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onegoodguy1959 Bedford, Texas USA
I'd love you if you just put your dirty clothes in the hamper.
I haven't found a woman who knows how to turn the dishwasher on after I load it.
I know there are women out there who aren't slobs, they just don't seem to find me attractive.
alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
onegoodguy1959: I'd love you if you just put your dirty clothes in the hamper.
I haven't found a woman who knows how to turn the dishwasher on after I load it.
I know there are women out there who aren't slobs, they just don't seem to find me attractive.
rolling eyes You've got to be kidding me. Most women would kill to find a man who even knew how to open the dishwasher. D'oh! grin



onegoodguy1959 Bedford, Texas USA
alabamabebe: You've got to be kidding me. Most women would kill to find a man who even knew how to open the dishwasher.

I wish I was. In my past life as a doormat I did all the grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry, diaper changing, household repairs, and lawncare as well as bringing in most, sometimes all, of the household income. The good news is that after an 18 year marriage like that, the next one-sided relationship only lasted 14 months.
I finally got better and grew a spine.applause
Now it's just me and my daughter, and I'm trying to teach her how to operate a dishwasher. (She does pretty good with laundry and at least knows how to operate a vacuum - though she lacks the motivation to use itlaugh )

But I ain't complaining - my past is my own damn fault.
princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
In response to: .....PICK UP THE BEER BOTTLES FROM YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS.....



beer bottles go directly under his truck tires devil
Tater springfield, Illinois USA
short anwser NO I WOULDN'T STILL LOVE YOU,

For one this is more like someone trying to give someone a guilt trip, and keeping house along with the other things mentioned, have to be done, but it should be a shared responsibility, and you wrote this as if you were saying (or generalizing men) that all of them are drunks and none of them pick up after themselves.


Another thing
alot of women have a new "to do list" everytime we get off of work, and expect us always to be in a good mood with you wheather it is when we wake up in the morning or when we come home from a horrible day a work, you do not want to hear us complain, and maybe we don't want to deal with your mother or your family over after a hard day's work when we would like to just relax for a little while, without drama. and what if we said NO everytime we have to MOVE your family into a new house and fix on their cars, their plumbing, mend their fence, fix their leak on their roof, because you volunteered us to do it when we got off of work, and we didn't even know about it until we got home... So what if we said NO..


WOULD YOU still LOVE me if I said no to those things



polishknight warsaw, Mazowieckie Poland
in human eyes love is never forever
princess49503 grand rapids, Michigan USA
Tater: short anwser NO I WOULDN'T STILL LOVE YOU,

For one this is more like someone trying to give someone a guilt trip, and keeping house along with the other things mentioned, have to be done, but it should be a shared responsibility, and you wrote this as if you were saying (or generalizing men) that all of them are drunks and none of them pick up after themselves.Another thing
alot of women have a new "to do list" everytime we get off of work, and expect us always to be in a good mood with you wheather it is when we wake up in the morning or when we come home from a horrible day a work, you do not want to hear us complain, and maybe we don't want to deal with your mother or your family over after a hard day's work when we would like to just relax for a little while, without drama. and what if we said NO everytime we have to MOVE your family into a new house and fix on their cars, their plumbing, mend their fence, fix their leak on their roof, because you volunteered us to do it when we got off of work, and we didn't even know about it until we got home... So what if we said NO..WOULD YOU still LOVE me if I said no to those things



Don't forget women work 40 + hours a week too! House work is not "extra" work, it's basic

responsilbility regardless of how many hours you worked during the week. If i'm working 40+ hours a

week and taking care of all the home responsiblities, Then sweety better pack his bags and move

back into his mama's basement!
jlw45 chandler, Texas USA
the OP reminds me of a john mayer song called ''not myself''.....simple song but, a good one.....thumbs up
Tater springfield, Illinois USA
princess49503: Don't forget women work 40 + hours a week too! House work is not "extra" work, it's basic

responsilbility regardless of how many hours you worked during the week. If i'm working 40+ hours a

week and taking care of all the home responsiblities, Then sweety better pack his bags and move

back into his mama's basement!



