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People on here only seem to reply to certain members threads / comments??? Is it jus me who thinks this??? It used to be very different here a few months ago but since I have come back I have noticed this happening more and more.

I for one dont bother to post as much as each time I try it is mostly ignored....and people carry on with the disscussion and / or their own little private chats.

I am not meaning to come accross bitchy or anything, I am just merely stating how I think others who are new at posting may feel also.

I usually only post to things that interest me...has nothing to do with the member itself

Hi Minimoo! Yeah, I know what you mean, but don't let it bother you. I think a lot of the people here have become good friends and have been on for awhile. Post your thoughts/ideas. You'll end up getting responses sooner or later!

Hi Minimoo--

Rosie and I were saying the same thing the other day. It has changed on here and not for the good. I don't post as much any longer either as I feel ignored too.

LOL guess things move on.

I sure wish I could attend the party in Dublin next week. You are going to have a fantastic turnout!!

I just post right over the chit chat. Doesn't really bother me.

Sometimes some of the private chats are actually funny.

True, but some have been here longer and so it is strange that people pass over what some say to concentrate on their friends.

I have also found that people preach to you and accuse you of things now. LOL it is not as much fun as it was a year ago.

Hey thanks for your replies.....and yes I agree...bring back the good old days when there were proper disscussions and laughs and not jus little chats amongst a few people who seem to take over the threads.....

Yes....86 signed up so far...hope to arrange a proper nite in a function room before the end of the summer so hopefully u can come to that...will let u know!


xxx

I really think you're subconscoiusly trying to feel at home again and make every newbie recognize your OLD post!

When you are at a bar with lots of friends together, at dinner home, any gathering of your friends, who you love equally, do you really reply to all what they say? Is it that bad to reply to some? In your time everybody used to reply to every post? Come on young lady, welcome back!

PS: we cook and clean the house while online!

What do you want from me?

Oh, wait. I'm taking this thread personal.

As, maybe, perhaps, you're taking this situation.

I post to what interests me. I try to spread it out among the threads, but I can only type so fast, so, MAYBE, I end up posting in response to a certain group who are posting all the time.

Cant help who's posting and who's just lurking...

ok lots of warning pls... I would love to come back to Dublin or anywhere in Ireland.

Be nice to Celtic Ring... he is a nice man and will be attending his first CS party.

I think there are plenty of proper discussions here...and plenty of threads just to have laughs. Depends on how you define "proper".....the flow is in motion....and it changes by the day....

Nice to meet you minimoo.... I'm the weird one here, along with a few others....so we talk about those weird or paranormal things...and it's up to anybody to join in or just stay out...

I think u are misunderstanding what I am saying...not trying to make anyone recognise anything at all...just trying to have a disscussion

True sweetie, but sometimes, people pass over those they don't know or want to know and respond to someone who posted after... it feels rude and not very nice...

I am a longtimer here on CS and i get ignored too.....but i put it down to what is going in the thread and dont take it personal.....because if i did i wouldnt be talking to anyone as i would be so paranoid....


For awhile there was an awful lot of bitchness but thank god that has gone or not as bad........So there has been a good few funny threads

Who are you again?? Oh yes the queen of scones and Jims woman?

I would NEVER ignore you nuala...

Not if I know what's good for me...

Beware folks, she has a clan, and the Irish have long memories...

I agree.. I kind of do that.. I stay away from the stuff im not really interested in.. (like politics and religion and a few other things).. and I DO try to welcome newbies. I know it's hard sometimes to get a word in if a few people are already yapping.

But I do think its the same as anywhere in RL..

If you walked into a bar and there are a load of locals sat around talking.. at first you ARE the outsider.. (its just how it is).. they may all say *Hi*... but it takes a while to get into the groove of what's being said .. and to feel comfortable enuff to join in.. eventually.. you too become one of the locals.

We were ALL newbies once.

So Minimoo seems you have succeeded in your mission, cuz this is an active lively thread and lots of posts all positive!

I think its better to get ignored...I get attacked quite often with my comments in the threads