The age thing stopped me, what do you think

Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:00 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

Maybe I should flip a coin and chase one of those Phillipine Lady's they don't care at all about aget and neither do there parents...

lol...don't even start!we're pretty much the same as everyone...this has nothing to do with culture or nationality...

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sxc666
Central Coast, New South Wales Australia

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:02 PM CST

True love has no barriers.

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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:32 PM CST

sxc666 wrote:

True love has no barriers.

But to be shackled and chained .......... makes it interesting!

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VDLL1972
Rockin', California USA

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:46 PM CST

SatelliteServer wrote:

stayed at a Motel a year ago and just stayed there a little while ago, the owner of the place is 28 and had me stare'n...

On entry and staying there the second time I seen her in the Hall and told her how worried I was about her and the holiday she had went on the past year, seems there was a plane crash in a Brazil Airport...

Anyhoo, after talking with her for a long time as I wanted to hear all about her holiday and waited to hear some guy picked her up but nothing of the sort and lets just say I have a hard time keeping my eyes of her, so talking one night I mention some fun I had on a Holiday with a female friend, that was a no no she started getting jealous and doctor smooth was caught in a awkward situation, time goes buy and when ever I had to phone the office for what ever I made sure I could speak with her... last night I phone down and ask for her and tell her I have to check out...

Next morning she walks by my room and I call her she comes in I say oh here is the key and I get a 50/50 she's giving me the look and my mind starts to melt, eyes fixed on the keys and hand it to her and said thanks for everything and hope her next flight is a good one...

Cut a solo down the road and some breathes I take as I just have it for her,

So it's been a little while and I can't get her out of my mind and had a dream about her and I was telling her I have it for you......

She is 28 and thats what is holding me back as I am 41, thought of pulling the midnight run to her vehicle and leaving a flower on it with a note from Doctor Love... still can't get the 28 outta my mind

So what ya folks thing should I stay of should I go? Midnight run or just behave and mind your own age?

and right about now I could surely use Auntie Clairs advice cause I have to put my mind on Ice...

Go for it ... Age is nothing but a number

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kare65
brisbane, Queensland Australia

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:56 PM CST

Maturity is the big factor.................. but yeah i know wat u mean with a rule for your self i have that too lol

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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:56 PM CST

VDLL1972 wrote:

Go for it ... Age is nothing but a number

At a certain point yes ........... and I know for myself that I've shied away from getting involved with someone younger than myself because I didn't want to hold anyone back from having kids (as it seems alot of men wait because of their education/careers) ...................... now being in the place that I am now and knowing what I know ......... I wouldn't have let that happen. Let each person decide for themselves what they desire in a relationship and don't transpose your own ideas onto the other person.

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WhatUwish4
Jacksonville, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 10:58 PM CST

28 is plenty old enough for her to know her mind. Besides, it's only 13 years. REally, no biggie.
Go for it!

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AudrysSis
Riga, Riga Latvia

Posted: Jul 7, 2008, 11:46 PM CST

That's not a huge age difference, and you both could be just right for each other, who knows...

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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 12:05 AM CST

Show her the goods, don't hold back make her your love slave...yeah...

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friendsfirst
Burbank, Illinois USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 12:15 AM CST

Go for it Pal.You only live once.

You act as if you were on one knee with a ring in your hand.

Don't go around WONDERING,,if i only.

If she beats ya up,you can always fall back on the C.S. group for support.

You made her a bit jealous.I see green light for you.It means GO!

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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 12:32 AM CST

Go for it man, 51/38 is working for me right now.

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Cary0608
Mandaluyong City, Quezon City Philippines

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 6:41 AM CST

alabamabebe wrote:

Go for it man, 51/38 is working for me right now.

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karen1973
Southampton, Hampshire, England UK

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 6:52 AM CST

Go for it!

There is 17 years between me and my partner. I am 35 and he is 52. Just because she is a younger woman, dont let that put you off!

Good luck!

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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 6:58 AM CST

Beats me why are are asking in a forum.

Your own maturity seems to have gone out the window.

The only way you are going to find out if she really likes you enough to date you, is to ASK HER!!! Not us!!!

Running around thinking up possible scenarios in your head that probably will never happen is just an aberraton. What is that going to achieve except that you drive yourself demented?

This is not about what YOU are going to do with HER life. She will, at 28, have a mind of her own.

She may be into older men or not, and the only way you will find out is to ASK HER!!!! Any possible relationship takes TWO people making decisions.

Ask her out. She can only say no.

You will know for sure then and not be driving your self crazy making up scenarios about what MIGHT, possibly happen.

You will KNOW for sure.

Then go with it, or leave it.

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 7:00 AM CST

whoever created the statement that age is nothing but a number was probably a dirty old man and should have been euthanized!!

JMHFO....of course!!

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bodleing
Greater Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 7:08 AM CST

shipoker55 wrote:

whoever created the statement that age is nothing but a number was probably a dirty old man and should have been euthanized!!JMHFO....of course!!

Age IS nothing but a number,

that represents how old you are.

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 7:10 AM CST

bodleing wrote:

Age IS nothing but a number,that represents how old you are.

and how very young the other person is.

I went to apply for Social Security, I was told I had to be 62!! I said Age is nothing but a number!!

They called security.........go figure!!

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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 7:12 AM CST

Awww go for it dear.....that can be your women.....

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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 7:15 AM CST

Love is bounded only by the intentions of your heart.

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ooby_dooby
Ashland, Virginia USA

Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 8:29 AM CST

Are you crazy?
Do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if?
Trust me on this, 20 years from now you'll still be wondering what you could have had but didn't because you came up with all kinds of reasons why it wouldn't work instead of just throwing caution to the wind.

BTW that 5 year rule is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of. People are not numbers!

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