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Hey how r ya? thanks for ur interet. So yes I am approaching them in a sincere way but on this site, I either get no response or judged immediately. My spirit has been gettin checked alot about looking for love here lately because I'm believing the answer is finally coming to me. I get most questions about my music business involvement and the women seem to be telling me, "Oh I'm sure you have all kinds of woman around you when your singing and playing guitar." And this is not the case all the time as I explain and if and when it happens, the women are loaded. I don't care how good they look, that turns me off. I send them this and still no replies in the future which leads me to the other two reasons. A) Could be that they're judging my profile with a price tag as they view my income. Which does vary quite often so if that's what's up, it's for the better they don't contact me anyway. and B) I'm finding that there's alot of false characters and identity here and perhaps people are becoming simply addicted to the search to meet more and more and more to try to fill a void in their life. Kind of like those addicted to shopping.
Let me know if it makes any sense or you have something to add. Thanks!
-Chris

chris,
Leave the older women alone! do I chase young wome....never mind.

OK, Here we go! Lord forgive me for my thoughts. I've never had gay tendencies or experiences..I am however a male lesbian. (:>})!!!
When I've traveled, recorded, and lived in Norway, My one recording studio friend gave me some advice with finding a woman who will
be true, loyal, and sincere to there man forever. I'm not sure if I'll post athread but I'm tempted. I think you'll all love it so I think I will.
Keywords...expanded from this thread....Communication, Loyal heart, Love forever, orgasm, honesty, anal sex.
Not my advice so lets get this strait form the get go.

BTW, my father was watching Dana Cary the other night and one of his stories fits well to this thread as well. Dana was saying how the US Forces don't prefer to have openly Gay men in the army. Than Dana folowed up by saying it might be more helpful to have more gays in the army because at least they know when to pull out when th shit gets deep

Cyall soon
-Chris

Hello Chris, Younger guys can and do find older women to date and more. Even marry. I speak from experience to you. I don't know how old you are, but if you were to find a more mature woman you would find in the long run that having isn't as desirable as wanting. In the meantime the "long run" (your life) has passed quite a few years that you can never reclaim. The longer you hang "in" there, (marriage) trying to keep it going, the more of your life has gone. She WILL slow down and you will no longer be a satisfied man. She will stop doing the things you used to enjoy doing together. Not because she doesn't want to, but simply because she is no longer capable. If she is your true soulmate, (use extreme wisdom and discernment) then it would not matter to you if she turned 89 when you are 55 or 60. Otherwise, you would gain an insight into exactly the point I am trying to make here. Don't get me wrong, I am all for true love, and searching for it myself. I am just as human as the next person, and I have made my mistakes. Just be careful you don't make one too because the price is extremely high and non-refundable. Jim

Not if the words are, "It's OK, I don't see any cars coming!"

Guess I need to scratch "older men" off my list.

Friends of mine are a great couple. A couple people could take lessons from. The friend that decided these two should meet was not told about age being a problem.

When he met her, she was a widow with 4 teen aged children. JMO, most guys would run in a situation like this.

They have been married for over 17 yrs now. Her children call him Papa .. the grandchildren love their Grandpa.

This couple also have the same colored white hair, give each other that look and smile at each other. He is 11 yrs younger than she is. He did not view her as an older women with 4 kids.... he saw her as a beautiful woman from the start. He did not run away.

The age difference was never a problem for either one of them. They hold hands everwhere.... and whenever we were at a dinner or dance/party and one of them was across the room or even just across the table, they had this little sign they gave to each other. It's their sign for I love you.

It might sound like a silly fairy tale, but they have been through lots regarding raising 4 teens, health issues, death of a child, etc., but have stuck be each other, and still can give that smile and look to each other.

So if I could, I would love to have what they have.... still have that "I'm in love with you" smile at the end of the day, no matter what life has thrown at us, and strong enough to stay and support each other through all of it. Still want to hold hands....

By some of today's standards, and from what I have seen on some profiles, this couple might not have met if it they had the feeling that age was a problem. (JMO)

It's my personal choice... to now date guys the same age as my kids...

I just feel I have more in common with some one my age.... does not mean I am not open to someone with in the 10 yr age range.... younger or older... it has not happened. If someone did show interest and we clicked and there was a good relationship... who knows.

She might get bored with you...Older women require more from men. Younger men don't do much. We're not insecure, we just want to do stuff. Why do you think you're attracted? This is a woman who will learn to ski, or scuba, or anything. Weekends are for learning and excursions. Don't sit at home. Go dancing. Every woman loves dance lessons. Anything, just do it! Ask the right woman to go take a class! Go to a class, meet a woman. Ask your kids, they know where the milfs/cougars are. We're not hard to find.

I'm keeping this for all the young boys. Maybe they wont be so upset when I say I want man close to my age.

Thanks so much, BTW, I'm Chris....That's the best reply I've heard yet. You just shred some excelent words of wisdom.
May God Bless you and ur Family in all areas of life!
Sincerely,
-Chris

Personally I thought it was kinda depressing.

ahhh older women love em, would rather be with an older woman myself...

I know of another who does too. Not that much older though!

what you mean????

My great date!

hey CJ, just joined this thread...so just as I was getting my passport ready to jump on next flight to meet you, I couldn't find your profile!!!