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Yep- always with you

Well said, Jan.

It's personality, for sure..with the looks to match.

Looks........I have to wake up beside him every morning dont I......

i gotta say it's 50% / 50% default , maybe it's what she say's ? how she moves? perhaps something she wrote that sparked interest it's time spent with that person that really should alter the default 50/50
or 0/0 for both man or woman but thats wishful thinking LOL normally it's 1 thing RIGHT NOW that gets it going and when it gone for some reason, hey game over man

w0w i cant believe how many responded to that...

For me.. honestly.. personality first.. looks second.

i know and feel it every time i reply to a profile, they dont even take the time to answer,after showing and telling them how you think and feel,an honest response would be much better than hitting the delete button,so as far as i can say its most definetly looks .
when will poeple realise that it only works that way on tv. in the movies the good looking poeple always running of into the sunset,in real life the run into the fire pit and get burned.
i know my heart is true and honest and to me that is more important and one day shell figure tat out,besides if you have a good looking partner,he or she is looked at by other poeple and lusted over ,hense the divorce rate around the planet.

Hey, anyone can have plastic surgery or go on a diet or work out, Claire, but what you do if you have little or no personality? Just seems unfair to me somehow...

I just wanted to reply to this forum and accidently sent mandapanda4u an email, sorry about that hope you don't mind. But anyway, I beleive that an honest person with a great personality will get further in life, than most people that are so superficial. I've only met a couple of people on this site, that can truly step outside themselves. me,me,me, it's allabout me!!!! ha!!!

Looks gets you interested, but personality makes a match!

Personality first and foremost, sense of humor second, looks last.

I'd rather date a guy with a great personality than date a cute guy with the personality of drywall

You can have personality without the looks,but looks without personality doesnt mean much.But it sure helps if u dont have to put a sack over their head.

A little extra weight doesnt make u ugly,in fact ur very pretty.:

I think its a balance between both..... First you have to be attracted to him.... If the personality attracts you first then great.... Sometimes we like the looks and there is no personality.....

True, and ultimately it will be the personality that keeps us interested. I'll describe my friends by their personality - not their looks.

I'm glad to see so many women say personality first. You can see from my pic that I have no looks.

What a bunch of bull ........ actually not sure why your picture is down ...... but I remember you (especially clean shaven)

I've seen you before Dave, you're wrong.