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Good point!



I doubt anyone would advise their daughters to do what your daughter's friend is doing. I guess we can all have an opinion in the matter, even though we aren't in the same position.


It's common sense, that using pregnancy to keep a man or for a 'bill free' life is immature, wicked and more unproductive than one realises. You learn the following, too.

Moral compass>> >Broken!
Practical thinking>>None existent!
Long sight>> Lacking!
Selfishness>> Driver!

I have know a woman that did it. (We are no longer friends)
It's really sad that there are people out there so desperate to hold on to a man. Having babies is anything but easy on a relationship. It definately tests the strength and love you have for eachother. A lot of people don't realize the damage that can be done to a child by arguing and fighting and in the end it is the child that has to pay the price for the rest of his/her life. Which is what happend in my ex-friends case. The child has some serious emotional and behavioral problems. It's very sad.

Hi lush i agree, also makes me wonder what kind of role model this is for her children?

I'm glad we have no language barrier, between us.

They are my friends so i know what i'm saying! No, i won't go there to know it's wrong!








You're a fine one to speak.






Thanks for the contibution all the same.

I asked a friend why she was still with the man if she already got what she wanted and she said;
"Because i have a son with him!"

And you've heard all the facts of the story??

His and hers and what really happened???



God, I wish I had known it all at your age...



"Fine one to speak" meaning just what, and for once spell it out...

Yeah, when a woman says she only wants permanent residence from a man, i should ask the man for his side of the story, to find out if she really does loves him, from him. Great reasoning!

Two sides to the story, is not applicable in all worldly cases.








Thanks Oslo.

It's never too late, neighbour.

I have to agree with oslo...No matter what the reason why this happened...is none of my business...we all give our opinions..but for us to say we do/not agree..who are we to say anything unless we walk in their shoes...

Things do happen for a reason...

We dont know why they do what they do...there are circumstances for each...they make their choice..whether its right/wrong..they have to live with their decisions not US..

This is my Opinion...i made choices for my 2 boys whether anyone beleives its right/wrong...

I dont care...Its me who will live with the choices i made...

It would be nice if people would just mind their own business...take care of thier life and stop trying to change the world...

Nothing against the op..or anyone else here..just stating what i beleive

Eever occur to you that he may have just gotten what he wanted, and really couldn't give a damn off what she wanted??




lame

Works both ways you see...

Too late for a punch line.

It's nice to mind one's business, i agree, but, when a friend tries to convince me to make the mistakes she has, goes on to ask on how to handle her already made mistakes, then skips the advise and makes things worse by asking me to aid in her cheating, then, that is my business.

We are having lunch together, tommorrow. I think she is wrong, but, won't judge and avoid her.

I do understand what you are saying she made it ur business...

I wasnt referring this to you..

I mean people just say things about others and they have no right unless they walk in their shoes or ur case was asked for advice...

As i said not against anyone..but just saying what i feel...

I know you always mean well. Don't ever doubt that!

I'm glad we understand each other.

I know many girls who have done this, that is why i think it somehow affects me. Who knows where i'd be, if i tried to fit in, by doing the same?!

I always respect what you say on here...I adore you..Ur number one

It becomes someone else's business when the money comes from the public to prop up the situation.

Ever notice how we differ in thinking, yet, always stay diplomatic with each other?

I respect your opinions, because you make it easy to understand where you're coming from, and what exactly you mean. Thanks for that, girl.




Going to bed now, have to be up in a few hours.


Be good.

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