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How would you react if one of these girls was YOUR daughter???




Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 7:10 AM CST
GLOUCESTER, Massachusetts (AP) -- A pact made by a group of teens to get pregnant and raise their babies together is at least partly behind a sudden spike in pregnancies at Gloucester High School, school officials said.

Principal Joseph Sullivan told Time magazine in a story published Wednesday that the girls confessed to making the pact after the school began investigating a rise in pregnancies that has left 17 girls at the school carrying a child. Normally, there are about four pregnancies a year at the school.

Sullivan told Time that nearly half of the expecting students, none over 16, were involved. Sullivan said students were coming to the school clinic multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and "seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were."

Some of the girls reacted to the news they were pregnant with high fives and plans for baby showers, Sullivan said. One of the fathers "is a 24-year-old homeless guy," Sullivan told the magazine.

Superintendent Christopher Farmer confirmed the deal to WBZ-TV, saying the girls had "an agreement to get pregnant."

He said the girls are generally "girls who lack self-esteem and have a lack of love in their life."

The first reports of the students' apparent plan to get pregnant were in the Gloucester Daily Times in March, when Sullivan said students were reporting that the girls were getting pregnant on purpose.

The rash of pregnancies has shaken the seaside city about 30 miles north of Boston. Last month, two officials at the high school health center resigned to protest the resistance from the local hospital to the confidential distribution of contraceptives. The hospital administers the state money that funds the clinic.



I would be very disappointed in myself for not doing a better job in raising her and upset with myself for not showing her enough unconditional love.

I think I would support my child through the pregnancy & make sure she had the proper medical care. I would not force her to have an abortion, but support her decision if she wanted one. If she decided to go through with it & have the baby, I think I would suggest to her to give the baby up for adoption. If she decided to keep the baby, I would have her take a few classes in child care.

How about you?? What would you do??
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 7:22 AM CST
I have to question what kind of a society makes these kids feel they need to behave this way dunno

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 7:24 AM CST
I was listening to that a few days ago on the news.. staggering isn't it.. confused dunno frustrated
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arabella
Somewhere In, Maine USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 8:48 AM CST
What would I do?


Well, my daughter is long past high school.


And I'm sure I would have noticed who she was hanging out with, what her girlfriends were doing and how she was spending her spare time.


Where were these parents??


When my daughter was in high school, she had plans for the future. She wanted college and to study art history.

She was busy with her classes, sports and had friends who had the same plans that she did.



It's called, "Do you know where your child is"????
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woody636
Elgin, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 8:51 AM CST
arabella wrote:
What would I do?Well, my daughter is long past high school.And I'm sure I would have noticed who she was hanging out with, what her girlfriends were doing and how she was spending her spare time.Where were these parents??When my daughter was in high school, she had plans for the future. She wanted college and to study art history.

She was busy with her classes, sports and had friends who had the same plans that she did.
It's called, "Do you know where your child is"????




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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 8:54 AM CST
Hmmm i have 2 boys...but you cannot protect ur child 24/7...

you install in them what you can...

Everyone makes choices...and they have to live with them...

If i had a daughter and she ended up Pregnant...

I would support her no matter what...

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 8:55 AM CST
Scottishlass wrote:
GLOUCESTER, Massachusetts (AP) -- A pact made by a group of teens to get pregnant and raise their babies together is at least partly behind a sudden spike in pregnancies at Gloucester High School, school officials said.

Principal Joseph Sullivan told Time magazine in a story published Wednesday that the girls confessed to making the pact after the school began investigating a rise in pregnancies that has left 17 girls at the school carrying a child. Normally, there are about four pregnancies a year at the school.

Sullivan told Time that nearly half of the expecting students, none over 16, were involved. Sullivan said students were coming to the school clinic multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and "seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were."

Some of the girls reacted to the news they were pregnant with high fives and plans for baby showers, Sullivan said. One of the fathers "is a 24-year-old homeless guy," Sullivan told the magazine.

Superintendent Christopher Farmer confirmed the deal to WBZ-TV, saying the girls had "an agreement to get pregnant."

He said the girls are generally "girls who lack self-esteem and have a lack of love in their life."

