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I am trying to pin you down, but it's not personal. We get a lot of new men, about your age or so, asking about older women. Comes up at least once or twice a week.

Honestly, it kind of sounds like in an older women, you are not actually seeking a long term, permanent, committed relationship...that you would be seriously interested in making a life with an older women. Sounds like you find them physically attractive, sexy and that it would be an interesting experience, a learning experience, an a way to try out new things. That's what I'm getting from what you are saying.

Please correct me if I am wrong.

Again, this is not meant to be judgemental at all....just curious and trying to learn and understand where you guys are coming from.

who knows if I would want to be in a serious relationship? seriously you need to get to know anyone before you can say a thing like that. I am surprised that you don't think like this. I am not advertising I want marriage I am trying to get out there and see what I want. If I knew I would not be trying to find it...

I'm always getting the Mrs. Robinson thing as offers from younger men. I'm really not looking for that and I tell them so politely. There are some that do and I'm not judging at all, just not my thing.

So, if you were to meet and date an older woman, would you tell her up front that you were not at all sure what you wanted...that you were just going along to see what happened? I wonder because I know a lot of 'older' women who would essentially only be interested in getting involved with a man who was looking for and intending on finding a soulmate, someone to spend the rest of his life with. You are prevaricating a lot on the queston of whether or not you'd want to have a long term committed relationship with anyone...so I just wonder if you are thinking an older woman would be fun for a while, but...

Not criticism..again...just want to understand.

Ah hell, another one needing training. Whose turn is it?

Cruel....very cruel....... God (and the women on here) will get you for it.....

Oh and to answer this question: Who knows if [they] would want to be in a serious relationship? Lots of people do. That's what lots of people are looking for...including lots of older women.

I am trying to learn something this time...

Thanks for answering my Question:

But see what you put there..A woman wanting a Boy....We dont want a boy....

I have 2 of them....18 and 10...

I dont think any woman would want to be treated like a Queen...but an EQUAL....

Enjoy together cooking...cleaning...dishes...cuddling and so on....

I do think that boys do grow quickly in their mind then woman....

but you know the girls you are talking about will get older and want the same thing....

Its nice to enjoy life..but its also nice not to rush into settling down so quickly...

You seem to be a very intelligent Person...

But again Each to their own...

i thought you were very young..but ur age here says 26...

I get mail from guys 18 and so on...I dont think they really know what they want....

Thanks for answering my Question:

But see what you put there..A woman wanting a Boy....We dont want a boy....

I have 2 of them....18 and 10...

I dont think any woman would want to be treated like a Queen...but an EQUAL....

Enjoy together cooking...cleaning...dishes...cuddling and so on....

I do think that boys do grow quickly in their mind then woman....

but you know the girls you are talking about will get older and want the same thing....

Its nice to enjoy life..but its also nice not to rush into settling down so quickly...

You seem to be a very intelligent Person...

But again Each to their own...

i thought you were very young..but ur age here says 26...

I get mail from guys 18 and so on...I dont think they really know what they want....

sorry about the double post

well of course I would tell them. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. I DO NOT BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SITE. I think like anything in life you have to see what is out there before making any choices. I would love to meet a successful woman and who knows maybe someday have that type of relationship. But I am not going to waste my time rushing into yet another relationship.

Koo Koo Koo Ka Choo Mrs. Robinson. there are plenty of ladies to choose from who like much younger men. It is up to you man to find them. If you need a map then you're not ready for it.

Sorry,

Yes I do.....

I agree that doing things together is a must. However a lot of women in their forties are divorced. And from my experience most men that are the same age do not know how to treat a lady. When I say boy I meant younger man I was trying to short hand. I take care of everything in my life and I know where I want to be. I love my job i am good at it and I am in the process of starting my own business.

Anyway I am seeing a lot of animosity towards this question and I am thinking maybe I should not have gone there.

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aww come on we are older and we want to learn some things as you want to learn from older ladies as well....

Pls stay and tell me some more...

by the way i have never been Married by

this is the best advice I have got. Thanks