue our lonely hearts

Yeah I rode my motorcycle the other day and could not go more than 20 miles without stopping to rest the ole back...and it's 900+ miles one way up to NH...we'd still be trying to get there if I had went.
But it was a beautiful ride been there out in NH beautiful state when it's nice...lol...yeah i am an owner of a lonely heart...heart wings
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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 14, 2008, 3:46 PM CST
i dont mind the looking ............its the touching that bothered mesigh
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