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AudrysSis Riga, Riga Latvia
Just wondering how everyone else deals with this;

Lately I've been thinking, it seems to require quite a bit of an effort to remain calm and keep the faith, between the people that are not interested in you and the ones that would be interested but are already 'taken'. I see quite a few men around me on a day to day basis that would be interesting to get to know, but I have to keep in mind constantly that they are taken and it's too late. I just write them off and tell myself "ok, and this is not the one, either... but it could have been nice".... And the worst is that you have to keep seeing them, working side by side etc. Anyone knows what I mean? (I can't seem to find my 'writing cap' this morning laugh )



Dont_Look_Now Huntsville, Alabama USA
AudrysSis: Just wondering how everyone else deals with this;

Lately I've been thinking, it seems to require quite a bit of an effort to remain calm and keep the faith, between the people that are not interested in you and the ones that would be interested but are already 'taken'. I see quite a few men around me on a day to day basis that would be interesting to get to know, but I have to keep in mind constantly that they are taken and it's too late. I just write them off and tell myself "ok, and this is not the one, either... but it could have been nice".... And the worst is that you have to keep seeing them, working side by side etc. Anyone knows what I mean? (I can't seem to find my 'writing cap' this morning )


Well, you know what they say: "All the good ones are taken" laugh

Keep looking, you'll fine one that is both good and not taken thumbs up They are out there!
rasgumby Moberly, Missouri USA
AudrysSis: Just wondering how everyone else deals with this;

Lately I've been thinking, it seems to require quite a bit of an effort to remain calm and keep the faith, between the people that are not interested in you and the ones that would be interested but are already 'taken'. I see quite a few men around me on a day to day basis that would be interesting to get to know, but I have to keep in mind constantly that they are taken and it's too late. I just write them off and tell myself "ok, and this is not the one, either... but it could have been nice".... And the worst is that you have to keep seeing them, working side by side etc. Anyone knows what I mean? (I can't seem to find my 'writing cap' this morning )


Not really, if they are taken, I have no problem at all just being friends and don't even consider the other aspects of what could have been.

one question tho.. where else do you seek men?
And if this is a current picture of you, I really have a hard time believing that you have trouble meeting decent guys!

Maybe stop hanging out in the brail school

wink
thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada
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Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK
AudrysSis: Just wondering how everyone else deals with this;

Lately I've been thinking, it seems to require quite a bit of an effort to remain calm and keep the faith, between the people that are not interested in you and the ones that would be interested but are already 'taken'. I see quite a few men around me on a day to day basis that would be interesting to get to know, but I have to keep in mind constantly that they are taken and it's too late. I just write them off and tell myself "ok, and this is not the one, either... but it could have been nice".... And the worst is that you have to keep seeing them, working side by side etc. Anyone knows what I mean? (I can't seem to find my 'writing cap' this morning )
Yeah, I think I have that feeling permanently laugh I do exactly the same as you and write them off but stay friends with them. Well, I have to do as I work with them and also email them etc. The best ones are definitely all taken though, no doubt about that sad flower
trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
AudrysSis: Just wondering how everyone else deals with this;

Lately I've been thinking, it seems to require quite a bit of an effort to remain calm and keep the faith, between the people that are not interested in you and the ones that would be interested but are already 'taken'. I see quite a few men around me on a day to day basis that would be interesting to get to know, but I have to keep in mind constantly that they are taken and it's too late. I just write them off and tell myself "ok, and this is not the one, either... but it could have been nice".... And the worst is that you have to keep seeing them, working side by side etc. Anyone knows what I mean? (I can't seem to find my 'writing cap' this morning )


My sympathies, I know very well what you mean bouquet of flowers

I had the most severe crush ever one time (and it lasted ages) on a guy who was half of a couple we used to hang around with. He was round at the house often but there was no way I could do anything about it. Nobody ever knew for years, not till both of us couples split up did I tell him a thing - it really would have caused mayhem if Id let anybody know sooner. You can only ride the storm on this one and as the others have said, Mr Right for you will come along before you know it sad flower
bob1959 otisfield, Maine USA
Trish your integrity is impecable. You still have your honor and character in tact. I, evidently live on the wrong damn continent.
bob1959 otisfield, Maine USA
hardly slelp all night and it's starting to get light out .It's going to be a looooooooong day.



AudrysSis Riga, Riga Latvia
Oh yes, and the "getting over" the crushes... I am getting really good at it!! I have developed my own scheme, and it's very quick if you do it properly and go through all the stages.

rasgumby: And if this is a current picture of you, I really have a hard time believing that you have trouble meeting decent guys!


Yes, of course it's current picture (as it says on my profile). However, most guys in my age category are looking for a model to demonstrate the passenger seat of their latest BMW or MB. I'm not one, and I don't intend to pretend that I am. I have other goals and interests.



AudrysSis Riga, Riga Latvia
AudrysSis: to demonstrate the passenger seat


demonstrate? laugh decorate. posted that in a hurry.




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