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well what if a stranger just came up to you and asked ya out you wouldn't go?? even if you were extremly attracted??

i take it you did not see the word "attraction" up there, huh? LoL!

well i did see it, but i ignored it, i thought i had an intelligent post dangit...

I'll go on the date. You never know.....he might be a decent guy.

The worst that could happen is, that he's a complete idiot and I leave before the waitress refills our

coffees.

No I wouldn't be willing to settle just to go out on a date whether he be someone I knew or just met for the very first time.

If I didn't really like that person I wouldn't waste mine or his time just to date. Wouldn't be fair to either one of us.

Just my true feelings.

Hhm... there has to be in my mind some sort of attraction because otherwise I'm not going just to get outta the house. I'd rather be with friends/family then to simply be on a date with a guy I've no intention of seeing again or developing a friendship with.

Hey man I am not getting any younger....LOL Yea attraction is nice and would like to know someone but after a year of being on here and not one date?...hmmm Hell why not ...

I had to think of the answer to this one for the last seven hours, which weren't easy as I was

I've decided I'd settle for the date as long as it's an "hot" one

I'm not really a marriage minded person anyways so no contest really

Don't read me wrong, I don't mind being shackled and losing my freedom for one night. Just not for a lifetime

That works for me


Hey Zell

Hi Marty great minds think alike

Finally a woman who places it in the words of a man!!!

How refreshing......



stay well.....

Thanks... you keep well too and carry on avoiding any dodgy shackles

Never done such a thing but wouldnt mind ...

Done it loads of times. Met some "interesting" people. Made some friends. One or two turned into relationships. Some were scary people.

I think it's like kissing frogs, if you are not at least willing to sit across a table from someone for an hour or so and chat, then how are you to get to really know anyone?

Online is all very well but people lie all the time so body language clinches it for me and you have to meet in person for that.

You have to put effort in to get anything back, even if that is just a new learning experience.

Back to HJ's risk factor again I suppose......

Its a "date" not a marriage contract.

Sure there has to be a mutual vibe happening,but nothing is written in stone and to me you never really know someone till you share time in there space.

If there isn't a connection,so be it,nothing ventured is nothing gained.
....besides nothing wrong with meeting new people and possibly making a new friend.

yup true .

If I find a person interesting, I would date them. Period.

I went out wuith a really attractive woman once, not because she was attractive, but......

She was a Puerto Rican woman from NYC, living in Florida and was Jewish. She taugh Hebrew in a Jewish school. I thought, although I don't share many things with her...it would be an interesting evening.

And it was!!

my how times have changed... back in the 70's shagging WAS the date

So, I guess that I have been pre-trained to not go out with someone just to be on a date.

that's all I'm saying........

finally, someone who knows the value of tune ups