Like I put in red hun, I feel all of those house/kids duties should be a shared responsibility by both.
jampet wexford, Wexford Ireland
Tater: short anwser NO I WOULDN'T STILL LOVE YOU,

For one this is more like someone trying to give someone a guilt trip, and keeping house along with the other things mentioned, have to be done, but it should be a shared responsibility, and you wrote this as if you were saying (or generalizing men) that all of them are drunks and none of them pick up after themselves.Another thing
alot of women have a new "to do list" everytime we get off of work, and expect us always to be in a good mood with you wheather it is when we wake up in the morning or when we come home from a horrible day a work, you do not want to hear us complain, and maybe we don't want to deal with your mother or your family over after a hard day's work when we would like to just relax for a little while, without drama. and what if we said NO everytime we have to MOVE your family into a new house and fix on their cars, their plumbing, mend their fence, fix their leak on their roof, because you volunteered us to do it when we got off of work, and we didn't even know about it until we got home... So what if we said NO..WOULD YOU still LOVE me if I said no to those things



as all men are not beer swiling insensitive pigs, nor are we all like ^^^ that. i worked , plus did all the housework, did 90% of any house moving, mowed the lawn etc etc even had to do the damn cooking if we had a barbecue.

I guess what you ( and I ) are saying, is that it should be a 50:50 thing. I don't gut fish!! but if you will do that, i will cook it!!!handshake
lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
morningmist4: WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME IF I DID NOT KEEP HOUSE?
WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME IF I GAINED 5 POUNDS?
WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME IF I CAME HOME CRANKY FROM A BAD DAY AT WORK?
WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME IF DINNER WAS NOT ON THE TABLE AT 5:17PM EXACTLY? (YOU GET HOME AT 5:14 BUT YOU GET 3 MINUTES TO CHANGE CLOTHES.)
WOULD YOU SILL LOVE ME IF THE KIDS WERE NOT IN BED BY 9:00PM?
WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME IF I DID NOT KNOW THAT YOUR BOSS PULLED YOU ASIDE TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR DEPARTMENT WAS FALLING BEHIND AND YOU WERE ON NOTICE OF TERMINATION IF IT DID NOT PULL UP TO COMPANY STANDARDS?

WOULD YOU STIL LOVE ME IF I DID NOT KNOW WHAT YOU WERE THINKING WHEN YOU WALKED IN THE FRONT DOOR OF THE HOUSE, THE KIDS WERE RUNNING AROUND LIKE IT WAS DISNEYLAND SINCE THE MOTHER OF THE SOFTBALL TEAM GAVE THEM SODA POP AND CHOCOLATE CAFFIENE INDUCED SUGAR HIGHS, AND SINCE IT IS NOW 8:46PM AND DINNER IS NOT EVEN IN THE OVEN (I BROUGHT HOME TAKE IN BAKE PIZZA), I WAS CRANKY FROM A BAD DAY AT WORK SINCE THE COPIER BLEW UP AND DIED MY FACE BLUE SO I ATE THE BUNK CAKE AT THE OFFICE PARTY AND GAINED 5.5 POUNDS,THE HOUSE LOOKED LIKE A TORNADO HIT IT. BUT YES, I SEE YOU SITING AT THE TABLE, WAITING FOR YOUR DINNER. I WILL HAVE IT THERE AS SOON AS I PUT THE KIDS TO BED, PICK UP THE BEER BOTTLES FROM YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS, PUT THE PIZZA IN THE OVEN, BRUSH THE KIDS TEETH AND TUCK THEM INTO BED AND TAKE MY SHARE OF TYLENOL.

I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU TOO.

WOULD YOU STILL LOVE ME?



For some reason, i stopped somewhere near the beginning.



Maybe it's the capitals. D'oh!



EnSilencio Almunecar, Andalucia Spain
If a woman asked me this I walk.

How do you think a single guy lives? On take away only? With a maid doing the laundry (or mom) and cleaning up at home?

If he can run a home himself he can for sure run a home together with someone else.

If she though the model was as described by OP, I have no part in that relation.
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You did right, to even need to ask that question was showing the way.

God forbid mothers that ask their daughters to make breakfast for their brothers.





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