dutchess
Broken Arrow, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Aug 17, 2008, 6:20 PM CST
Having read everyone's reply, I have to agree with some of you, living in the NOW is the best part, which I think we tend to learn at a later age. Every stage is beautiful, because it stands on its own and we learn from it what we want to learn. Sometimes that learning happens at a later stage in life, when we remember.... but learning we still do.
I am 51 and I think I am now more aware, so not much gets lost in the happening, at least for me.
Lost youth is a big word, in my opinion nothing is lost. Aged doesn't mean more boring, uglier or whatever tag you want to put on it. Age makes things better if you choose that. Life is all about choices. Yes wisdom makes up for a lot of lost years, regardless of youth, for we can be wise even when very young and blessed you are and also cursed, ha a paradox. Yet I would not want that any different.
To say there is no future, or no joy because of the changes in the world, well, we live in awesome times I believe. Sure lots of pain, lots of tragedies, yet also lots of great changes and a deeper shift I believe in people overall. I happen to love life, have not always, but now I do, and that has happened thru self awareness, growth, exploring, willing to change and alway learning, to be openminded and to never say never, and to shift thinking into the positive. I don't mean here to be ignorant and denying reality. I am very down to earth, sometimes too much, yet have learned to accept different ways.
Well I am not writing a book here yes? Sorry, you guys got me going.