is there such a thing as a faithful significant other?

langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada

Posted: Jun 15, 2008, 12:02 PM CST

HJFinAZ wrote:

NOPE!!!!!!!!!! ALL eyes wander (keep fingers to yourself). WHO can "HONESTLY" state they never "looked at another man or woman while in a relationship. Say you can and I will believe you to be a liar. It is simply human nature.

Personally, I would not insult your intelligence by saying I never looked at another. Today, I can be honest, with myself and with you, and let all know I have cheated and been cheated on in a relationship. Would I do it again? Probably not, but with MORE honesty I must admit I have not been put in that position. "IF" (and it is somewhat doubtful) I have another relationship before I leave this earth, I would hope to never be with someone where I would find it neccessary to cheat to take care of me.

So let all the angels come forth and state how wrong I am..

Isn't that the a distorted thought? When we are single we don't need another to take care of ourselves .... so why would it be different if we are in a relationship?

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jun 15, 2008, 1:00 PM CST

darlynda wrote:

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

yes i can have a long term relationship witu wondering about her being faithufull

if i have to wonder, it would be better we slpit

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Seuss
Paola, Kansas USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 1:11 AM CST

I think so. If two people want to be married and truly love each other, then they will not be looking at other people. That is my own opinion.

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 1:16 AM CST

Dangit people, looking ain't cheating.

It's the looking and planning that'll get ya!

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zdeadmanwalking
bowling green, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 1:17 AM CST

let's see i was marry for 10 years and never cheated on her,never wanted to

had 6 girl friends or you can call them friends with benefits
never cheated on them never wanted to
always thought if you cannot be true to someone
why be with them

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:03 AM CST

dragonfly88 wrote:

no unless you're blind

hahaha

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 9:13 AM CST

darlynda wrote:

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

no not at all

after two days on the relationship it is better to sart to be suspocious

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lonelyboi2
mississauga, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 10:05 AM CST

darlynda wrote:

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

it is possible, but rare unfortunatley. although i've never and would never cheat on a signifigant other, i can't lie and say that i've never had a wondering eye. it's hard now a days that women have abandoned full length dresses, and adopted much more revealing attire. it's sometimes hard not to look, but it is definatley very easy to leave it at just a look. but what do i know anyways!!!

p.s. keep hope alive we aren't all scum

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 10:18 AM CST

langleygirl wrote:

Isn't that the a distorted thought?

I AM distorted, why would my thoughts not be??

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:10 PM CST

lonelyboi2 wrote:

it is possible, but rare unfortunatley. although i've never and would never cheat on a signifigant other, i can't lie and say that i've never had a wondering eye. it's hard now a days that women have abandoned full length dresses, and adopted much more revealing attire. it's sometimes hard not to look, but it is definatley very easy to leave it at just a look. but what do i know anyways!!!

p.s. keep hope alive we aren't all scum

thank you sweetie, i have never given up on hope or men .....i just got a really bad one the first time out but i know there are very good men in this world

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:21 PM CST

darlynda wrote:

thank you sweetie, i have never given up on hope or men .....i just got a really bad one the first time out but i know there are very good men in this world

thank you

am i inclouded on those very good men

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:33 PM CST

alex_192 wrote:

thank you

am i inclouded on those very good men

YES YOU ARE

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:43 PM CST

darlynda wrote:

YES YOU ARE

thank you

you are so sweet

how is your son doing?

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Lpe04
Tallahassee, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:57 PM CST

Yes, I'm a Christian man, I would NEVER cheat on my wife. God wouldn't allow it, haha :)

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Lpe04
Tallahassee, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 3:59 PM CST

Whoops, meant to quote you first! :)

darlynda wrote:

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

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mychelle
Toronto, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 16, 2008, 4:03 PM CST

darlynda wrote:

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

Yes, you can if he is totally in love with you.

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