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Hey Manda,I am sold on personality but most are to shallow to even try and see what one's heart has in it.I have been a member three different times on cs and send lots of flowers,wonderful e-mails,and try to be sensitive and funny.But most dont even heve the sense to say thanks but no thanks!Most all flowers and e-mails get opened but not responded to.You are very pretty and if you have a great personality to go with it then it's a matter of time for you.Are you living in a gay community or what!LOL NO OFFENSE TO GAYS BUT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.

Hi Lagoona how are you ? warm enough ?

You like your food... I agree though. There has to be some kind of attraction but personality is very important.. to me anyway.

Sweaty is the word, innit??

but ladies glow !!!

hi morgan

have you looked at your previous partners this way? (i mean going for looks first, then for personality)

how did it work for you?

I understand what Morgan is saying, makes sense to me.

For me it's definitely a combination.

If the person doesn't turn me on physically I can't be with that person - then he's no more than a friend to me. If there's no chemistry what so ever mentally, I can't either, because then there's nothing to base a relationship on other than sex (and that will won't last).

But a person is not necessarily ugly or uncharming, just because he has a little fat on the side bones. He has to be somewhat healthy and not a heart attack just waiting to happen, but other than that I find it charming no matter how a person looks, as long as he knows what to wear and dresses nicely.

hello alex there has had to be something to attract me, i went out with a guy that was very good looking but mentally he did not stimulate me at all so i only saw him that one time. My husband was not physically attractive and 15 yrs older than me but had a fun personality we were married 16 yrs, the initial attraction was not looks but something from inside of him

Well.....imo only shallow people think looks are more important, and as far as I am concerned they can have one another!!!

True beauty comes from within, from your heart and the way you live your life. Truly beautiful people don't care what's on the outside.

Never judge a book by it's cover.

I am greedy
I want both

..please make up your mind sweety.....

if i dont know the person then looks matter to me at first ,but once the initial attraction has wore down then its all personality . so i agree with most of you

must look pleasing to the eye or i wont waste time ,a persons personality can be changed over time yes ? ,looks cant .i want to wake up 20 years down the line and still see my handsome lover smile at me and cause butterflys ,oh la la i love being in love

Today it's personality!! Tomorrow, I'm back to ...boobies!!

i apologize people ,this is my friend sky she wanted to reply but forgot to add her name to the post ,so il say it for her . no she wont make a profile either the stuck up moo

what an interesting personality ..

she now wants me to check up on you dont show her any attention she will just use you lmfao (shes in the bathroom wait till she sees this my ass is well kicked)

i am sorry, i thoght you were talking about physical atraction, as no one can get the anything from the inside of the person by looking at his picture

i belive you have not meet your husband on the net, but in real life, then is when you can feel the atraction for inner values

but nowadays, whee people claim that they have to feel some kind of atraction, when they "look" at the profile, that means only physical atraction