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Push...pull will turn me off in a nano-second...if I wanted drama in my life I would have stayed married....If you aren't mature enough to handle a real relationship with real feelings then I suggest you don't be in one!!!!!!!!!!

Oh, I can be bitch, without effort! Don't give me a reason!(giggle)

I hate it when they call a lady a girl
when they IM you and have nothing to say
they want to hurry and meet you after one email
they try to find out where you live after only saying hi
when they lecture you on your life

I decided years ago to emphasise my good points, like piles, hallitosis, gambling addictions, alcoholism, chronic bowl disorder and projectile vomiting.

If that fails i add that i'm broke, i cant cook, i'm trying to work out where all the fleas are coming from and then raise the possibility of a date before belching loudly without covering my mouth obviously.

Then again if you believe everything you read your an idiot.

Well I gues that didn't work with the biker jacket sniffing stalker though....

You will be caught one day... Trust me..

Zee

oh, did you think I was talking about me?

no wonder the stalkers are after you

I've had 4 in real life!! Two were a massive problem, one where she was totally delusional and the other i had to virtually get the police involved (and i had to talk to her husband to get her to go away or i told him i would be contacting the police!!)

I think if you exhibit a sense of humour sometimes it takes on a meaning to the mentally ill that you cant quantify and just draws them closer, until they smell blood.

My approach was always to be friendly with everyone, until i found out some people were mad as a brush.

I am

Well i made a mistake of travelling to a chatroom get together on one occasion in Birmingham, UK.....and i turned up all neat and well groomed as i was intending to go somewhere after and being a ponsy dresser i suppose i looked a little different from the others who mostly looked like they had escaped from the circus.

So coupled with the new info i dressed ok, i didn't smell, i had a personality and liked a laugh i had some pretty revolting offers in my inbox when i got home over the next few days!!

What i was amazed about though was all of a suddern some people were after me like i was fresh cakes at a weightwatchers meeting!! It made me feel pretty cheap but i did make 2 good friends out of the episode in the end so it was worth all the grief!!

They just thought you were a tart.....

And another. Harping on the same schit on for daaays. (Reminds me of my dad. At some point nobody cares how right you are, just drop it already!)

Do I detect a wee bit of resentment?

Personally I like being called a girl.

Lacing up my sneakers now...Preparing to run

Hi I'm Chris...I see I'm running people away from my posts and that's great because It's a confimation from the Holy Spirit that what I'm writing is all truth.
Here's the most common truth about what an honest man can do to scare a woman.
Be in tune with her enough to notice or talk about her demons pushed aside from her past that may be bringing tension to a relationship. If the demons are honestly dealt with..Yeah let em stay in the grave and move forward in Love.
NOTE: This is with guys and gals.
If the demons from the past are too persistant and continue to affect a relationship for the worst,it will end. Probably not in a good way most of the time.

SO TO PUT IT SIMPLY, A GUY WILL SCARE A WOMAN AWAY IF SHE HAS PERSISTANT STRONG DEMONS DISCOVERED THAT ARE REFUSING TO LEAVE.
HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE???? THE WOMAN WILL DO THE SIMPLE SPIN TACTIC, SAY SHE CAN'T HANDLE ALL OF THE MANS IMPERFECTIONS AND KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB COLDHEARTEDLY. Yeah I know ..Ouch..

Don't forget this can work the othe way as well with Good women scaring guys away as well.
Sincerely
-Chris

So does that mean we need an exorcism then?????

Truly, if God were using YOU to be his messenger ............ and you were speaking/writing the truth through the help of the Holy Spirit ........... would be not be exactly the opposite? That people would be flocking to hear your words? When Jesus spoke, people listened and learned (yes, some did not believe) but when God reveals himself to people they will see and hear.

Yep, that would about scare me off real good.

I can exorcise my own demons, and have thank you very much. I don't need a man for that.