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Five qualities – deal breakers…




Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 12:39 AM CST
(1) Honesty, about himself and what he wants/is looking for angel
(2) Good hygeine, oh yes, sooooo important wow!
(3) Intelligence, not a braniac but not stupid either... I must be able to have an intelligent conversation with him professor
(4) Romantic bouquet of flowers
(5) Male sticking out tongue
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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 12:39 AM CST
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NorseMedic
College Station, Texas USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 4:01 AM CST
1. Family values
I'm sick of boys running around with their friends all the time and only focusing on having fun. I want a MAN who is stabile and cares for his loved ones. Family is very important to me. It doesn't mean he should be stuck at home every weekend. It should mean than when it comes down to it he will prioritize his family above everything else.

2. Not a quitter
I can't stand people who run off as soon as they meet a little bump on their path. When the going gets tough, the tough keep on going. If he's not willing to fight for it at all he's just not passionate enough.

3. Loyalty
This should cover both honesty and just staying true to the people around him. To survive the rough times life can treat you with you need to stick together. For better or for worse.

4. Liberalism
It has nothing to do with politics. I have my own friends and I have my own life, and I want to make him a part of it, and myself a part of his. But I want time on my own too, I want to go out with my friends on their birthdays and get wasted without my spouse, I want to be able to do things for me and just me and I need to feel trusted when doing so. If I cannot have my freedom and independence without him throwing a jealous tantrum we're through. I crave this so seldom that it shouldn't be an issue.

Healthy relationships to money and material
I grew up on military bases having nothing of real value so even the small things are luxurious to me. Money is only on my mind when I need them; otherwise they are not a concern of mine. I could never live with someone who cared A LOT for these round metal things or the funky paper bills. I'm not a materialistic girl - it's just STUFF for crying out loud. I don't care if I don't have the latest version of a big screen TV and I certainly don't want to work extra in order to get one. I want to be home with my family, even if it means that I can't have my Manolo Blahnik's.

Yup, that is pretty much it. blushing
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:00 AM CST
abusive
controling
weight more than 327 lb ( 158 kg)
shorter than 5 ft (1.50 m)
dumb
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Lagoona22
Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:19 AM CST
Right on the money!!...that about covers it...



NorseMedic wrote:
1. Family values


2. Not a quitter

3. Loyalty


4. Liberalism


Yup, that is pretty much it.



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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:21 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
abusive
controling
weight more than 327 lb ( 158 kg)
shorter than 5 ft (1.50 m)
dumb


giggle
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:46 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
.........


are you laughting at my preferences?

dont you think that is disrespectfull?

well, then i will have to let lust and hormones to rule my life
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:47 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
are you laughting at my preferences?

dont you think that is disrespectfull?

well, then i will have to let lust and hormones to rule my life


No I was laughing at your rudeness of calling some people DUMB.



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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:51 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
No I was laughing at your rudeness of calling some people DUMB.


people get ofended when i use the term "mentally disable"

i do not master the language well

i used the othe words that i know

but if you ae so kind to tell me a word that is not rude to cal the "mentalli disable" people i wil use it

by the way the expresion "mentally disable" i learned from a neighbour (refering to her child), and she is american born
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Portiea
Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:52 AM CST
The feeding of trolls in not recommended.
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:54 AM CST
Portiea wrote:
The feeding of trolls in not recommended.


IYO
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 6:55 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
people get ofended when i use the term "mentally disable"

i do not master the language well

i used the othe words that i know

but if you ae so kind to tell me a word that is not rude to cal the "mentalli disable" people i wil use it

by the way the expresion "mentally disable" i learned from a neighbour (refering to her child), and she is american born


Okay .. then I'm sorry .. handshake
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:12 AM CST
Claayer wrote:
Okay .. then I'm sorry ..


it seems you are the rude one

i asked to help me with the language,
i thought you will be kind enought as to do it
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gypsykisses
Port Huron, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:20 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
it seems you are the rude one

i asked to help me with the language,
i thought you will be kind enought as to do it





dumb and mentally disabled are two different things.

I don't see much need to keep arguing once a person apologizes. Makes no sense to me.

Do you need a bigger spoon or are you doing alright with the one that you have?
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:29 AM CST
gypsykisses wrote:
dumb and mentally disabled are two different things.

I don't see much need to keep arguing once a person apologizes. Makes no sense to me.

Do you need a bigger spoon or are you doing alright with the one that you have?


thank you

the i can use mentally disable withuut being rude?
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inverphil
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:30 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
it seems you are the rude one

i asked to help me with the language,
i thought you will be kind enought as to do it

Give it a rest Alex the Lady said she was sorry and a handshake what more do you want it seems to me you like to argue and be rude.wave
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:35 AM CST
inverphil wrote:
Give it a rest Alex the Lady said she was sorry and a handshake what more do you want it seems to me you like to argue and be rude.


i am not argueing at all
and if you take your time to look at all my post you will realize i am not fluent in english

but i belie it is rude to deny help

i do my best to avoid being rude and i ask what is the proper polite words to use

is that hard?

but some one that claims i am ride, at least she should show she is polite and help me

if she does not help me i will expect others will not jump to say i shuld not ask for help, but to help me
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gypsykisses
Port Huron, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:36 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
thank you

the i can use mentally disable withuut being rude?




in this "moral majority" age, who knows what to call anyone? Mentally challenged would probably be nice. Apologizing to Claayer would be a bit nicer.bouquet of flowers
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:40 AM CST
my apologize to Claayer

please forgive me
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gypsykisses
Port Huron, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 7:42 AM CST
alex_192 wrote:
my apologize to Claayer

please forgive me




bouquet of flowers Well done Alexbouquet of flowers
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