The first reports of the students' apparent plan to get pregnant were in the Gloucester Daily Times in March, when Sullivan said students were reporting that the girls were getting pregnant on purpose.

The rash of pregnancies has shaken the seaside city about 30 miles north of Boston. Last month, two officials at the high school health center resigned to protest the resistance from the local hospital to the confidential distribution of contraceptives. The hospital administers the state money that funds the clinic. I would be very disappointed in myself for not doing a better job in raising her and upset with myself for not showing her enough unconditional love.

I think I would support my child through the pregnancy & make sure she had the proper medical care. I would not force her to have an abortion, but support her decision if she wanted one. If she decided to go through with it & have the baby, I think I would suggest to her to give the baby up for adoption. If she decided to keep the baby, I would have her take a few classes in child care.

How about you?? What would you do??


Love her for who and what she is, allow "HER" to have the consequences of "HER" actions.

Hopefully, prior to something like this happening, I would have done "MY" job in instilling some real facts of life into her..dunno
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 9:02 AM CST
The mayor has issued a statement that there is no evidence of a pact of any kind. This was on CNN last night.

However it is disturbing that all thses girls have gotten pregnant, and some by a homeless man....who obviously can not contribute to the welfare of the child or mother
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 9:05 AM CST
Scottishlass wrote:
GLOUCESTER, Massachusetts (AP) -- A pact made by a group of teens to get pregnant and raise their babies together is at least partly behind a sudden spike in pregnancies at Gloucester High School, school officials said.

Principal Joseph Sullivan told Time magazine in a story published Wednesday that the girls confessed to making the pact after the school began investigating a rise in pregnancies that has left 17 girls at the school carrying a child. Normally, there are about four pregnancies a year at the school.

Sullivan told Time that nearly half of the expecting students, none over 16, were involved. Sullivan said students were coming to the school clinic multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and "seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were."

Some of the girls reacted to the news they were pregnant with high fives and plans for baby showers, Sullivan said. One of the fathers "is a 24-year-old homeless guy," Sullivan told the magazine.

Superintendent Christopher Farmer confirmed the deal to WBZ-TV, saying the girls had "an agreement to get pregnant."

He said the girls are generally "girls who lack self-esteem and have a lack of love in their life."

The first reports of the students' apparent plan to get pregnant were in the Gloucester Daily Times in March, when Sullivan said students were reporting that the girls were getting pregnant on purpose.

The rash of pregnancies has shaken the seaside city about 30 miles north of Boston. Last month, two officials at the high school health center resigned to protest the resistance from the local hospital to the confidential distribution of contraceptives. The hospital administers the state money that funds the clinic. I would be very disappointed in myself for not doing a better job in raising her and upset with myself for not showing her enough unconditional love.

I think I would support my child through the pregnancy & make sure she had the proper medical care. I would not force her to have an abortion, but support her decision if she wanted one. If she decided to go through with it & have the baby, I think I would suggest to her to give the baby up for adoption. If she decided to keep the baby, I would have her take a few classes in child care.

How about you?? What would you do??
Hi Anne hug my view would be the same as yours
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Sparky55
Prattville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 9:33 AM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Hmmm i have 2 boys...but you cannot protect ur child 24/7...

you install in them what you can...

Everyone makes choices...and they have to live with them...

If i had a daughter and she ended up Pregnant...

I would support her no matter what...


Could not have said it better. Completely agree...
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 9:36 AM CST
Sparky55 wrote:
Could not have said it better. Completely agree...
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DaisyChick
Portland, Oregon USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 9:44 AM CST
This is such a sad story. I would like to hear from some of these parents!

If it wasn't a pact than it was one hell of a coincidence!! I don't know... I think there had to be some sort of pact involved.

Stupid, stupid girls, they are going to get quite a wake up call.
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wolfpack
post falls, Idaho USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 12:30 PM CST
I would frreak out
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 1:00 PM CST
This is a Catholic community....a community dominated by the Church. Though there is a problem in the community with teen pregnancy, the students at this high school have to travel to another town to get contraceptives. Also, apparently these girls wanted a child because they had low self esteem and wanted a baby for unconditional love.

