should you go with an ex?

DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:27 PM CST

A friend of mine from Uni stoped me in town the other day, mid conversation told me she had seen her ex hubby for sex purposes, at least once a fortnight, she had also introduced her "weekend lover" to her ex, maybe this is just me, but I think this is wrong

I told her so, as she was after sympathy as a 3 some had worked out wrong

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:30 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

A friend of mine from Uni stoped me in town the other day, mid conversation told me she had seen her ex hubby for sex purposes, at least once a fortnight, she had also introduced her "weekend lover" to her ex, maybe this is just me, but I think this is wrong I told her so, as she was after sympathy as a 3 some had worked out wrong

UMMMMMMMMMM....Not something I would do no....Apparently your friend is into drama....Cause that sure is a good way to cause it!!!!!!!!!!

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:33 PM CST

they are adults and whatever they decide amongst themselves is their business!!

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LiveWyre
Woo WooTown USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:33 PM CST

I have nothing useful to a but ...thanks for the saucy post......

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LiveWyre
Woo WooTown USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:34 PM CST

*add

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DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:34 PM CST

tried to tell her they are an ex for a reason, don't think she wants to listen

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:36 PM CST

hi Di!

well there's always the blank stare and "no comment"
that might shake her tree a bit

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:38 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

A friend of mine from Uni stoped me in town the other day, mid conversation told me she had seen her ex hubby for sex purposes, at least once a fortnight, she had also introduced her "weekend lover" to her ex, maybe this is just me, but I think this is wrong I told her so, as she was after sympathy as a 3 some had worked out wrong

I agree with you.To many emotions here.Maybe she wanted her EX back,but had to see what his heart was telling her.
No kidding.Seriously.

On a much happier note. If you and your girlfriend want to revisit her three some fantasy,i can check my event planner,and get back to you on that.

Actually.This has to be a process for it to work out well.

I fell victim to this once.Oh it was something alright.

Best of luck to her.

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:39 PM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

they are adults and whatever they decide amongst themselves is their business!!

No no no SHIP!
We want DETAILS!

lol

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:41 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

tried to tell her they are an ex for a reason, don't think she wants to listen

I agree. You never go back.

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DizzyDi
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:42 PM CST

friendsfirst wrote:

I agree with you.To many emotions here.Maybe she wanted her EX back,but had to see what his heart was telling her.
No kidding.Seriously.

On a much happier note. If you and your girlfriend want to revisit her three some fantasy,i can check my event planner,and get back to you on that.

Actually.This has to be a process for it to work out well.

I fell victim to this once.Oh it was something alright.

Best of luck to her.

she did her 3 some thing with her ex hubby and weekend lover, nothing to do with me !!!

think she is playing at being seperated, as still won't let go of ex but wants to play the field

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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:46 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

she did her 3 some thing with her ex hubby and weekend lover, nothing to do with me !!! think she is playing at being seperated, as still won't let go of ex but wants to play the field

Oops i read that wrong. A threesomeone with her current partner and her ex? That' way too weird for me

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 8:51 PM CST

DizzyDi wrote:

she did her 3 some thing with her ex hubby and weekend lover, nothing to do with me !!! think she is playing at being seperated, as still won't let go of ex but wants to play the field

So she is still married ?

Or legally seperated?

Not being judge and jury or anything.

Just asking DizzyDi.

So how is the weather?

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:12 PM CST

I don't think there are any shoulds in life.

My philosophy in life is...

''Do whatever you want in life...just don't interfere with another persons freedom.''

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thewall2
montreal, Quebec Canada

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:14 PM CST

...but to answer your question,I did that ONCE when I was 20 years old.Would I DO IT AT 34?..............

NO.

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Bowie
winter haven, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:18 PM CST

it's all fun and games til someone gets hurt. Have never seen this work out to a good conclusion. Hope they all have the balls for it, or at least a lack of sensitivity.

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:28 PM CST

Bowie wrote:

it's all fun and games til someone gets hurt. Have never seen this work out to a good conclusion. Hope they all have the balls for it, or at least a lack of sensitivity.

I agree.

but then again, some people just have to go through life's twist and turns to learn. Hope they'd know how to handle the consequences when they come. :-)

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Bowie
winter haven, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:35 PM CST

Cary0608 wrote:

I agree.

but then again, some people just have to go through life's twist and turns to learn. Hope they'd know how to handle the consequences when they come. :-)

Ha, yeah, and they are coming.

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:40 PM CST

technically we're all someone's ex

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:40 PM CST

hey bowie!

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