Connecting Singles^® Forums100% Free Online Dating

hi lovestrees ! we're not talking about making love



we're talking about having sex !.. ltes no sidestep the issue !



making love has nothing to do with what we're talking about !...so lets not try and mellow out the conversation



why you have sex and worship on your water bed afterwoods ( regardless of how loving or tender the sex was ) ! is a good topic for conversation though



now why do you do that ? is it a ritual ? a sexual prayer ? sexual meditation ? part of a religion ?

forgot to ask you ?...have you ever had you some people might call a sexual religious experience ?..if so what happend ?

Obeah (sometimes spelled "Obi") is a term used in the West Indies to refer to folk magic, sorcery, and religious practices derived from Central African and West African origins. Obeah can either be a form of 'dark' magic or 'good' magic. As such, Obeah is similar to Palo, Voodoo, Santeria, rootwork, and hoodoo. Obeah is practiced in Suriname, Jamaica, the Virgin Islands, Trinidad and Tobago, Guyana, Belize, the Bahamas, St. Vincent and the Grenadines, Barbados and many other Caribbean countries.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obeah

Quite a bit more there.

Thanks gilly!!!

by the way has anybody ever experienced anything sexually interesting (apart from an orgasm of course ..please don't bore us with those ) as a result of having sex in a certain place/ certain time ...to do with spirituality ?



1. has anybody ever had what they would call a sexual religious experience ?
for example :

2.has anybody ever experience anything sexually interesting on hollowean night as a result of where they went... or what they did ?

3.has anybody ever had sex with a ghost ? ( tell the truth now ) ?



4.and does anybody still feel

" SEXUALLY STILL SPIRITUALLY CONNECTED TO A LOVED ONE THATS PAST AWAY ?

5. and is that right ? .. or wrong ?

6. does anybody want to talk about the sex scene in the film

' THE EXCORCIST ' what the young girl was doing with THE CROSS ...and why she was saying the things she was saying whilst she was doing it ?



7. also we still haven't had anybody tell us

WHERE MUST WE OR MUST NOT HAVE SEX ? AND THE REASONS WHY ?

Little mistakes about assuming what "my goals" can be... I will leave it there though I always reserve my right to convey my abhorrance at the smell of certain kind of mud others love rolling in (and certainly I do not care about their rolling at all)

As far as grave yards go,,,,,Only the great stand up comic,,,, Emo Phillips ,,, has claimed ,,

" Why the other day I loved a woman,,,,,,,,,,

from the top of her head,,,,,,

all the way down,,,,,,,,

to the tag on her toe.""

Man,,, Emo makes me howl!

yes....

Try Uncle Lar... Larry Reeb, he makes Emmo seem like a priest.

TO many questions so I won't anwser any of them

Hi Gilly, missed this last month, whoops!

Included with "making love" is having sex. With some love too it is merely more. Just sex is great too.

At one end of the scale is good, clean sex. Orgasms for all, like your daily oatmeal... sustainance.

On the high end of the scale, I mean in outer space, high end, is the kind that is like worship. Love, great warm-up or foreplay, trust, spirituality, "don't know my name or how much time has passed", like fresh lobster to oatmeal. Doesn't matter where you are, though among the Redwoods, the energies would be even more heightened.

First post I ever made on this site was to answer your Tantric question, I recommended a book: The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, by Margo Anand. That book taught me more than decades of trial and error, everyone should read it or one like it

For your question, the sex is the worship, the waterbed is just the alter. It can be almost anywhere (that you wont be arrested!) And, YES, it is a religion, for me anyway.

Some of my favorite sex memories are "nature walks" that my GF and I would take, WOWIE! We were a couple for 5 years, the love had gone after the first year, the sex was difficult for either of us to give up on. She lived next door to a graveyard... but, we never did it there! (Why, when you have a nice private bedroom?)

yes, I have had sex in a graveyard....but we called it a bedroom!!

It is probably ok to have sex in a graveyard - as long as you are with another living person - see the "normies" of our society frown on things like necrophilia for some crazy reason.

I think it stems back to the days of Cholera epidemics.

Sex in public place - no, that is something you do with people you have never met before. That way people can judge your sex and tell you if you two are right together.

1. I am sure someone had sex in a graveyard

2. I am supposed to have sex in close proximity to a female of my own kind

3. Ah, you meant KINKY sex. Well.. Enough to know her kinks I guess

You buried her there?

Noooooooo.....it was just a dead place(our bedroom)

NO...........

Never have had sex in a graveyard, but I bet it makes you feel very alive