How much you can love that wheel chair???

DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:24 AM CST

arabella wrote:

My son is nineteen and in a wheelchair every day.

He is severely retarded, can't talk and has very few friends.

But I quarantee he is LOVED!!!!!

Everyone needs and deserves to be loved JMO

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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:25 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

I have a disability and i have a friend who once dated a girl who used to talk to me like i was a child.

Ya know like speaking V-E-R-Y S-l-O-W-L-Y and it was incredibly annoying but thats just ignorance for ya. I spose she meant well. Anyway most of the women i have dated have been able-bodied but i wouldn't have a problem with dating someone with a disabilty because i think its whats on the inside that counts.

I could tell a million stories on this matter but i won't bore ya

Wow....you have a great experience then....

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:26 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

I have a disability and i have a friend who once dated a girl who used to talk to me like i was a child.

Ya know like speaking V-E-R-Y S-l-O-W-L-Y and it was incredibly annoying but thats just ignorance for ya. I spose she meant well. Anyway most of the women i have dated have been able-bodied but i wouldn't have a problem with dating someone with a disabilty because i think its whats on the inside that counts.

I could tell a million stories on this matter but i won't bore ya

Bore us!

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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:28 AM CST

Claayer wrote:

Bore us!

what is going on with that girl lately....i am not talking about that stuff you are licking lately...Lol

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:29 AM CST

lola36 wrote:

what is going on with that girl lately....i am not talking about that stuff you are licking lately...Lol

haha

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:30 AM CST

RillyNiceGuy wrote:

If you loved a person without a wheelchair and they became wheelchair bound.......would you stop loving them.....no!

Then you can fall in love with a wheelchair bound person to start with.

If you can not still love a person after they become wheel chair bound....then you are more crippled in life than they.

Truly are we not all crippled in some way.....some by bad experiences and conditions.......others by fowl and self centered personalities. One by life, the other by choices,.... one acceptable and one condemnable.

Sorry, joined this thread late so trying to catch up.

I couldn't agree more. We all have imperfections or disabilities in some way. Nobody is perfect. Someone in a wheelchair has as much as anyone else to give. Oh and the one point i really want to make is that winding up disabilities (god forbid) could happen to anyone.

Nobody knows whats around the next corner.........

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:31 AM CST

Claayer wrote:

Bore us!

LOL Heloooo

Mail me sometime and i'll bore ya to death with my stories. If i typed them here, i'd end up with writer's cramp

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:32 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

Sorry, joined this thread late so trying to catch up.

I couldn't agree more. We all have imperfections or disabilities in some way. Nobody is perfect. Someone in a wheelchair has as much as anyone else to give. Oh and the one point i really want to make is that winding up disabilities (god forbid) could happen to anyone.

Nobody knows whats around the next corner.........

Oh absolutely.. When I was a teenager one of my buddies .. who was the town's male 'Top catch' ..

.. fit as a flea.. BUFF! lol good-looking etc..

He was pier jumping here with some of the others.. (we ALL used to do it)..

But this time he landed badly under the water and broke his neck.. he is a quadriplegic now.

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:32 AM CST

lola36 wrote:

Wow....you have a great experience then....

Yep, 34 and a half year's experience and counting

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:33 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

LOL Heloooo

Mail me sometime and i'll bore ya to death with my stories. If i typed them here, i'd end up with writer's cramp

haha.. better writers than... ... nevermind.

But I will!

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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:36 AM CST

Its sad how many judge solely and quickly on appearance alone.

which all of us whom have slight distinct physical charateristic of all manner, who still today are seeking someone who can invest just a little time to get beyond the outward appearance...
Hell even some of us with these characteristic are too also too judgmenta

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:36 AM CST

Claayer wrote:

Oh absolutely.. When I was a teenager one of my buddies .. who was the town's male 'Top catch' .. .. fit as a flea.. BUFF! lol good-looking etc..

He was pier jumping here with some of the others.. (we ALL used to do it)..

But this time he landed badly under the water and broke his neck.. he is a quadriplegic now.

Yeah i know a guy who went swimming in the sea a good few years ago and dived in to find out the water wasn't deep enough and he is paralysed from the neck down now. Makes ya realise there is always someone worse off, huh?

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:37 AM CST

Claayer wrote:

haha.. better writers than... ... nevermind.

But I will!

How did i know you were gonna say that?

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:38 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

Its sad how many judge solely and quickly on appearance alone.

which all of us whom have slight distinct physical charateristic of all manner, who still today are seeking someone who can invest just a little time to get beyond the outward appearance...
Hell even some of us with these characteristic are too also too judgmenta

l

That's true. People can be way too quick to judge sometimes

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:38 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

How did i know you were gonna say that?

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I'm predicta-BULL.

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:38 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

Yeah i know a guy who went swimming in the sea a good few years ago and dived in to find out the water wasn't deep enough and he is paralysed from the neck down now. Makes ya realise there is always someone worse off, huh?

Oh yeah .. :: nods head ::

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:39 AM CST

Claayer wrote:

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I'm predicta-BULL.

Nah, you just have a durty mind

Oh and before you ask, there is nothing wrong with my eyesight

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:40 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

Nah, you just have a durty mind

Oh and before you ask, there is nothing wrong with my eyesight

hahahah!

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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:43 AM CST

DUBLINGUY1973 wrote:

How did i know you were gonna say that?

One of my friend used to work as a bodyguard,he was busy traveling around the word,one day driving back home got a very bad accident ,now he was on a wheel chair for some times,thanks god getting better,last time we went out and he left his chair at home,everybody were so happy and proud of him.....even doctor does not know what is going on,he should not be walking the way he is.......but I am helping him a lot....that is the magic i think....

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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 9:44 AM CST

lola36 wrote:

One of my friend used to work as a bodyguard,he was busy traveling around the word,one day driving back home got a very bad accident ,now he was on a wheel chair for some times,thanks god getting better,last time we went out and he left his chair at home,everybody were so happy and proud of him.....even doctor does not know what is going on,he should not be walking the way he is.......but I am helping him a lot....that is the magic i think....

Awww thats great!

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