storm88 wrote:i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to eharmony where i know ill find someone.
Well..... firstly, I don't recall seeing you before, so you haven't "put yourself out there" exactly, have you?
Don't judge all women on the responses, or lack of, as the same..... not all women's tastes are the same. Just as with us all, you won't appeal to everybody.
".... know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist)..." I take exception to that, my friend!! I don't date black men and I can assure you I am NOT racist. Why on earth does it always have to be concluded as a race issue??!! Perhaps it serves your purpose? It would be more pro-active and productive of your time and energy to find a reason.... not an excuse??
There is nothing wrong with your profile? Well, you're not trying to attract yourself, are you? That is subjective... and, besides, no profile is perfect, there is always room for improvement and should be considered a "works in progress"??
Why does the blame lie with others for the lack of responses? If you took some of the responsibility, that combined with a further review of your profile, and perhaps your approach, I am sure you will have much more success...??
Good luck!!
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