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hello everyone

i have been thinking about this all week . How do you let people know you are interested in them ?

do you flirt ?
do you mail answer back every mail they send you ?
do you look for there mail ?

im curious as to how you lot do it .
i look for signs of interest before i decide if its a good idea to let them know if im interested in them or not . what signs do you look for ?

also how do you tell a person thats interested in you but your not into him/her in that way ? personally i find that bit hard to do as i hate hurting peoples feelings


dont pick me up wrong (yeah i know) im not wanting advice just wondering how you do it ?i love watching the forums and seeing him flirt with her and so on or watching the sparks fly ,i know who's off limits and who's in the sidelines ,so im just curious as to how you flirt ?

i dont know if this is a good thing but the guy i have a date with......i ignored him for a while and he didnt give up so i figured he must really be interested in me so i emailed him back and so far we have gotten along famously

Just be open and honest and they will be that way with you. Flirt with him and if he responds. Just be yourself.

Good idea - Ill watch the replies with interest cos Im a bit clueless myself too

they usually tell me. I'm not really into the whole game thing, so they tend to be pretty blunt about it

I'm not actually very good at the flirting thing.. and It tends to go completely over my head if someone is genuinely flirting with me.. I just think that they are just messing about..

good luck

popcorn at the ready

I get emails from countries I never heard of by supermodels (or at least pics of supermodels) that say they love me and want to have my children. At their request, I send lots of cash. I just know it will work. One of these times...

does no one on c.s knows how to flirt ?

im on a dating site and i dont know how to get it on just toooooo funny

i didnt get my last cheque ................. you sure you sent it ?

I answer all e-mails. However, now my mail is only allowed from the U.S.

I usually tell a person right off if I am not interested. It's not like there are that many that I have to worry about

And since I am no longer interested in meeting anyone, I have a blanket answer!!

sorry, have no real idea either

Western Union forgot to call again!?!

I think you usually strike up an interest through the threads. Its good to develop a friendship around common interests, and most importantly being able to have a laugh.

If you both are flirting, have a laugh, common interests and feel that spark, then I'd develop the relationship further away from the threads, and see how you go. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

BTW. I used to flirt with someone on this site, and lately has come back and bit me in the ass!! Some don't know just when to call it quits. never again!!!

Honey, I'm a flirt. Been doing it for many many years and have almost perfected my craft.

i like the upfront approach

Yep, that's about it.

most of us do flirt, but that's just it-flirting....getting down to the real nitty of the gritty is a whole different ballgame....some of us try, and succeed, some fail and some run...