What Guys do that Scares Women Away

Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:09 AM CST

I have a tendency to hold back and be a bit unresponsive (or so I feel) when a woman contacts me. My big fear is to come on too strong and scare her away, so I tend to do the polar opposite.

So my question is... Ladies, what do guys do the scares you away and/or really turns you off?

Zee

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:10 AM CST

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:11 AM CST

For me its defiantley coming on to strong to soon.

Take your time get to know me before I'll walk down the isle with you.

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:12 AM CST

Not quite the answer I was looking for

Zee

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:13 AM CST

alrightie then

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:14 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

For me its defiantley coming on to strong to soon.

Take your time get to know me before I'll walk down the isle with you.

Isle?

did I mention fear of commitment?

Zee

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:14 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

alrightie then

Maybe that was posted at me?

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:14 AM CST

Zeelander wrote:

Not quite the answer I was looking for

Zee

What answer were you loking for then?

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:15 AM CST

dcj22 wrote:

Maybe that was posted at me?

That post was at you...

Zee

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:16 AM CST

dcj22 wrote:

Maybe that was posted at me?

Yeah I cottoned onto that after the post.

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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:16 AM CST

Zeelander wrote:

I have a tendency to hold back and be a bit unresponsive (or so I feel) when a woman contacts me. My big fear is to come on too strong and scare her away, so I tend to do the polar opposite.

So my question is... Ladies, what do guys do the scares you away and/or really turns you off?

Zee

I think you are wise to hold off a bit - it scares the living daylights out of me is somebody is too much in my face

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:16 AM CST

gingerb wrote:

What answer were you loking for then?

I wasn't looking for a spectator.... that is my job...LOL

Zee

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:17 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

Yeah I cottoned onto that after the post.

Maybe not. Apparently Tommy has a fear of committment.

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:17 AM CST

Zeelander wrote:

Isle?

did I mention fear of commitment?

Zee

fear of commitment for you. Or are you having a crack at what I said ?

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:18 AM CST

Zeelander wrote:

I wasn't looking for a spectator.... that is my job...LOL

Zee

I like to spectate too.

Wanta share?

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:23 AM CST

sxc666 wrote:

fear of commitment for you. Or are you having a crack at what I said ?

Just having a little fun...

Zee

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Zeelander
Louisville, Kentucky USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:24 AM CST

dcj22 wrote:

I like to spectate too. Wanta share?

Woo hoo... I love sharing.... and popcorn

Zee

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dcj22
Somewhere, Minnesota USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:27 AM CST

Zeelander wrote:

Woo hoo... I love sharing.... and popcorn

Zee

So see, a fellow spectator isn't so bad if they share.

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horselady5
Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:32 AM CST

Doesn't have a sense of humor.

Displays a boring, rude cocky attitude .. confidence is one thing but... please!!!

When they only want to talk about themselves.

Brings up their ex-wives & girlfriends in every conversation.

Cussing.

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:34 AM CST

And telling me how big you package is in about the 3rd email doesn't really do it for me either.

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