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Okay, here's another one,

One day a guy decided to visit an old friend's grave. He picked
up some flowers to put on the grave as a show of respect.

He entered the grave and put the flowers on the grave of his
departed friend when he noticed another guy putting a beer on the
grave of his friend.

The guy thought this was rather amusing. He shouted over to the
other "My son, when do you think your buddy's going to come up
drink his beer!"

The guy man shouted back, "The same time that your friend comes
up to smell his flowers !!!!!"

is any need ti hijack the thread by posting jokes?
if yu are courting princess yu can send private e-mails

yep fashionless women !, au naturele!

It's Ok Alex, no problem

I detect some jealousy....

Cooooooooooooooo Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....ALEX....I'M A LAYDEE!

If the smile is good enough,

and the lady smiles back,

go for it.

Cold or not.

i've gotten a lot of mean responses from women while trying this approach, if only they had some compassion and knew how hard it is, and yes the worst thing they can say is no, but it gets old after the thousandth time, if women want equal rights why don't they approach me and ask me out, i know why, because they couldn't handle the rejection either

I'd rather the guy hand me a business card.

Then at least I'd know if he was employed and what he does for a living.

A business card should have an email address too.

That way an email could be sent outside of his workday.




And the business card has no spelling mistakes, me thinks

women are unable to handle rejection

the best way to check that is how they handle rejection when they contact you

I find that some men are shy ... the gentle approach seems to work best. If you like the look of someone just go for it. If they are friendly and receptive, you might have found someone.

I don't mind the 'cold' approach if done warmly!

That is very formal...

I met my ex at work.

There is no punchline.

Although I am laughing my fucking arse off at what I could put.

What ALL women???

yes all women that i have not writen them back

i am sorry
i forgot to sigh wuth my new name

JMO (formerly known as alex)

So how can you tell they don't handle rejection? Do they send you a nasty email?

Heck if someone can't be bothered, neither can I. Not worth getting upset about.

I was going to ask that!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really, really was....

How do you know then, JMO?

"Cold approach" sounds like some plan of action at a football match or target to get something done.

We are people. We interact. Calculation spoils romance. It's not like instructions on a flat-pack chest of drawers.

People meet or accidentally run into each other, maybe have some of the same interests or sense of humour. They make each other smile. If that happens, continue. If not, nothing lost. There will be someone else who will make you smile another time and you might make them smile too....

It's never a waste of time being nice to someone.

We are not a means to an end.

To put it another way, if a woman saw you and thought "he'd be good at mowing my lawn" and then set out coldly and calculatingly to chat you into doing it, wouldn't you feel insulted that she wasn't seeing the other things that might be good about you?

Same thing with sex. Try looking at a whole person, not just one area that might be useful to you when your hand gets tired........

Cooooooooooooo Eeeeeeeeeeeeeee Littlemisstrouble!!!!!

How are you?

Please stop IMing me though, I have moved on!

You wish you silly boy!!! I never IM anyone...

i am called "pkayer" for

not answering mails

after e-mailing a few times not asking her to meet me

when she sugest to meet and i reject the offer

no i cannot say i got nasty mails as they tried their best to keep the doors open

but calling player some one that is not interested in them shows she cannot handle rejection

JMO (formerly known as alex)