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mrwright1
downtown ballybollock, Sligo Ireland
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:31 PM CST
the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failureD'oh!
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as muchthumbs down

what do the rest of you think?
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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:33 PM CST
mrwright1 wrote:
the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?




I am far to cynical so i guess i must follow my head
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:36 PM CST
mrwright1 wrote:
the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?


Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..

I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong.. laugh

I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong.. duh! frustrated

Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.

But I'm learning... laugh

My heart is stupid.. my head is the clever one.
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:38 PM CST
I follow my heart...It usually never steers me wrong...Found My fiance on here by listening to my heart...
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:39 PM CST
No brainer...............

The heart man, the heart..wink
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:39 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
Argh!... I fight this dilemma all the time. (in relationships)..

I tend to always follow my heart.. and it tends ALWAYS to be wrong..

I never listen to my head when it comes to relationships.. and it just about always goes wrong .. duh!

Every single time I look back at a choice I had to make.. the head I didn't listen to .. was bang on correct every time.

But I'm learning...

My heart is stupid.. my head is the clever one.


I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.

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maryrachelle
bathurst , New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:40 PM CST
The smart thing to do is to follow your head.
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:40 PM CST


The head
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kidatheart
Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:41 PM CST
My gut...it's never wrong. Right now it's telling me I'm hungry.laugh
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:41 PM CST
Ambrose2007 wrote:
I always try to combine the two, but it's like putting two feuding in-laws in a closet filled with cheap beer and shotguns - they always seem to end up a bloody mess.


hahaha laugh

I just can't seem to get a handle on the combining thing.. rolling eyes
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:42 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
My gut...it's never wrong. Right now it's telling me I'm hungry.


haha

Yeh .. but it's funny that isn't it.. the gut instinct is just about right EVERY single time.

(I never listen) rolling eyes
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:43 PM CST
maryrachelle wrote:
The smart thing to do is to follow your head.


Oh it's the smart thing.. but not always the done thing.. laugh
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KrazieStill
Bristol, Connecticut USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:43 PM CST
The heart, the head will follow. JMO.heart beating
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tufty
Chelmsford, Essex, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:44 PM CST
Just go with the flow
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kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
If your head and heart tell you too different things then listen to your head to decide if you should listen to your heart.
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:46 PM CST
kitty01 wrote:
If your head and heart tell you too different things then listen to your head to decide if you should listen to your heart.


Thats true..

My head will tell me.. no way idiot!!....

and my heart goes.. but... but.. but... blues heart wings



duh! frustrated


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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:48 PM CST
heart gets you into trouble. Use the head attached to your shoulders!!



Never go with the heart, logic always prevailsprofessor
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:50 PM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
heart gets you into trouble. Use the head attached to your shoulders!!
Never go with the heart, logic always prevails


I know that's right.. I just still struggle with it.. laugh
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:51 PM CST
mrwright1 wrote:
the head or the heart?

which should one follow ?
i have often followed my heart in relationships which has lead to failure
and i've tried following my head but dont enjoy the dating experience as much

what do the rest of you think?


a balance of both
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: Jun 21, 2008, 3:52 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
haha

Yeh .. but it's funny that isn't it.. the gut instinct is just about right EVERY single time.

(I never listen)

I think the 'gut' instinct we talk about is probably the combination of head and heart....some people are able to listen to it better than others...for some reason...

when we are not 'listening' to the gut....we tend to be either going with the head or the heart...

can't really express this clearly....maybe too tired...but gut instinct: probably best to go with if we will only take heed.cheers
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