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Virginia dating
mattw7145
Blackstone, Virginia USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:00 AM CST
Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....


sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. shamrock here's to you sigh














They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
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Tennessee dating
darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:03 AM CST
mattw7145 wrote:
Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...
yes they do for some people but dont rush ithandshake
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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:06 AM CST
Get involved in the forums and let the women know what you are about. It works better than e-mails from a new guy!! JMO..of coursethumbs up
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South Carolina dating
mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:36 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
Get involved in the forums and let the women know what you are about. It works better than e-mails from a new guy!! JMO..of course


thumbs up

Welcome and have fun...wave
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Virginia dating
mattw7145
Blackstone, Virginia USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:41 AM CST
well thanks for all the info, lot more then i expected. peace
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Florida singles
WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 8:44 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
Get involved in the forums and let the women know what you are about. It works better than e-mails from a new guy!! JMO..of course


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

Yep. What he said. It's a lot easier to get to know someone from talking with them and others on the forums. A "cold call" type of e-mail usually scares the other away.
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Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 11:38 AM CST

wave




Greetings, Matt...



I won't criticize you. What I will do is attempt to give you a bit of friendly advice - do what you will with it...


Don't set yourself up for a let-down, involving any certain expectations you may or may not have in being here. Have fun, go with the flow, post on the forums that interest you, don't search sooooooo hard - or you are bound to be even more disappointed that you seem to be already. I don't know about other sites, but yes, this site does and has worked, for some.



Relax & enjoy your time here.



Welcome & good luck to you...
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Wisconsin singles
JuleeBeth
Sun Prairie, Wisconsin USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 4:58 PM CST
wave Hello and welcome to CS! Yes, get involved in the forums and BE YOURSELF!
Good luck with your search!






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Kildare singles
chuckiedee
newbridge, Kildare Ireland
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 6:30 PM CST
mattw7145 wrote:
Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...


Hi, welcome to cs. i'm new myself to this so i'm just gonna have some fun and enjoy a laugh. remember sometimes things happen when you least expect it so enjoy..wave
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Maine matchmaking
bob1959
otisfield, Maine USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 6:36 PM CST
Matt,
I came in here about a week ago and did a search just kike you blah blah same ole same ole and stumbled into this forum. Dude, it's great. There's good advise, freindy poeple that can spell and it's hilarios. Hang out for a while. poke around.
bob
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Michigan dating
slim1977
Grand Rapids, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 6:38 PM CST
RedHeadedTaurus wrote:
Don't set yourself up for a let-down, involving any certain expectations you may or may not have in being here. Have fun, go with the flow, post on the forums that interest you, don't search sooooooo hard - or you are bound to be even more disappointed that you seem to be already. I don't know about other sites, but yes, this site does and has worked, for some.
Relax & enjoy your time here.




thumbs up good advice.
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Virginia dating
mattw7145
Blackstone, Virginia USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 9:36 PM CST
hey everyone again thanks for all the info, and im not disappointed, just here for the fun of it, but im a realist, and reality is nothing will happen unless you work for it. im just working for it lol, thanks again.
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Arizona personals
HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 10:01 PM CST
WhatUwish4 wrote:
Yep. What he said. It's a lot easier to get to know someone from talking with them and others on the forums. A "cold call" type of e-mail usually scares the other away.


What about a "hot" call??devil

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Michigan personals
gypsykisses
Port Huron, Michigan USA
Posted: Jun 30, 2008, 10:20 PM CST
mattw7145 wrote:
Can answer that last question, out having a life maybe i should take my own advise lol, but on to other things. Do these site's actually work i mean im sure it takes time but ive sent email's and get no returns i mean honestly why is it so hard to give someone a chance... er ok done with the sounding crazy.. I am new to this online "meeting people" thing but hell i will try anything until it fails, but if anyone has any constructive advice to help me along would be nice, and if you want to criticize me go ahead, waste of your time but hey whatever....sorry all just a lil frustrated with the hole endless search.. They say it's a big ocean with plenty of fish in the sea, how come it always feels like a puddle with a minnow...





laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh


good luckwave
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Virginia dating
mattw7145
Blackstone, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:04 AM CST
lol thanks...laugh
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England dating
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:05 AM CST
shipoker55 wrote:
Get involved in the forums and let the women know what you are about. It works better than e-mails from a new guy!! JMO..of course



What he said ^ thumbs up



wave Welcome to Connecting Singles!
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England dating
Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:06 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
What about a "hot" call??



rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Virginia dating
mattw7145
Blackstone, Virginia USA
Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:42 AM CST
laugh
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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:49 AM CST
Exactly, getting involved in the forums is a very good idea...you can get to know people and in turn they can get to know you too...it does actually work, I've seen it! thumbs up
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