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Scotland singles
StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:18 AM CST
ltlmstrouble wrote:
You wish you silly boy!!! I never IM anyone...



That's not what Alex said!
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ltlmstrouble
Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:19 AM CST
StevenSchwartz wrote:
That's not what Alex said!
Well I make a special exception for Alex... but only for him.

teddy bear
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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:20 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
i am called "pkayer" for

not answering mails

after e-mailing a few times not asking her to meet me

when she sugest to meet and i reject the offer

no i cannot say i got nasty mails as they tried their best to keep the doors open

but calling player some one that is not interested in them shows she cannot handle rejection

JMO (formerly known as alex)




But not ALL woman do that though.

Are you really going to sign off all your posts with JMO (formally known as alex).

If you do that I will sign off all my posts with

Steven Schwartz (also known as Barbara Schwartz at weekends)
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ltlmstrouble
Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:23 AM CST
StevenSchwartz wrote:
But not ALL woman do that though.

Are you really going to sign off all your posts with JMO (formally known as alex).

If you do that I will sign off all my posts with

Steven Schwartz (also known as Barbara Schwartz at weekends)


AwwwwD'oh! that's why I didn't recognise you in Glasgow!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:24 AM CST
StevenSchwartz wrote:
But not ALL woman do that though.

Are you really going to sign off all your posts with JMO (formally known as alex).

If you do that I will sign off all my posts with

Steven Schwartz (also known as Barbara Schwartz at weekends)


i dont know about all women
as i always said i am talking from my life experience and my view point

as fpr the way you will sigh that is yur prerogative

i have to sigh "JMO" because people here dont belive i am talking about my life experience and my vire point unless i sigh JMO

as this one is a new signature i have to let the ones that know me, that i am still alex the same one they kave know for long time

JMO (formaerly knows as alex)
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:26 AM CST
ltlmstrouble wrote:
Well I make a special exception for Alex... but only for him.


are you talking about me

yu never sent me an IM request

in case you are planing to send me one, i dont answer IM here on CS

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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:30 AM CST
ltlmstrouble wrote:
Awwww that's why I didn't recognise you in Glasgow!!




Yes, I was the cocktail waitress.
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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:31 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
are you talking about me

yu never sent me an IM request

in case you are planing to send me one, i dont answer IM here on CS



Erm...it was a joke!!!!
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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:32 AM CST
dillydally wrote:
personally if i like someone even if it is a stranger i wont let my opportunity pass ,if you dont ask you dont get



I agree with this dillydallying person.
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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:33 AM CST
princess49503 wrote:
That would put my guard up. Why not, talk for a few minutes first, crack a few jokes, laugh and smile

and give her your phone number.....Me personally, when I first meet a guy, I like to see that he can joke around and laugh.



I hope this is what you're doing in your cold approach. uh oh!
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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:34 AM CST
dcj22 wrote:
I hope this is what you're doing in your cold approach.



Hi DC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:41 AM CST
jbw77 wrote:
i've gotten a lot of mean responses from women while trying this approach, if only they had some compassion and knew how hard it is, and yes the worst thing they can say is no, but it gets old after the thousandth time, if women want equal rights why don't they approach me and ask me out, i know why, because they couldn't handle the rejection either


I can honesty say I have approached more men then I've had approach me. If I see someone I am truely interested in, I will make an effort to talk to them.... I never have gotten around to the part of asking them for a date or their number.... I figure thats up to them if I've taken the initiative to talk to them in the first place.
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ltlmstrouble
Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:43 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
are you talking about me

yu never sent me an IM request

in case you are planing to send me one, i dont answer IM here on CS


Sorry... I don't IM either just teasing Stephen... bouquet of flowers
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:46 AM CST
ltlmstrouble wrote:
Sorry... I don't IM either just teasing Stephen...


i see

two rude people that want to hijack a thread to talk between them

in case yu forgot

this is rule #4

This Forum is for public posts only. To email one-on-one with another member, use the "Email" button on that member's profile
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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:47 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
i see

two rude people that want to hijack a thread to talk between them

in case yu forgot

this is rule #4

This Forum is for public posts only. To email one-on-one with another member, use the "Email" button on that member's profile



Whos being rude?

Me and Trouble? Nah, we save that for the weekends.
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:48 AM CST
moonfoxinthesnow wrote:
I can honesty say I have approached more men then I've had approach me. If I see someone I am truely interested in, I will make an effort to talk to them.... I never have gotten around to the part of asking them for a date or their number.... I figure thats up to them if I've taken the initiative to talk to them in the first place.

how will you react when they aproach you?
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keytone
Portland, Oregon USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:49 AM CST
jbw77 wrote:
I've used the cold approach with women many times with little success. I really think it's best to meet through friends so the walls aren't up, if you know what I mean. What do you'all think of the cold approach? What I mean is walking up to a girl basically anywhere without knowing her and trying to get a date.
I think florida is not so cold! professor
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moonfoxinthesnow
ALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 11:56 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
how will you react when they aproach you?


It all depends on how they approach... I am generally a fairly open individual. If they look like an ax murderer though... or I'm not in the mood to be messed with I give them the look and then look a different direction. if they don't get the idea then I'll delicately find my way to the ladies room and then make my way into the company of trusted friends.
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jbw77
Gainesville, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
knowing myself, i'll probably still try it, because there's always a chance
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:56 PM CST
arabella wrote:
I'd rather the guy hand me a business card.

Then at least I'd know if he was employed and what he does for a living.

A business card should have an email address too.

That way an email could be sent outside of his workday.

And the business card has no spelling mistakes, me thinks


i dont belive every one thas is emplyed has a bussines card

but if it is more important for yu what he is doing for a living, then, you are right

a bussines card is beter than a rose

by the way, if you will not be interested in meeting him while will you send him and e-mail to his bussines address
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