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Okay....I am going to speak from my experience pertaining to this topic....and I will be brutally honest.

When I was in my 20's, I really wanted experience making love to woman in her upper 30's. Never really happened until I was 26, but the woman was only 34.

When I got into my 30's, I wanted to experience making love to a woman in her 40's. So a couple of years ago, I had a pure sexual relationship with a 42 year old. Wow! However, things did not work out because of other issues with another woman that was putting me on hold (it's complicated).

Last year, I had a 2 month relationship with a 45 year old. She lied about her age, but I understood. I liked her and tried not to let the age thing bother me...and the fact she lied. We got along great and everything was fantastic....except for the fact that she lived in Prague. I called it off because I just did not know if I wanted to be with a 50 year old when I would be 39. The thought scared me. I don't know why, but it did. So I followed my heart. Just to clarify, I was in it for the relationship and not just sex.

In the end, I learned that I am more comfortable with women closer to me in age....younger or older. Maybe it's natural selection or the social conditioning...I don't know, I just go with what I feel. I really tried with a woman who was 11 years older than me, but it was just not meant to be for a long term relationship.

Also, on my baseball team, there are a couple of younger guys who just want to have sex with an older woman to see what it's like. Not a relationship, but just sex. I think the numbers are in the minority as far as younger guys who actually want to cultivate something meaningful with older women.

Thank you stressfree for that...makes us understand more

No probs.....These younger men in their younger 20's who ask about older woman pretty much only have one thing in mind only.....not everybody, but the majority.
I do know a lady who when she was 38, was married to a teenager who was 18 at the time. It's a long story, but they are divorced now.

wow...38 and 18..for me that would be offlimits...

i would go 10 each way....i will be 44 july 3...

34 and up maybe a little younger but i dont think younger then 26

nursing homes are good. Church socials and over 55 communities. Bingo Halls are also good for finding older women. Republican fund raisers, arts and crafts shows, so many wonderful venuesfor finding that older woman of your dreams.

When I want an older woman, I usually go to a funeral home, where they are picking out their home for the near future.

For heavens sake Starlin! Not ALL older woman have one foot in the grave. At 55 I have probably more energy than a 35 yr old. I said this once before-I dated a guy 17 yrs younger than me and I ran circles around him. Not only in the bedroom but any physical activity. We older women are wiser to the bull, know how to properly please our men, don't call in work just for a headache, and have learned to take care of our selves. Now I will get off the soap box......

I do think age has a lot to do with attitude....if someone who is over 50 feels old, thinks old, and acts old--that's a choice...but other people who are over 50 thinkg and act and feel like much younger people. These days with people living much longer and healtier lives than ever before, I don't think 40 or 50 or 60 are what they used to be....

Holy Cow!

Can I have some of whatever it is you're drinking.

That' great, though!

you have hit it....I am going to hang the clothes and when I finish that I am going to wallpaper the kitchen.....I will need some luck with the papering but think I can handle it

Personally, I just finished University - may take up bungee jumping next (55 next)

i respect your honesty

What do YOU have to offer them?? Other than sex that is?

Finally someone asks a great question, not just good, Great.