What do women do that scares men away

HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 12:07 AM CST

alabamabebe wrote:

Same thing I was thinking. Been gone for 11 hours and it's still the same thing. Thought I was in some kind of weird time warp there.

Kind of like the Obigmama thread...

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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 2:25 AM CST

trish123 wrote:

Thanks Sweetie - so are you too

The points I made were a sort of retrospective analysis and in no way represent the me of now - Im infinitely stronger than I was 10 or so yrs ago - and lovin it

Its brilliant to hear that you have met somebody and I also totally agree with 100% honesty, these thing take some working at dont they

Im actually more content and fulfilled without a relationship but I cant add 'just now' to that cos its been my state of mind for many years now. I dont envisage this going on forever but after having felt some of my most extreme loneliness' when I have actually been in relationships, I have a great reluctance to upset the apple cart and disrupt the peacefulness which I have surrounded myself with - it feels so good to have actually achieved my objectives under my own steam and knowing what a difficult and time consuming task this has been sort of sets me free from the urgency of needing to have a partner.

Of course, theres nothing I would love more than to share my existence with a 'meaningful other' - that would be idyllic but in this one sense I see a corrolation with the Christian ethic of celibacy before union - simply because it keeps the mind uncomplicated......

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CJSinger
Royersford, Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 2:30 AM CST

Galactic_bodhi wrote:

"live simply, so others may simply live."-Mahatma Gandhi.

Awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:40 AM CST

We talk to them?

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wolfpack
post falls, Idaho USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:45 AM CST

Dont_Look_Now wrote:

We talk to them?

for some that is scary

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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:53 AM CST

wolfpack wrote:

for some that is scary

Scary it's fecken Petrifying

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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 3:57 AM CST

Ya'll are so funny

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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 4:25 AM CST

Dont_Look_Now wrote:

Ya'll are so funny

Ya'll are soooo scary
uhoh:

(ps I love the accent):

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 4:28 AM CST

This isn't a scare, but lack of communication on a ladies part is enough for me to walk away...

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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 6:43 AM CST

Daniel4021 wrote:

This isn't a scare, but lack of communication on a ladies part is enough for me to walk away...

I think you're right Daniel, lack of communication can lead to building up resentments which then bubble over into arguments - its when the situation gets to that stalemate area of both parties digging their heels in that the problems can become insurmountable - oh, I dont know any answers.........

It can be difficult to verbalise feelings sometimes too, especially when theres a hundred and one things running through your mind.......

I think that working on relationship issues could be a useful part of the education system....

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 8:20 AM CST

trish123 wrote:

I think that working on relationship issues could be a useful part of the education system....

we all know about falling in love without much help at all, but knowing how to 'stay in love' needs some work.

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 8:24 AM CST

kkitty wrote:

three things a woman can do that nothing else on this earth can do
give milk without eating grass
bleed for a week without dying
Barry a bone without getting their nose dirty

i love this, this is great and true

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kurzita
Xaghra, Gozo Malta

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 8:27 AM CST

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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 8:37 AM CST

Eating picked eggs in bed and then wanting a kiss while their face is ful off egg might not be a good idea on a first date.

Women with green teeth and smelling of vinegar with no discernable gaps between their teeth is always a good reason to run quick.

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crotalus_p
Rush , Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 8:43 AM CST

RobbieM wrote:

Eating picked eggs in bed and then wanting a kiss while their face is ful off egg might not be a good idea on a first date.
.

what makes you so sure that you can get hem into bed on the first date ??

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RobbieM
Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 9:00 AM CST

crotalus_p wrote:

what makes you so sure that you can get hem into bed on the first date ??

Who bloody wants too? I might have just been trying to find my car keys or house keys after dropping her home before she went for the industrial pickle jar on the bedside table.

Note to self, always make sure wear trousers with pocket space to never have to rely on letting another party carry stuff in a bad for you!!

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metalartist989
Midland USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 10:31 AM CST

lorax111 wrote:

Gads relax for gods sake, Dennis

people like you frustrate the living shit out of me. you didn't even read what I wrote the first time apparently... and you continued to try to forcefeed the "advice" ...which coincidentally involved LYING...

...wow...

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metalartist989
Midland USA

Posted: Jul 2, 2008, 10:36 AM CST

Dont_Look_Now wrote:

That is what we in the "real world" would call: Not having a life

Evenin', Bev!

yeah.. the rest of us in the real world don't spend half their waking hours on websites.

that's why it took me longer to respond.

I, unlike most of you, have better things to do.

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lorax111
richmond, Virginia USA

Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 9:54 PM CST

metalartist989 wrote:

people like you frustrate the living shit out of me. you didn't even read what I wrote the first time apparently... and you continued to try to forcefeed the "advice" ...which coincidentally involved LYING...

...wow...

Post Category: Advice

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Rickster
New York, New York USA

Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 9:57 PM CST

"bleed for a week without dying"

That's amazing!

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