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Dear fellows,
Who Can deny the importance of mothers for the childern.Even when they grow up and reach the ages of 30,40,50 or more they continously need the eternal guidance and self-less and pure love of their mothers.Life has left its true colour in the absence of mother.Mother is a strange gift of God for us.She is a symbol of total sacrifice and patience for us.Even in nature and animals role of mother is priceless.She protects her childern with all of her might.
At present my great mother is residing in her heavenly abode in the skies.The day she left this mundane world was the worst day of my life.My life has not remained the same.

Thank you so much, that is a beautiful tribute. My mother has also gone on to her heavenly home to wait for me and when it is my time to go, I will be anxiously waiting to see her again. There is nothing like a mother and I hope I am following her example with my children and grand daughters.. Bless all the mothers out there.

SOME mothers!!!!

I am with you on this one Ship.....My mother was cruel to me as a child and even now.....I have no contact with her and it was her choice, i had no say in the matter......I do envy those who had a great mother but i can live without mine, as she caused me nothing but heartache......Heres a big hug just for you Ship

thanks Nuala...people have a tendency to diefy their mothers. While most are good, I'm sure, I could tell horror stories.

I'm so sorry if I caused bad memories for anyone. I forgot that not all women can be a mother! It takes a special kind of woman to nurture and be mothers. Please accept my apologies and sympathy.

No need to say sorry just be proud you had a first class mother......I wouldnt take that away from you and your memories.....

I feel my dad tried to compensate what my mother lacked..... now he is gone i have no contact even though she lives across the road from me and her grandchildren, she chooses to ignore us.....as i say to my kids it her loss.....

Children are a gift from God. A good mother or father is a gift from the mother or father themselves because they have choosen their ways.

The mother is the cornerstone of any family. She brings all the love comfort to the children

Nobody...end of story...

(((((((echo)))))))

with respect to everyone's thoughts,
Dears all,
As I am from eastern culture but I have read and seen about mothers and their role in upbringing a family in western society as well.(through books & movies etc).I appreciate the favourable comments of persons who responded in affirmative to my basic theme.
There is a folk story in our culture that might reflect on how the heart of a Mom feels.
"A person in a poor town was not satisfied with his life and his poor background.Due to his foolish thinking he started nagging her mother (remorsed his existence in that family).Her mother took care of him by whatever she could do within her limited means.He was unemployed but her mother after sewing clothes for other provided food and life items to him.But he did not discarded his old paths of saying bad things to her.After the old age,the great mother of him died and so she was buried in the local grave yard.Rains and water exposed her skeltoned body after some years.
One day that young person was going through that grave yard and was passing near the grave of her mother.Suddenly he tumbled and fallen over the rocks badly.A voice came from the heart (skelton) of her mother that Son If you OK, have you not got yourself injured.These words brought tears in the eyes of her once rascle/bad son.
And this Hakayat (story) continues to bring tears in the eyes of Punjabi yongmen in the remote and not so remote villages of Pakistan to this day."
My great Mommy left this mundane world on the fateful day of 13-5-2005 on Friday which is considered a blessed day in our religion and this is called an indication of a good soul who departs this world.
I get respite and heartly satisfaction only when I see her in my dreams that is reasonably quite often.That day or night is a night of Eid (you may compare it to Christmis) for me.For the next whole day I remain so happy.Even in dreams I see prayers on her lips for me as she alway been doing throughout my life,when ever I went out of home or came in the home.Mother (Ammi Jan)Such a nice creation of God Almighty for all of us.
This is my humble request to all readers that Please pay good attention to your mothers.You will not find this treasure once they left this world. Even if you turn around the mighty hills with your bare hands.

Do the western (european+american) women when they become mothers take same care of their childern as done by eastern women.
If yes, then why they allow their teen age or even bigger childern to leave the home.If they no more need the motherly love

Any western Mom ???

And what is bad if they want to leave their home??They are grown and want to find their place in the world,to see new countries,to find new vista in life.I think that is wonderful! I'm glad that our kids have chances to choose what they want and don't need spend all their lives hanging on mum's or dad's neck
They can choose their wifes,their jobs,can live independent from superstitious beliefs But that not making them to love their mums less .They like an Eastern people love and need their mums. I have two grown sons and am very proud of them And I know how much they love me and care about me,even if they live far away.And I'm sure that lots of mums think and feel the same.Living together all life really not making to love more or less.I think sometimes maybe even can make more problems between understanding each other I mean that between old pearents,who need silence and quite times,and young kids who need loud music,parties at night and all other stuff,sometimes can start talks at cross-purposes And is really better when kids have their home and we can visit each other when just we want to

there is no culture where all people fulfill their role appropriately

derrr

people are fallible

but it is scarring if the ones that one should be able to rely on-
the parents-are not able to show up properly

as we get older, hopefully this fades and is replaced by putting something like faith on something other than money or other people for support/comfort

wow

ive had enuf coffee now

good bye all

Others persons in this community (C.S) to share the good sayings/pieces of advice of his or her mother are cordially invited in this thread.
Basic motive is to enlighten ourselves with the collective wisdom of our dear mothers.