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Great ideas, thanks! (I love the last one) I have no problems giving kisses, real or virtual, to people that I feel are, or could be, my friends. It's when after just a couple of chats the person sends kisses goodnight, I can't return it, and they assume I am "too cold", have some "barriers", I "can't feel love", etc etc etc. Sheesh.

It seems to me that THEY are the ones who have the issues.......not you! Can't feel love??? After 3 chats??? Wonders if they have ever been accused of having a grandiose veiw of themselves or even a narcissistic personality???

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE READING THIS AND SEEING YOURSELVES.......THINK ABOUT REALITY!!!! If you had occassion to talk briefly with a woman or a man (yes, women are guilty of the same thing at times), say 2 or 3 times in the grocery store or at the library......wherever.......and you were somewhat attracted to that person.........Would you then accuse them of being 'cold', 'having issues or barriers', or 'not capable of feeling love' just because they didn't kiss you or hug you when they said goodbye or goodnight? REMEMBER.......it was a conversation........NOT A DATE!

In depends on the length of the chat baby...some chats are for all night long. If you chat with a guy for more than 3 hours it's because he means something to you.
Kisses, hugs don't take any piece...as long as you're not naked.
Telling them you liked the way they expressed that particulat idea, smile emoticons, not bad for the first chat.
I assume that you don't take anyone to your MSN, if you've decided to do so, that person is some what interesting, right? So, why not demonstrate your emotions by emoticons at least? Lots of hugs versions...give him the less intimate

They can't all give upon the same arguments baby...don't lose that most special just cause he needed a hug...

Thank you so much. That's really put my mind at ease, I can go to bed now! (almost midnight here) Very true indeed. No relationship should be rushed, whether online or in real...

And here comes the hot-blooded Cristina and says exactly what those men usually say or,I'm sure, at least think.

P.S. I meant to add as well. Thanks for your post, and it really does depict THAT side of the argument, in my case... And my dilemma as well.

I got scared for a minute




'night girl