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sometimes getting the first "NO", is merely a test to see your strength of feelings/conviction over the issue at hand.

Believe it or not "instant approval/agreement" is not always the best path for either considering becomoing involved with one another.

Of course it depends what your "intentions"are with the woman

You must be temporarily insane doubting it! Definitely go for it. From what you're saying looks like there is a mutual attraction. 13 years difference is nothing between 2 mature adults. The outcome is unpredictable NOT because of the age difference, but just because... it will depend on BOTH of you.

From my experience: For 7 years I was in a relationship with a man who was 12 years my senior and he was all I could look for in a man (including being a much better lover then my ex-husband who was the same age as me)

It won't be long before you 2 know if you are good for each other... But to know, you have try so NO REGRETS afterwords

Live your life or live in fear. The "choice" is yours and yours alone..

P.S. I also try to leave by the rule +- 5 years, but there are no rules without exceptions when you come across a strong mutual attraction and potentially a beautiful life-long relationship

my mama tell me .love when you can with all you can . if not you have more regrets that never go away grab her with both hands

HHHmmmmmmmmm!!! / /

LISTEN TO MAMA!!!!!!!

Want to up that 12 a few?

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Want to up that 12 a few?

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40 and 34 seems to be working for me right now too.....

WHAT--in Heaven's name--are you waiting for??? I see from your profile that you have religious beliefs. If you can benefit from my experience, then you'd realize that age makes NO difference!! When I was 28 (many moons ago!), I definitely would have considered someone 13 years older! I've always been more interested in finding my soulmate than to giving age a second thought!

I have had relationships with men my own age (which did not work out!), with older men (which did not work out), and with much younger men (including my husband, my soulmate!!). Regardless, there were life lessons to learn from each of these relationships . I believe that any romance that I have ever had made me the person I am, and while it took 52 years, each of those relationships prepared me to meet, love, and appreciate the one whom God intended me to be with!!

Someone I respect once said to me: "Well, one of you has to be older!" In other words, GO FOR ITI!!!! What, pray tell, do you have to lose?? (JMO, of course!)

BTW, nice to meet you , and best of luck to you! Keep us posted, okay?

age doesn't bother me when it's in a respectable range , not something like 15 yr going out with someone that 30-34 people are too busy i like this about her or i like that, i hate this, i hate that ect amplify that way of thinking on a thousandth scale humanity in gonna be the next thing the endangered list LOL
advice: love the things at that different, strange and ain't normal <within a limit> called being unique

Nope, it was an 18 yr old boy with the hots for anything with boobs.

Your mama is a smart woman.

Anytime, babe


if most of the other criterion compatible

wow now theres feed back, more yeps than no's....

Well, I have no clue what your criteria is. As for me, I really have no expectations. When I have expectations, I set myself up for disappointment..