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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:38 AM CST
how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds frustrated crying
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:39 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds


aaawwww teddy bear hug


Want to tell us some more about it? comfort hug
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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:42 AM CST
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:44 AM CST
comfort Poor thing.

Nothing helps with this sort of pain.

You just need to soldier on.
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mychelle
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:44 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds

That person would be playing mind games with you. He would come on strong then disappear as fast as he had entered your mind. It takes a while to build a relationship, and while some seems to be able to pull it of in weeks/months, others need a lot longer before they tread the deep end. Be cautious is the advice I would give you, as it also apply to myself.
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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:45 AM CST
how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:46 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop


have you spoken to him since on the phone?

have you trying calling him?
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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:46 AM CST
sxc666 wrote:
Poor thing.

Nothing helps with this sort of pain.

You just need to soldier on.


Tina is right.. unfortunately. comfort
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wolfpack
post falls, Idaho USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:48 AM CST
need to get your mind off him and onto something else. You need to occupy your and keep busy.
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mychelle
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:49 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop

Don't give someone so much power over you. Shrug it off, and keep busy doing other things. A man doesnot define you, because there is so much to you as a person. You have so much more to do, and there are so many more meaningful relationships that this one glitch will seem like nothing soon.
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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:50 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop


I remember this from before.Are you getting these texts from that very young fella?

Text him back with the words, police report.This should make him stop.
jmho.

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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:51 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds


I am sorry this happened. Tina is correct...there isn't much to do about it but go through it.

Maybe he got cold feet and might have a change of heart once he realizes what he has done. Hang in there!!
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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:51 AM CST
i tried to text him and i know he wont answer his phone, he isnt answering his text! i cant seem to shake this
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:51 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!
Oh honey that will make u crazy...you should be glad that you found out now and not later...

Its seems to me you love him more then he did you..JMO

I am sure you wont be the last he plays mind games with...

Everything does happen for a reason....

I know that may not help but as time goes on...you will too...

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:52 AM CST
players are everywhere!! Chin up!! If I were forty years younger, had more money, better educated, was better looking, taller, lighter,....why I'd sweep you right off your feet!!devil
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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:55 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
i tried to text him and i know he wont answer his phone, he isnt answering his text! i cant seem to shake this


did you ever meet him in person?
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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:56 AM CST
lol shippoker that actually made me smile! laugh i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
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kissmedeeply
New brunswick, New Brunswick Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:58 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
lol shippoker that actually made me smile! i wish someone could just take out the pain and the memories, so i could live. right now i am just existing and not sure i want to live. I know in my mind i have to live because i have a 10yr old son, but my heart says go for it
scold No No NO...No man is worth that...

If he makes you feel that way about urself...then he is NOTHING
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gigi36
mansfield, Massachusetts USA
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 10:58 AM CST
yeah 666 i went down to GA to see him in May and it was fun and we were happy and he was supposed to come up in july. he is 14yrs younger than me and i should have listened to my instincts but he pushed for this and said not to think of ag, as but a #
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mychelle
Toronto, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jun 26, 2008, 11:13 AM CST
gigi36 wrote:
how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!

Start by shampooing him right out of your hair. Add A nice luxurious bath, with whatever you feel like adding to it, bath beads(be sure you use a non-slip bath mat in tub, a new soap, or shower gel....After that towel dry with a nice soft towel...get into your best outfit with your perfume on or body mist. Girl, take yourself out to a nice place to eat...sink your teeth into something nutritious.....enjoy every moment, because you are important!
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