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the women here seem to be stuck up and rude




storm88
pleasant ridge USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:37 AM CST
i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to..where i know ill find someone.





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:39 AM CST
storm88 wrote:
i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to..where i know ill find someone.


Go for it then.. you reap what you sow.

I don't remember seeing you talking on the forums before?

Why don't you do that.. and join in.

A different pic might help too.. I though that was a baby. dunno


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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:39 AM CST
ok...





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WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:42 AM CST
storm88 wrote:
i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to eharmony where i know ill find someone.



Maybe next time you should start a forum to introduce yourself or participate a little.

Going off half-cocked and calling people racist isn't going to draw a long line of admiring females.

Also, e-mailing people cold is not likely to get you a response.

BTW...I never knew you were supposed to THANK people for looking at my profile. Is this a new rule???







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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:42 AM CST
snooty


at.. you pay to get ignored like this. grin





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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:44 AM CST
Oh... hmmm





Don't recall seeing you before...
dunno





Sorry you feel that way.
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patrickD
newry Ireland
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:50 AM CST
storm88 wrote:
i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to eharmony where i know ill find someone.

No Idea what your griping about
The ladies on here are sweetness and light grin
I Never get thanked for looking at a profile and would find it strange if I did laugh laugh laugh





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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:53 AM CST
i honestly think it's a good idea to keep things nice and lighthearted on the net. when u talk about heavy issues like racism...it really doesn't help. women are always picky...there r so many reasons to it. u need to take everything in a good stride instead of getting worked up. the right one will come along. :-)

anyway, good luck to u





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DUBLINGUY1973
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:00 PM CST
Somehow i doubt calling women on here stuck up, rude and racist is hardly going to get the emails flooding in. I could be wrong though.....confused





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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:13 PM CST
storm88 wrote:
i joined this site 7 months ago and just recently came back here and i see nothings changed, first off i am or i was looking for a single white female between 25 and 35. ive emailed alot of females here. they never take the time to say thank you for veiwing my profile or anything. nor do they reply back. i know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist) but anyway they could still reply back to me. there is nothing wrong with my profile. if i dont have any success within the next month. im leaving and going to eharmony where i know ill find someone.


Well..... firstly, I don't recall seeing you before, so you haven't "put yourself out there" exactly, have you?

Don't judge all women on the responses, or lack of, as the same..... not all women's tastes are the same. Just as with us all, you won't appeal to everybody.

".... know alot of white females dont date black men (due to being racist)..." I take exception to that, my friend!! I don't date black men and I can assure you I am NOT racist. Why on earth does it always have to be concluded as a race issue??!! Perhaps it serves your purpose? It would be more pro-active and productive of your time and energy to find a reason.... not an excuse??

There is nothing wrong with your profile? Well, you're not trying to attract yourself, are you? That is subjective... and, besides, no profile is perfect, there is always room for improvement and should be considered a "works in progress"??

Why does the blame lie with others for the lack of responses? If you took some of the responsibility, that combined with a further review of your profile, and perhaps your approach, I am sure you will have much more success...??

Good luck!!

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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:33 PM CST
get bent ya big baby

ya gotta be in it to win it

if youre lookin for instant gratification
go to a massage parlor

good things take time to cultivate

rather than crappin in the soil maybe you should plant some seeds

not said gently but all valid suggestions

i mean seriously there are literally thousand of people on this site and only about 30 come into forums regularly so why holler at us?

when you see a stranger in the coffee shop how often is your response more than a polite hello

you might have started with that at least

if we were so stuck up we wouldnt be bothering talking to you now
but you clearly need a bit of tough love

we welcome you
but no one likes to be abused-or judged right out of the gate

DUH





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Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:36 PM CST
thousand imeant thousand-
thousands of people on this site
at least 4,000

goodness
maybe you are the picky one

besides we are all adults and we are all allowed to make choices without explaining them

you assume too much
someone believeing they are rejected because of color or weight or finance-
its all the same
its a belief in limit for love-
believe what you like

im old and have kids and some what overweight and very blunt and clumsy in relationships
but i still believe there is someone for me

but then im also crazy




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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:37 PM CST
mindfful wrote:
get bent ya big baby

ya gotta be in it to win it

if youre lookin for instant gratification
go to a massage parlor

good things take time to cultivate

rather than crappin in the soil maybe you should plant some seeds

not said gently but all valid suggestions

i mean seriously there are literally thousand of people on this site and only about 30 come into forums regularly so why holler at us?

when you see a stranger in the coffee shop how often is your response more than a polite hello

you might have started with that at least

if we were so stuck up we wouldnt be bothering talking to you now
but you clearly need a bit of tough love

we welcome you
but no one likes to be abused-or judged right out of the gate

DUH


All valid observations ...... not sure if I'd have worded it the same way - but it does get the point across!





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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 12:37 PM CST
storm88 wrote:
im leaving and going to eharmony where i know ill find someone.
wave If your attitude doesn't change, you won't have any better luck anywhere. But best wishes for ya in your search. thumbs up





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p_seg
Central, Xlokk Malta
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 2:15 PM CST
Haven't read all the thread, but all I can say is that all the women I've interacted with on this site were all friendly. Ok, might have had disagreements with some, but these were solved amicably, after all that's part and parcel of life.





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WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 2:19 PM CST
p_seg wrote:
Haven't read all the thread, but all I can say is that all the women I've interacted with on this site were all friendly. Ok, might have had disagreements with some, but these were solved amicably, after all that's part and parcel of life.


thumbs up thumbs up
thank you, kind sir!





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WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA
Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 2:23 PM CST

Fine... I'm off to terrorize the Obama libs...
laugh laugh





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