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why r good girls so hard to find?



Good for what?

Thought that is how you liked it????

I am not taken, but am picky. Sad to say, but many women have been hurt so much. That is never to say that men don't get hurt too.

Nobody is all good, nor all bad. The problem is your semantics. "Girls" is an inappropriate word for what you're really looking for, and represents, in some form, arrested development in your emotional evolution.

Everyone has baggage. That's what being hurt means. But by defining your present with definitions formed from a traumatic past event is what makes us so susceptible to the power of words. You'd be surprised how much the words you use define your reality.

Women are so much more than just good or bad. They're a gestalt combination of the two, where the parts are one, and thus, greater than the whole. That's what maturity is all about. No woman is ever going to be a good "girl" for you, because you're not only expecting her to change, you're expecting her to move backwards in her evolution into innocence.

Not going to happen.

galactic,
Would it be O.K. to E-mail you? You seem to be a writer and I have a lit. question that might not be appropriate for the site.
B.G.

Maybe you aren't going to the right places to meet them.

Go right ahead bob...

...hey I am a good girl!!!

I don't think the question is why are good girls so hard to find, rather it's why is it so hard to find one that's truly interested in a having a relationship...

And quite beautiful too..

But, then, do you also consider yourself a woman?

Can't have your cake and eat it to. I don't believe you...

You're narc'in my fantasies man

Booo


If you've never seen the girl in a woman, the lady in a woman, or the woman in a girl, you've missed a great deal of what a woman are. She may evolve and be well rooted, but nostalgic regression is not only common place but just as welcome. JMO Inner children unite!

Pretty much the same as your good/bad assertions, all part of the same wonderful creature.


WB GB

I'm not saying the inner girl isn't there, but if that's all she is...then you need to be arrested...

you went a long way around to git there ..

and whats wrong with cuffs?

Thank's Daniel

Your welcome..

ohhh you have to believe me !

...I am!