Ladies,Why is it?

Seuss
Paola, Kansas USA

Posted: Jul 23, 2008, 2:24 PM CST

Tater;
I don't know. You tell me. Well, I guess you already have. I think that men come across and give us signals that you like us, then you pull away. What is it you want? You either like a woman or you don't.
I like a guy who is real, does not play games. People have been hurt. Maybe women are confused. I will admit, I have felt that way from time to time. I do not go to bars to meet guys, so that I cannot relate.
It does make me feel good, when a guy shows interest in me. That is natural.

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alex_192
sarasota USA

Posted: Jul 23, 2008, 2:34 PM CST

Seuss wrote:

Tater;
I don't know. You tell me. Well, I guess you already have. I think that men come across and give us signals that you like us, then you pull away. What is it you want? You either like a woman or you don't.
I like a guy who is real, does not play games. People have been hurt. Maybe women are confused. I will admit, I have felt that way from time to time. I do not go to bars to meet guys, so that I cannot relate.
It does make me feel good, when a guy shows interest in me. That is natural.

a guy can be a perfect gentelman to every women
he can like a women
she can show real interest on a women

but it does not necesary means he is romantically interested in tat women

i will open doors and puul chairs for my date, the same way i will do for any women that in goling into a store or some one that will sit next to me in any social event

i will call my date next day to thank her for the vening, and inquire things about her
i might call her every day if at some point she mentioned something that worries her or something personal that i want to folow up (like a son grandson sick) but that do noe mean i am interested in her romantically
i am interested in her the same way i am intereste in every human being that some how is in my life

no games
no mixed signals

the fact i dont kiss her up to now shuld be a hint

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ANurse4U
Memphis, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 23, 2008, 2:43 PM CST

Tater wrote:

Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?

Men do this also.

This is called mind games and I leave that for the children to play.

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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jul 23, 2008, 2:43 PM CST

Tater wrote:

Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?

i hear ya and agree, i used to work in bars and i could tell you some stories about the games people play