I am not attacking the Catholics per se, but organized religion...how is it working when this is the atmosphere in the community? A very religious community? What's the purpose of religion? Only to set rules and judge, or to help people live better lives? Where is the love these girls should be feeling? Where is the support?
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sillyricky55
San Diego, California USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 1:51 PM CST
Scottishlass wrote:
GLOUCESTER, Massachusetts (AP) -- A pact made by a group of teens to get pregnant and raise their babies together is at least partly behind a sudden spike in pregnancies at Gloucester High School, school officials said.

Principal Joseph Sullivan told Time magazine in a story published Wednesday that the girls confessed to making the pact after the school began investigating a rise in pregnancies that has left 17 girls at the school carrying a child. Normally, there are about four pregnancies a year at the school.

Sullivan told Time that nearly half of the expecting students, none over 16, were involved. Sullivan said students were coming to the school clinic multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and "seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were."

Some of the girls reacted to the news they were pregnant with high fives and plans for baby showers, Sullivan said. One of the fathers "is a 24-year-old homeless guy," Sullivan told the magazine.

Superintendent Christopher Farmer confirmed the deal to WBZ-TV, saying the girls had "an agreement to get pregnant."

He said the girls are generally "girls who lack self-esteem and have a lack of love in their life."

The first reports of the students' apparent plan to get pregnant were in the Gloucester Daily Times in March, when Sullivan said students were reporting that the girls were getting pregnant on purpose.

The rash of pregnancies has shaken the seaside city about 30 miles north of Boston. Last month, two officials at the high school health center resigned to protest the resistance from the local hospital to the confidential distribution of contraceptives. The hospital administers the state money that funds the clinic. I would be very disappointed in myself for not doing a better job in raising her and upset with myself for not showing her enough unconditional love.

I think I would support my child through the pregnancy & make sure she had the proper medical care. I would not force her to have an abortion, but support her decision if she wanted one. If she decided to go through with it & have the baby, I think I would suggest to her to give the baby up for adoption. If she decided to keep the baby, I would have her take a few classes in child care.

How about you?? What would you do??



I would be hard on myself for not doing a better job at being a parent and raising my daughter. It would bother me if she came home and told me she was involved with something like this. I guess I was raised old-fashioned and having the background I have(miltary), I would live the thing of not asking any one not to do something I would not do myself. I would have never involved myself in this.
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FlowerOfTheSun
Malaga, Andalucia Spain
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 2:29 PM CST
My daughter did get pregnant when she was 17 1/2 in spite of the fact she was well informed (by me) about contraception and anything she wanted to know AND I had taken her to the doctors to arrange for contraception as she was in a "steady relationship" with a guy slightly older than her ... I didn't particularly like the choices she was making (boyfriend wise) but apart from discussing them with her and being supportive I did not see what else constructive I could do. I knew to "forbid" her to see him would be useless unless I kept her locked up at home ... Sometimes older children make choices in their lives the parents can do not much about ... Apart from being there for them when they need advice or support to face up to the sometimes far reaching consequences of their choices ... She's now 24 with 2 beautiful kids and is rebuilding her life without the company of the "unsuitable" partner although he is still involved with the kids ...

In the case of the multiple pregnancies of the OP sounds like a different cenario ...
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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 2:52 PM CST
I agree with what you would do, Lass. It's truly a sad thing.
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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jun 24, 2008, 3:09 PM CST
trish123 wrote:
I have to question what kind of a society makes these kids feel they need to behave this way


memes?... wave

Kids wanting to grow up long before they're due, finding media showing the grown up world in technocolor and we expect it not to have an affect on kids who are constantly told, 'when you grow you can blah blah blah...." or "youre just a kid" ...rebellion has most always been the banner of youth, misguided or otherwise. dunno

emphasis on misguided.

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EZGOING1
Bowling Green, Kentucky USA
Posted: Aug 2, 2008, 9:06 AM CST
What about having the boys involved taken to jail for rape, none of these kids were old enought to make that decision. There parents should be proud of themselfves for not watching and knowing more about what was going on.I know I am old fashion but it all seemed a lot easer back then, not to say it was perfict, just better.
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bushbun
Minneapolis, Minnesota USA
Posted: Aug 2, 2008, 10:11 AM CST
trish123 wrote:
I have to question what kind of a society makes these kids feel they need to behave this way











100% agree with you...and their parents as well...
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