Posted: Jun 18, 2008, 12:14 PM CST
cristina wrote:Healthy, i think you are referring to how you deal with people that don't share the same views and with the ones who are stubburn and limited.
You don't really like everyone who is intelligent and open minded do you?
For instance, there are people here who don't like other's just because a person has a trouble with her/his friend...in this case, do you think this reason suffices?
Like, when i see someone and feel like hidding ( i don't do that )...do you afterwards make an analyses on the reasons why you felt like hidding? I think making such reflections, makes it a better world because then you may find out whether you acted fairly...you don't always have to realize it JUST when others condemn your attitude! That's my point linked to "plastic people" thread
Yes, cristina, but that was only one example.
Sure, some people have made me want to hide, especially after the treatment I received after posting my first thread in the "religion" catergory! I was visciously attacked! But I refused to hide. Instead, I thought to myself that I must stay IN THEIR FACE! My point was to LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY, no matter what. They pushed every button to try to get me to not love them. I don't work that way, LOL. I saw that they especially needed my love. They made themselves targets! Ha! Their tactic which was ment to divide and conquor backfired! I have heard since then, that most do not withstand the torment, and leave the site. I persevered. Now, we post in each others threads. Agree on many things, and I even receive emails from many of them, thanking me for a timely word or telling me how much they like my threads. I will not slander them or give their names, but I see a difference in all of them and have really grown to love them and some of them may possibly even like me.
And to answer your question, some who were not envolved that day, did not like me just because their friends didn't like me. I could only reflect to continue to love all and be gentle with them and stay in their face (stay in the forums) to prove to them through time, that I am their friend, regardless.
To any of them that read this... it's okay... I have no regrets... I still love you all!
Does this prove that I am real? Not plastic?