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Save the Servers!!




trublu
Rialto USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:16 AM CST
sexielady wrote:
You are not required to tip. However what the poster is saying is industry wide. Servers do not even make minimum wage unless a patron tips. Tip sharing is mandatory in restaurants.

TIP for the Patrons:

Tipping is NOT a city in China!

I worked many years as a server and the general public is cruel to servers. If I get real bad service I do leave less tip, however I know what they go through and how hard they really do work and I am a good tipper.


"However what the poster is saying is industry wide. Servers do not even make minimum wage unless a patron tips. Tip sharing is mandatory in restaurants."

Simply NOT TRUE of all places.

"I worked many years as a server and the general public is cruel to servers."
Not nearly as cruel as those servers etc who mess with the customers' food. At least the servers health is not jeopardized by the customers.

" If I get real bad service I do leave less tip, however I know what they go through and how hard they really do work and I am a good tipper"
See BOGUS SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT, and realize that not all of us will tip for crap service already.

cheezwhiz, I see a lot of people remark on how everything is costing too much to tip, like your gas. Uh sorry, but I think that is a lousy reason. IF you go out to eat, be prepared to pay APPROPRIATELY for your serice. IF your server does a good job they SHOULD be tipped. I just get bent when they EXPECT it but don't earn it.
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trublu
Rialto USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:34 AM CST
Oh, and might want to mention, I once had a landscaping job, and when the guy didn't pay me the agreed upon price, I QUIT. You servers can do the same if you don't think people are paying you what they should LOL
You may also want to keep in mind that people may have a different idea of what good service is. You think getting a fork on the table is good enough. Customers will see the crud on the fork you didn't check to see if it was clean, as horrific "service".
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:39 AM CST
My daughter was a waitress when she was young, and I know it's a hard job. She always made pretty good tips, even in sucky little restaurants, just cause she was sweet and has a cute smile. I always leave 20%, unless the server was really bad. That means a really bad attitude, unfriendly, not just slow, cause they can't always help that. I even feel sorry for the ones that aren't that good at it and leave them more sometimes, as long as they're nice. I couldn't do it.

Another suggestion, leave them cash for their tip instead of having it added on the bill when you're paying with a card. That way they get their money immediately.
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:46 AM CST
I know it is an extreme, but the last place I ate out was so lousy.
No way they were getting a top ( and I usually do tip at least 10%)

But his place didnt have half of what I wanted from the menu..so I had to choose another meal, then- I drink a lot of coffee..this place.. I ask over and over for coffee and after 45 minutes got no refills....
Finally I got up and went behind the counter and got my own..then the waitress got really nasty with me because her manager got on her...D'oh!

Tough sh... do your job

why should I pay $1 for one small cup of coffee and no refills.

But....... I do think wait staff should get at LEAST min wage!
most often.. these people work their butts off
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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:50 AM CST
hrdopies wrote:
Okay there is an on-going problem in the United States today....

DID YOU KNOW: That in some states Waiters/Waitresses make only $2.13 per
hour???

DID YOU KNOW: That as a waiter/waitress whether or not we get to eat
depends solely on what we make in tips???

DID YOU KNOW: At most chain restaurants ie... TGI Fridays, Applebees, Joe's
Crab Shack, etc. etc. etc. They have a thing called (tip-share) which is
mandatory? Some places as high as 5% goes out to bussers, hosts,
bartenders? [that may not seem like much but do the math... $100.00 dollar
check, and you tip $5.... 5% of 100 is $5 We see no money on that tip )= ]

DID YOU KNOW: The government taxes us not only on our tips, but our sales
as well... [Out of that $5 that we gave away on tip share, we owe the
government an average of $8]

DID YOU KNOW: We waiters/waitresses are people too! We have feelings,








Get your government to make it mandatory to make employers to pay you a decent living wage. Then there would be no reason for you to rely on tips
wants, desires, hopes, dreams.....

DID YOU KNOW: over 90% of American waiters/waitresses have declared bankruptcy???

I am a waiter! I have been for over a decade now! Why do I put myself into
such a stressful situation as dealing with people in such a demeaning
manor? It's all I know how to do... I made bad decisios in my life that
leaves me with this choice of professions.

We waiters/waitresses NEED your help!!!!!

20% of your bill BEFORE coupons is considered an okay tip.

20%! That really isn't much if you look at it do the math! $20 is 20% of a
$100.00 check.

I think its time the hardworking class of americans should ban together and
make a stand!

If you're a server and have been gettin crappy tips that are less than
expected shout it out!

If you're a server and have been mistreated as a human-being scream it
out!!

Kids tell your parents when you are out to eat tip 20% of your bill,
despite the service you receive, we gotta make a living too. We have rent,
kids to feed, bills to pay, not all of us live at home with mommy and daddy
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 9:52 AM CST
I went to a restaurant and said I wanted Italian dressing...it came back Creamy Italian. I told the waitress I wanted Italian. She argued with me that that was italian=no tip!!

I always ask "..can you cook my eggs, this way?" Then I tell them how I want them. I also say if you can't do it, I'll order something else. When I am told they can do it, I order. When the eggs are not right, I tell the waitress. I expect her to have the cook fix the problem! I always order dry toast...when it comes back with a GOB of whatever they call it stuck between two pieces of toast=no tip

When the service is excellent=excellent tip and usually a word to the manager.

Just some hints to wait staff.

1, People like their food HOT...not luke warm, because they have been sitting there 15 minutes before you serve.

2. People like wait staff that actually smiles

3. I am not "sugar" "honey" "sweetheart" "baby"

4. If a person orders ice tea with lemon. When you refill...bring lemon


I have watched how much a waitress or waiter makes in an hour. I have sat and watched them pick up money left. They do pretty well, when they are good. In 45 minutes at an Applebees I watched one waitress pick up over 40 dollars. Not bad money!!
D'oh!
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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 10:03 AM CST
Don't know what happen to my reply its disappeared bl**dy gremilins


I said get your Government to make it law that every employer has to pay a decent minimum wage and then there would not be any need for you to rely on tipping
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 10:08 AM CST
No kidding! long ago at a Country Kitchen,, I ordered a large breakfast waited forever to get the food.. took only one bite, was so cold.
I ask the waitress nicely if she could take it back and nuke it for me..She argued that there was NO WAY it was cold.......

I ask her 3 times but she kept arguing.. I wasn't asking to fix it all over.. just heat it up.very mad

So I walked out and told her she can eat it..

She actually followed me outside and wrote my lic number.
20 minutes later the cops were at my house wanting to arrest me.
And I had only taked one bite!!very mad very mad very mad

We called the manager of CC told him the story and he said forget it so the cop left.

I immediately drove back to CC, got the manager and waitress together and needless to say.. she no longer had a job.
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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA
Posted: Jun 27, 2008, 10:14 AM CST
To be fair.. some places are excellent also!
ate at a small local Mom & Pop diner- about 40 seats.. all hand prepared southern food.

Was fantastic food and perfect service.. gladly gave the 20%cheering
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The_Kansan
Claxton (Powell) , Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 28, 2008, 1:12 PM CST
Damn, I thought this was going to be about [i]internet/i] servers!

D'oh! hole
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 28, 2008, 1:37 PM CST
I am a generous tipper since I worked in the industry in all phases.

Going off topic, and I am very sorry if I offend anyone because I hardly ever curse, but there is a real bitch on CS. Thanks...I feel better!!

(no, it is not someone I know)
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 28, 2008, 2:23 PM CST
***but there is a real bitch on CS. Thanks...I feel better!!





Did you say..."A" real bitch???

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