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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:50 AM CST

i have a first meeting saturday and i am nervous and stressing. i reslly need to calm down, but cant seem to do that.......advice please

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:51 AM CST

see i am sooooooooo stressed i cant spell(really)

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Emanuellla
heaven city Timor-Leste

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:52 AM CST

take a deep breath....watch ur beautiful eyes in the mirror...and you will suddenly have the feeling everything will be just fine

good luck, darlynda

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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:53 AM CST

darlynda wrote:

i have a first meeting saturday and i am nervous and stressing. i reslly need to calm down, but cant seem to do that.......advice please

What the meeting.

"Hi I am darlynda and I have been a alcoholic for 15 years?"

The first meeting is always the hardest.

Good luck!

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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 3:53 AM CST

Oh I do wish I had some advice for you, Darlynda...but having been in your shoes, I do know how stressful that first meeting is...you wonder and worry about so much (will he like me, will I like him, will it be awkward with uncomfortable silences, etc....)! But in the end, it will turn out ok...just remember that! Just be yourself and you will do just fine

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 4:00 AM CST

StevenSchwartz wrote:

What the meeting.

"Hi I am darlynda and I have been a alcoholic for 15 years?"

The first meeting is always the hardest.

Good luck!

thanks.......i love your sense of humor

...it has put a new slant on things........i will just be myself(not an alcololic!

).........and what will be will be

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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 4:02 AM CST

darlynda wrote:

thanks.......i love your sense of humor ...it has put a new slant on things........i will just be myself(not an alcololic! ).........and what will be will be

Anytime babe.

Can I recommend that you don't go to the meeting with a bottle in a brown paper bag. It sets a bad example.

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 4:14 AM CST

StevenSchwartz wrote:

Anytime babe.

Can I recommend that you don't go to the meeting with a bottle in a brown paper bag. It sets a bad example.

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DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 4:15 AM CST

just remember that who ever you are meeting will be as nervous as you !

Good luck

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 4:18 AM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

just remember that who ever you are meeting will be as nervous as you !

Good luck

thanks i will

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skwidwurd
Aberdeen, Grampian, Scotland UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:01 AM CST

i don't get why people are so nervous on first dates. i think they're actually pretty easy. be yourself, make a point of having fun with or without him (since you'll have made the effort anyway) and relax. if you don't hit it off then you haven't really lost anything since you never had it in the first place. now SECOND dates......they're stressful

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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:07 AM CST

darlynda

you took the words out of my mouth- meeting

tomorrow night. I'm soo excited about it, but nervous too. hope it works out great for us both

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:07 AM CST

Don't forget to wax your legs incase you get lucky!

I'm jooo-king

Deep breaths.. just try to be yourself.. and as Di says.. he will probably be as nervous as you. Just see it as meeting a new friend.. and not a love interest.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:08 AM CST

jampet wrote:

darlynda you took the words out of my mouth- meeting tomorrow night. I'm soo excited about it, but nervous too. hope it works out great for us both

Oo you too!

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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:09 AM CST

skwidwurd wrote:

i don't get why people are so nervous on first dates. i think they're actually pretty easy. be yourself, make a point of having fun with or without him (since you'll have made the effort anyway) and relax. if you don't hit it off then you haven't really lost anything since you never had it in the first place. now SECOND dates......they're stressful

Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh.....

Its a date?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW, I did not know that.

Here are some common phrases and sayings that I use on first dates...You are welcome to use them also

"Hi I am Steven Schwartz"
"Can I park here"
"Where's the toilet?"
and
"Is it in yet?"

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Lagoona22
Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:10 AM CST

Just wear something low-cut....if he doesn't spend most of the evening talking to your cleavage, then you know he's not the guy for you....

:slappingfaceemoticon:

darlynda wrote:

thanks i will

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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:13 AM CST

StevenSchwartz wrote:

Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh.....

Its a date?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW, I did not know that.

Here are some common phrases and sayings that I use on first dates...You are welcome to use them also

"Hi I am Steven Schwartz"
"Can I park here"
"Where's the toilet?"
and
"Is it in yet?"

get many second dates Steven??

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StevenSchwartz
Lockerbie, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:14 AM CST

jampet wrote:

get many second dates Steven??

No...Not really. Unless of course you count my carer as a date.

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jimyb5
Cork, Ireland. Sri Lanka

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:17 AM CST

just imagine them in their underwear, that'll work. I saw it in a movie once and now i just imagine every1 in their underwear. It's kind of consuming my life really, I think i need help. where are these meetings on steven that you know alot about??
Hi my name is jimy and I see naked people......!!!!!

not funny no? ok ill get my coat......

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jampet
wexford, Wexford Ireland

Posted: Jun 19, 2008, 5:19 AM CST

jimyb5 wrote:

just imagine them in their underwear, that'll work. I saw it in a movie once and now i just imagine every1 in their underwear. It's kind of consuming my life really, I think i need help. where are these meetings on steven that you know alot about??
Hi my name is jimy and I see naked people......!!!!!

not funny no? ok ill get my coat......

but what if he opens the door in his underwear??

getting reaaallly nervous now

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