Does anyone know the REAL you???

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Ricco Palermo, Sicilia Italy
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shipoker55: Yes, we've read your profile, and you have read ours!

But what didn't you tell us??? What are we holding back?

Even in the threads...do we really speak our minds, or do we present an unrealistic view of ourselves?

Some are so sweet and perfect ALL the Time!!. Don't you ever have bad days????

Some are buttholes ALL the time(ME), never a great day??When will we be at ease with ourselves to let people see the real US???
Just a thought
drivenbysound Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA
trish123: Its all just so many assumptions Ship, even with lots of people we know in real life - they assume and many never take the time to actually get affirmations - and even if they do ask, the questions are slewed in favour of affirming their assumptions........


Are you saying that everyone is kissing everyone else's a$$? kiss
drivenbysound Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA
kkitty: honest I dont think even our mothers know the real you.
We all have secrets that we would never share with anyone, no matter how much we were in love.
I think that it is human nature not to fully speak your mind as you dont
or shouldn't want to make others feel bad on purpose.
If your having a bad day Its OK to express it . Its just not right to make others feel bad because you do.
I see nothing wrong with being a butt hole, to me you would be protecting yourself for whatever your reasons. I also believe that even the butt holes have a nice person inside somewhere they just dont want anybody to see it.


scold

It's never okay to be a butthole.

Just ask my younger brother..





sticking out tongue



sillyricky55 San Diego, California USA
shipoker55: Dana...I get the feeling that you are just what you present!!
I, too, am exactly what I present! Problem is I present myself in different ways. But the day I present as a mean old gouch....I am a mean old grouch that day!!

There are days that I come across as a nice guy.....and I am, on those days.

At times. I show my scared child side of me........that is what I am feeling at that time. Esp when it comes to affection.

So, if you see me as different on any given day, there are no auis and there is no pretense. I am a complex person, with many different personalities.


I make it a point to be myself on the forums, but sometimes I mess it up. Proves I am not perfect. I do make it my business to accept folks without condition, even though their opinions and stuff don't agree with mine. I have days I could bite through nails and be so mean and other days I am a sweetheart. Just human nature I guess. Like most of us, I expect to be treated how I would treat another. I accept people's bad days as experiences in their lives to learn from. There is something called what you see is what you get. Applies here with me.
lktolbert Atlanta, Georgia USA
shipoker55: who!! Who is holding back their photo??? Let me know these people, right away, please!!!
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sillyricky55 San Diego, California USA

Many people are holding back their photos and I am sure they have their reasons. I guess they have to live with themselves or they just don't want to have a photo. JMO.sticking out tongue rolling on the floor laughing
darlynda new tazewell, Tennessee USA



sillyricky55 San Diego, California USA

Good Afternoon. How are you today? I hope your event went well for you.wink wave wave
drivenbysound Poplar Bluff, Missouri USA
lktolbert: "What are we holding back?"

Well, some of us are holding back our photo.


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Good one.. thumbs up
lktolbert Atlanta, Georgia USA

I don't know who you are, but I know I definitely like you. So, I'm sending some unconditional love your way.thumbs up cheering applause
2catchastar Corning, New York USA
I thought some did but I highly doubt there is anyone who knows me.



kidatheart Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Some do, some are in the process, and others are welcome to.wave
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
kidatheart: Some do, some are in the process, and others are welcome to.


Ooooo... confused nerd typing



kidatheart Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Claayer: Ooooo...



No naughty letters....until we get to know each other better.sticking out tongue
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
kidatheart: No naughty letters....until we get to know each other better.


Oo Lummy Harry!... I was meeeeerely logging and noting whatever it is you are up to.. blushing


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kidatheart Southern BC/Lamont, Alberta Canada
Claayer: Oo Lummy Harry!... I was meeeeerely logging and noting whatever it is you are up to..


I'm interesting enough to keep tabs on?confused rolling on the floor laughing
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
kidatheart: I'm interesting enough to keep tabs on?



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2catchastar Corning, New York USA
Nope I am to full of surprises, I don't even know me~



shipoker55 St. Petersburg, Florida USA
I think a lot of people don'r even know themselves
rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
shipoker55: I think a lot of people don'r even know themselves


That's a good point.

A few know me pretty well. One back home knows me better than perhaps I know myself. uh oh!




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